面对妻子出轨怎么办，心理专家给男人的四点建议

laopochuguilegaizenmeban,zheishibuguangezainagenanshengdeshenshangdouhaowuyiwenshiyigezhongbangxiaoxidingshizhadan,yexumeiyigenanshengdefanyingbuyiyang,danqizichuguizheijianshiqingjinanshengchanshengdexinlizhuangtaichongjixingshiyiyangcunyoude。laopochuguiwogaizenmeban？zuoweinansheng,zuidanxindemoguobeidailvmao,danruoneiyangdeshierqueshifashengle,yezhiyouquyingduita。womenyiqilaikanyixiaxinlixuezhuanjiayouguanlaopochuguilegaizenmebandechudeyixietiyi。mianduiqizichuguizenmeban？

wangminxiaogushi:qizichugui,xiaohuobanmendouquanwoliyi,wogaizenmezuo？

qizichuguiyinianle,wogangfajue。wohexifuwanhunsannian,youyugongzuozhongguanlian,woyizhigongchuzaiwaimian。jiuzaiqianjiriwofaxianqizichuguideshier,wohenshengqi,keshiwangxixiaohai,wobuyuanyiliyi,ciwaiwoduitayeyeyouqinggan。womingbaizishenzheijiniangongchuzaiwaimiancuxindayileta,danshitayebukeyizuoneiyangbaoqianwodeshiera!rujinxifuyebuyuanliyi,keshixintaimeishenmegaijin,woneixinnanyijiena。meiyicixiangqitaheneigerenzaiyiqideqingjing,neixinjiuganjueexinxiangtu。shenpangdepengyouqinrenwangzheworijianxueshoudouquanwoliyi,woneixinhenfenqi,buqingchuxubuxuyaoheqiziliyi?

laopochuguiwogaizenmeban？zuoweinansheng,henyoukenengzuihaipadezuidanxindebianshizishendenvxingweizijidai“dailvmao”le。zheileiqianyishizhongdejihuihehaipa,haoxiangshenzhizaimeiyigenanrendeneixin。yingbuyinggaihelaopoliyi,tarenruhejuedebuzhongyao,guanjiandeshinizijidetihuihehengliang。

jinanshengsidiantiyi,qinghengliangyixia:

最先,考虑到自身的心里能不能均衡

zaizuofufuzixundeanlizhong,yibancunyouneiyangyigeguilvxing。jiarubicimeiyou“yuanzewentidenanti”,tongchanghuimoheqihao、xiubuhao。erjiaruyifangfashengle“yuanzewentidenanti”zezheiyiduanhunyinshenghuojiangzaoyuyanjunxingshi。waiyuhehunhouchugui,xianeryijianshi“yuanzewentidenanti”。youyu,xifuchuguineiyangdeshier,duobanhuidaozhilaogongxinlijidadebupinghengli。jiuruxiaogushizhongnanzhujiaoxinlidejidabiequ、zenghendengbupinghengli。jiaruyaoxianghunyinshenghuojianchixiaqu,neimayidingshiyaokeyijunhengxinlizheileitongchuhebupinghengli。jiarujunhengbushang,neimazhihouzairichangshenghuoheyingduibicizhijianshi,bicideguanlianbianhuichuzaiyizhongshidiaozhong,wufazhangqifazhanqushi。youshi,yushijingzishuaihuailejiuqueshisuilewufazaihaiyuan。fuqizhijianyongyouhunhouchuguihuowaiyuhoudesunhaitongchangbianshizheiban。mianduiqizichuguizenmeban？

次之,逐渐自我反省

“wenchongbudingwufengpinjiededan”huacaolibucao。yidingqixiandajiadehunyinshenghuofashenglenanti,suihoucaihuishihunyinshenghuozhongdeyigerenxunzhaohunneichuguijiyu。yinci,qidaipengdaoxifuchuguinanrenkeyijingxialaixiangyixiang,zishenzaihunyinshenghuozhongshifouhaozhangshijianhushilelaopodetihui,huoshijinjinyiweideyizhaozishendejuedequaita,danzishenjidebingbingbushilaoposuoyaoxiangde。neiyangxiangyixiang,henyoukenenghuijiangdiyixieduichuguiqizidenaonuhezenghen。yucitongshiyehuiranglaopoganjuelaogongkeyiduitayouyixielejie,duixiubuliangrendeqingganshiyouxiezhude。

第三,再次思考大家中间的情感

congzhishangxiaogushizhong,dajiakeyiganshoudaodeshilaogongxinliduilaoposhenshendideai。jiusuantazuochuneiyangdesunhailaogongdeshier,laogongyiranyaoxiangzaici。shubuzhilaoposhibushiyetongyangdeailaogongshifeichangzhidesisuode。xiaogushijirendejuedeshi,laogongailaopobilaopoailaogongyaoduoyixie,huoshiduohenduo。laogongbixusisuoyixiazishenjiyutadeai,zhendeshitasuobixudeaima?yaobushi,niyebixujingxiaxinyongxindelaixiangyixiang,nimenshibushiqueshiheshizaiyiqi。mianduiqizichuguizenmeban？

第四,看老婆对婚姻生活是不是有确立的心态

yaowoduizhishanghunyinshenghuobukailangdeshixifuchuguizaibeifajuehoudexintai,tadexintaimeiyouxianzhudegaijin。rangwohaizaiyouyixietichuzhiyitashibushihaishenaizhezishendelaogong,yetichuzhiyitakandairujinhunyinshenghuodexintai。huoxuliangrenbixuwanquandehaohaoditanyitan。laogongruxiangzaicihunyinshenghuo,zuixianyaojiandaolaopoduihunyinshenghuozhihoudeyigequelidexintai,tadexinshibushiyiranzaizheigehunyinshenghuozhong?huozuishaoxiangyaozaicifanhuizheiyihunyinshenghuozhong?zheihenzhongyao。buran,laogongdekuanrongjinjinweizijizaiyicifushangdejiyubale。

zongjie:laopochuguiwogaizenmeban？yigenanrenxiangyaokuanrongzishenqizichugui,yidingshizheigenanrenhenhenaizhezheiyinvxing。keshizhiyouyigerendeaishibunengweichihunyinshenghuode,yinciaiyoushihouyehuichanshengsunhai,qingnanrenmenshensishulvkaoliangshangbiansidian,suihoujinidehunyinshenghuozuochuzishendejuece。