老公该如何面对妻子出轨，老婆出轨真实短信是怎样的？

suhuashuodehao：luomadiguofeiyiriwangong！qizichugui，qingnihaohaoxiangxiangnantichuzainaer？laopochuguizhenshiduanxinshizenyangde？ruguoshinixifu，neimenizenyangyingduiqizichuguideni？shumadenvrenrongyichuguima？jiarunizaoyibuhuizaiaita，yaoshimeiyouxiaohai，niyouwufarongrenzheiyizhuangkuang，neimejiujianjuelihunba!yifangzishenyibeizizuo“yuanfu”，weihaileliangrendezhangjiuxingfukuaile。miaozugunianghuichuguima？

keshi，jiaruyongyouxiaohai，huoshiniyaoshenaizheta，erzheyouqiyidehua，neimajiuniyaoshoulianxinggaoaodexingzi，pouxiqizichuguideyuangu，zhaodaofangfancuoshi，qinfenwanliuqizi、wanhuihunyin，rangtadaishangxinhuijiale。

一、工作中日理万机，对妻子鄙夷少思。

xuduozhangfuyouyupingchangtaimang，zerenxintaiqianghuoshigongzuozhongyalida，yizhipijuanyujiaoji，wangjizijizuoweizhangfudezeren。wangjilexifushizishenwanlitiaoyiqulaide，wangjileguoqumeiridehuayanqiaoyu，duiqiziyezongshifanlaizhangkou，yilaishenshou，naizhiduiqiziguanzhuzishendehuadouganjueshixutaohebukanchengshou。zaiwaimiangongzuozhongtitieruwei，zaijialifanerzuoqileyeermen，duiqizimeishenmetiexintengaiketan。erqizizhangqixinghezhangfugoutongjiaoliubuchang，jingshenkongxu，xinliguduyayigan。miaozugunianghuichuguima？jiaruchulaigongzuozhong，pengdaoguanzhuzishendewanshannanren，jiufeichangrongyibeidadong，beiganxiangfenghenwan，feichangrongyihongxingchuqiang。zheiyiquanshijiejiujingshenmezuizhongyaoni？youxierenshuochengqiancai，youxierenshuochengfangwu，youxierenshuochengshenxinjiankang，youxierenshuodeshiganqing。shijishangrenshengdaoluzuizhongyaodeshiruguoniqueshenmedeshihoushenmezuizhongyao。

 dangqizizaizhangfuneibiancongganqingshangbukeyihuodedadaodeqingkuangxia，zaiwaimianpengdaoshihedeturangcengjiufeichangrongyizizhangchuwaiyunanti。yinciqizichugui，zaiqizhongyigejudadeyuangubidingshiganqingshangbukeyihuodedadao。zuoweiyigelixianghuadezhangfu，gangongzuozhongyizhizhuiqiuwanmeizhishanzhimei，meiyoucuo。keshiyebubihushiduibabamamadeaiyi。gongzuozhongriliwanjiyebukeyihushijiazhongdeyiwu，gengbukeyiduiqizibiyishaosi。youyuzheizhongquanshidianbaojiatingmaodundedaohuosuo。

二、结婚后对妻子欠缺了以前的赏析。

zhenduinvreneryan，xuanzeyigenaxiedenanrenrichangshenghuo，zaiyidingshuipingshang，juecelejianglaideshenghuopinzhihexingfukuailedu。yingguoshehuijingjixueqicaisamouersenyiqianduixingfukuaileganleyigejiedinghuaxuefangcheng：xingfukuailexiangdangyuxiaoyingchuyuchongdong。dangxiaoyingbuhuigaibiandezhuangkuangxia，chongdongyuxingfukuailefanbi。jichongdongyueda，xiaoyingyuedi，chongdongyuexiao，xiaoyingyuegao。shumadenvrenrongyichuguima？zhenduiyigenvreneryan，jiaruzhangfuzishizhizhongkeyilejietadegexinghua，shangxitadeyoushi，jieshoutadequexian，erqierangtachangkuaidechongfenfahuizishendeqianli，neima，zheiyizhangfubudandangzuolezhangfu，haidangzuolepenyou，zhixin，lianrenneiyangderenwujiaose，dangyigenanrenzaiqizixinliwukequdaiqingkuangxia，qitayiqieyigenanrenquanshidisanzhechazubujinqude。erzheiyizhangfuduizheiyiqizieryanyebiranshicishengzuihaoderen。

dangnanrenzaijialiqizhudaodiweishi，yaoduojiandaonvrendeyoushi，youyunvrenqueshaozixinshi，qingxubianhuiyayigan，zaizheileizhuangkuangxia，jiaruzaiyurenxiangchuzhong，huodebiedenanrendehaowuyiwen，xunzhaogengzudezixinxinshi，jiuhenyoukenengsixukaowaile。nanrenduojiandaonvrendeyoushi，bianhuirangnvrenduoyixiezixinxin，neiyangdenvrencaihenyoukenengzhudongdandangjiazhongdeyiwu，caihuijiazhongduizhangfudeganqing。dangyigeqizijuededaozhangfudechongniyujiatingdexingfukuailedehua，jianxintashiyougongzuonenglididangwaibudeyinyoude。

wangwangwaiyu，zhijieyuanyinshizaijialiquefaanquangan。wangwangbuwaiyu，shiyouyubuquefaanquangan。mingbaileneiyangdebenzhiluojixing，xiangxinniyehuilejieleqizidewaiyu。renfeishengxian，youshishihaodibuguoyique。keshi，ruguonidonglemeigerendoushihuizuocuoshideqingkuangxia，niyehuigaoqingchu，qizichugui，zhangfuyeshiyouyiwuzai，zuoweizhangfuderenzenyangyingduiqizichuguishihunyinshenghuonengbunengjianchixiaqudeguanjiandian。jiranquleta，weihejiubukeyiyirujiwangdeshangxitani？jirannantichulai，bixudebianshiyingyongdi，jijidiquyingdui。zuoheliditianbuhewanliu，shengyuqianwandemaiyuanhedachaodanao。

三、本身心理状态和情商智商能力建设不够。

suhuashuodehao：“niaosuifengluanxiangyuanyuan，renbanxiannengpinzigao”。yingduihunwailian，dajiayinggaizenmeban？qizichugui，zhangfuyededuocongbenshencengmiankaolvdao。jiehunhouzishenshifouyouhushitishengbenshendesuzhi，huoshiduizishenmeiyougaoxiedejingshenzhuiqiu。shifouzishendejingshenmianmaobukeyiheqizitongbufazhanqushi。ruguoshizheixiefangmiandeyuangudehua，qiziyebukeyizaiyiguoqudemuguangziwoxinshangle。haodeganqinghehaodehunyinbidingshiqingtouyihe，xianghuzhijianlijie，yitongzhichengdian，tongbufazhanqushide。zuoweiyigechusedezhangfu，yaoyouyigetaiyangyiyangdexinlizhuangtai，yaowenzhong，youyoumogaoxiao。bujinyouzhilijiejuegongzuozhongdenanti，youyouqingshangzhishangjiejuegezhonggeyangrenjijiaowang。shumadenvrenrongyichuguima？wulunshijiehunqianhuoshijiehunhou，doububihushibenshendexinlizhuangtaiheqingshangzhishangnenglijianshe。

yaorangzishenyouyigewenxindejiarichangshenghuo，zuozhangfudejiuxuyaosuzaozishenpojufengcaidegexinghua。zuixian，yaoyouyigezishenrentongde，erqiezhenxinshiyixiaideshier，bingqiezheiyishierkeyichanshengjingjifazhanshouyi。youyuzheiyishier，nenggoushinihuodezixinxin，congrong。cizhi，zhenduicaifu、weiwang、quanlimeiyoutaiguodexingquaihao，bujiyuqiucheng，doubuyangaoshoudi，gengxiangyaozhuiqiuwanmeixinlidefengfuhedadao。zuizhong，yaobazijideqizizuoweizishenzheiyishengzuifeichangzhidezuiaideren，yutabaitouxielaoxiangsui，chonglai，shenghuoshangxianghufuchi，jingshenshizhishangtongbupianpianqiwu，xiangqinxiangyuan，gongchuangjianglai。yigenanrenzhenzhenzhengzhengdefengcai，bushinijilingyifangliuyouxingfudediyiyinxiang，zhishilingyifangrenshinixuduonianyihou，yiranxiaihenizaiyiqi。jiaruzhangfukeyirangqizidaxinlishangxini，chongbaini，neimataweishenmehuisuibianwaiyuni?

四、不明白另一方的情，就没法溫暖另一方的心。

jiaruaishinuande，sheidouburongyixinsui。ruguoaishiqueshi，sheidouburongyixinhan。qizijiushinidangshitiaoxuandedeyongyishengquguanaidelianren，xianrujintachuguile，neimabidingshiduinixinhuiyileng，huoshinimeiyouyongzishendeganqingwennuantadexin，huoshijiushinimeiyouchusedaokeyishitashuxinzuonideqizi。nvrenjihuquanshilixingde，zaiganqingdequanqiulishizhongshiqidaiai，xuyaoaide。keshidangtadebixubukeyidadaodeqingkuangxia，tadeneixinbianhuizaoshouyayiganhesunhai。ziran，neiyangshuobingbushishuolejietadewaiyu，zhishishuozheijianshiqingwaiyudeyixieyuangu，zhangfumenzaiyudaoneiyangdeshier，zuixianyaoxiangdeshiqizichuguiyingbuyinggaikuanrong。zaihunyinshenghuoli，shuobailedejiazhongdashierquanshichengqianshangwansuoshileijidaoyidingshuipinghoubaofade。aiyizhineimadeyichujifa，wushengwuxiyoumeiyoudadaoli，chaoyueleshijian，chaoguoleshineikongjian。meiyoujigerenkeyijiangdeqingxi，daodegaoqingchu。

laopochuguizhenshiduanxinshizenyangde？rutongqizichugui，dangshinenggouaizheni，ziranhaikeyimishangtaren。wangwangbuzaiyinideganqingsunhaini，neishiyouyutazishendexinhuoxuzaozaoyibeisunhai，huoshizishendeganqingmeiyoubeinigaoduzhongshi。zhenduiwaiyudeqizieryan，youshichukaikuijiu，henyoukenengdaliangdeshiguduhekeling。youyuwaiyuzhongjiuyemaozheduoshaodefengxianxing。yikeposuidexin，bixudebingbushitianbuzhishimingbai。renshengdaolurenshengmeiyouruguo，zaoyichanshengdeshiermeifagenggai，bixudeshiyonglejiehebaorongquzhongguiyuhao。“wumaitianqiyixiaosan，jiangshuihuarouqingsishui。wenjunjiduochou，boyunbanyouyou”。huoxujiushinizaiyilingyifangguoduo，yincicaihuiyouxinchongchong。huoxushiyouyuniaitaguoduo，yincicainanyishihuai。

meiyifenganqingquanshilejiezhongxinxinxiangyin，meiyikezhenxinshiyiquanshikuanrongzhongfengyutongzhou。rendeyishengzhongmeiyouyifanfengshundeshier。hunyinshenghuoyeshiyigeronglu，nenggourongrongyiqieyiwanghetongku，nenggoulianchuyikekantoudeyushidelianghaodexintai。shinanrenjiuxuyaoxuehuichengshou，xuehaoxiaorong，xuehaowangque，wanqiangyongganyidian，xuezheyiwangwuqiankanyixiejingse，shangxicanlandeyangguang。jianxinshijiannenggouyizhiyiqiewaishang。shengmingzhongmeiyicidetongchuquanshiyizhongfazhan。shijishangbuxiangganfengyue，youyixiezhuiyi，zhiyoutiaoxuanwangque，caiyouzaishengdehenyoukeneng。haohaohezishendeqizitanyitan，zaicishengchanzhizaoyixielanmandesuiyue，changshikuanrongnideqizi，keshiyouyaowanzhuan，quelidigenjuqingyidebiaoshu，rangtaqingxidiyishidaozheifenainenggousuoyoujita，keshibunengyunxutaercicaita。yaorangtalejie，jibianniainita，yebuhuishizhongmeiyoudaodedixiandifangrenta。yaoxiangxiangyouzheifenai，jiuxuyaoqinfengaohaonideqizi。

zhongjiu，zaihunyinchuguizhong，shoushangdejiaodadehuoshinvren。waibiandenanrenquanshichuziyuwanxiade。meiyouhaoduogenanrenzhenzhenzhengzhengshixiangquyigebierendelaopode。jiaruyigenvrenjinjinqitananrendewanjudehua，zheiyinvrenzishenyeshizaiwuruzishen。shirendoushihuiyouganqing，shixindoushihuidongxin。jianxin，nideqinfenyidinghuiwanliutaneikeyoulingyiyangxin。

renshengdaolumianbulekekebanban，hunyinshenghuozhituyouzhangeryoujianxin。laopochuguizhenshiduanxinshizenyangde？haonanrenquanshibiequchengdade，yaoxiangyouyigewennuandejia，jiuxuyaozaibeishangzhongxuehuichengshou，zaijingjichuzhonghuitanran。jiuxuyaolianchu“zaixiangdulinengchengchuan”，suzaozishenzhenzhenzhengzhengdefengcai，jibianxuduonianyihou，zuoweiqizidetayehuizhongxindigantandao：lijingcangsang，huoshiganjuenishizuihaoshide！