老婆出轨了怎么办？如何雅致地挽回老婆？

yigenanrendezhiliangfanyingzaihanyihesixiangguannian。yigeyazhidenanrenrutongyipianhaiyang，bujudiandiandidi，youkuanrongheliu。laopochuguilezenmeban？yazhidenanrenwangwangzaoshounvrendeqinlai，shiyouyuta“zaixiangdulinengchengchuan”，yigexinruohaiyangdenanren，yazhidilingrenkanqilaisatuoqianwan。zhangqifenjuzenyangpanduanchugui？danglaopowaiyushi，tadewanliufangfayeshijianyieryouwanmei，nongsuoweiliangzi：yazhi！neimatagaizenyangyazhidiwanliuwaiyudelaopo？chanvrenchuguidezuihaofangfayounaxie？

一、用创作来迁移愤怒

pingchangrenjuede，yantanjuzhiyuhanyangzuinengxiyintaren。keshizhenduinvreneryan，tongchangshineileiyouyuzixinxinertouluchuqudecongrongdandinggengnengxiyinnvren。yazhidenanrenmingbai，renfennudeqingkuangxiazhilidengyuling。yinci，danglaopowaiyushi，tamenbingbushibuqinao，zhishixuehuileyijingzhidong。bazijidefennudouqianyidaochuangzuodejiqingzhongqu，changshirangzishendefennufama，zhileng。youyutamenmingbaizheigeshihouwulunshiyinjiu，jitarenqingtuhuoshichuqulvyou，doumeifadiaojiehaozishendexinlizhuangtai，erjinyouzishencaisuanshizishendejiushi。laopochuguilezenmeban？yinci，tamengenjuchuangzuolaidiaojiezishendexinlizhuangtai，qifazishendeconghui，molianzishendeyanzhanxing，zishencaikeyizhendingziruodijiejuedangjindenanti。erchuangzuodequanguochengyeshirangzishenlizhidejieduan。youyuchuangzuo，zishenjianjiandiwangjilefennu，yeshulilegousi，lingrenyuelaiyuewanshan，yazhi。lingwaiyeshulilezishengairuhequyingduizishendelaopo。chanvrenchuguidezuihaofangfayounaxie？

二、尝试了解生活的心灵美

dangdaideshehuifazhanjiezouganjikuai，huoxushuiyijuedejiyu，fujindeshenghuoziranhuanjingdouzaoyifashenglezhuanbian。yincizaineiyangdeshenghuoqingkuangxia，rengengyaomingbaixunsudiaojiezishendegongzuonengli。danglaopowaiyu，jiarunibuzhidaoruhequshenghuo，zhiyoubiaomingnideminganhexinfuqizao。yazhidezuigaojingjiebianshiqujueyulejieleshenghuodexinlingmei。shuobailezhen，jiushijiushiduizishenqiuzhenwushi，bubihuozaimengli，yebubipiantaren。“shan”，dangranshiwenroudeyisile。zunzhonglaopo，bianshizaihaohaoaizijideshenghuo。bubidiaonanlaopo，bubijifenglaopo，bubiwurulaopo。zhangqifenjuzenyangpanduanchugui？youshihounideyidiandianzhenchengjiunengzhangchuyigeshanguo，shinideshenghuoyinereryuelaiyuexingfukuaile。shengrenshuo，“shenghuozhongbenbufaxianmeideyanjing，quefadeshifajuemeilideshuangyan”。nanrenlejiedemeishiburongyiqianguazhezishendebeiju，ruoneiyangzhiyoushinideshenghuogengweibeiju。

三、真真正正地从心里爱老婆

nanrenqulelaopo，shijishangquanshiqianshixiudedeyuanfen。laopochuguilezenmeban？buxiangxinchangshiwenyiwenyijingjiehundenvren，jigejiajilezishendelaogongbuganjuehouhuimoji？bierenlixiangbeijingdequanshiweilegenghaodigennizaiyiqi。shubuzhijiehunhou，huoxujiushinibudongdezhenxita，bulijietadetihui，rangtajuededaogudanwunai，yincicaihuixunzhaowaijiqiuyuan，naizhihongxingchuqiang。nannengkeguinizijijiumeiyouyidiandeyiwuma？nanrenyidingyaomingbai，nvrenjiajini，keshixinlingshenchuzuiqipandeyidingshiyigeaizhetadenanren。ganqingwangwangminzuliyiqinhai，shiyouyutashirenzuiganxinqingyuandetiaoxuan，tafanyingderenherenzhijiandezhongshiyuxinlai。jiarunimeiyoujiejuehaohetadeguanlian，jiumoguaitazuocuoshi。yincinanrenyidingyaozhongshinishenaizhedeneiyigenvrendetiaoxuan，lejietaxinlizhenzhenzhengzhengdeqipan。ruguoniqudaodelaoposhizishenzhenzhenzhengzhengaidenvren，neimaniyibeiziyebuhuihouhui。neicikelaopowaiyuzenyangxiufuhunyinni？