zaixianrujinzheiyixingbiebilibijiaoyanzhongshihengdeshidai,youzheyigewenwanqiaolidenvpengyoukeweishibianchengrenshengdayingjiadediyibu。 huaiyinvpengyouchuguizenmeban?shubuzhi,shenjingdatiaodenanxingyizhiyibuxiaoxinfanxiayixiecuowu,jinguanzainanxingyanzhongquanshixiewuguanjinyaodesuoshi,keshizhenduinvxingeryanquehaoxiangshuidishichuandejilei,daoyidingshuipingbianhuibaofachuzhengzhihetichufenshoudezhanshi,cikegairuhewanhuiganqing?weixinchuguinvrenliaotianjiluruhechazhao?ruguoshizijideqizichuguizenmebanni?nvrenchuguilihunhouhouhuijilvyouduoda?
neima,jiarunanxingsuofanxiadecuowuzaoyidaojiquewanliudechengdule,neizenmezuocaikeyiwanhuiganqingni?quannvpengyouhehaoruchudehuayoushenme?nvxingtongchangshilixingde,keshizaizheileizhuangkuangxia,nanxinggengyaobaochilixing,fenqingxizhuangkuang,gaoqingchugaishuoxienaxiezuoxienaxie,heyingbuyinggaishuoxienaxiezuoxienaxie。
最先,认可自身的错误,立即致歉
yibanlaishuo,nvpengyouhuinaomaodun,tongchangshiyouyunanxingzaifanlecuowuyihourengbuzizhi,huozhemingzhidaozishenbuduihaiweilegenghaodilianmianersiburenzhang。erzheierzhongzhuangkuangquanshikendingyaofangzhide,qinggandequanqiumeiyouduiyucuo,keshishierqueyouduiyucuo,jibiannvpengyouzaiaizheni,niyebukeyiyouyutaaizheniersunhaita。zhimingnanmingxingzhencengshuoguo:“wobingbushipalaopodenanren,zhishizhongshixifu。”yingduizishenshenaidenvxing,renkecuowubingzhiqianbingbushinaxiediurendeshier,fanguolaide,tashinanxingyounanzihanqigaihegandandangdezhengshi。weixinchuguinvrenliaotianjiluruhechazhao?
yiner,ruguofanxialecuowuerrenvpengyoufahuodehua,yaolijirenkezishendecuowu,jizijidecuowuzhiqian,rangnvpengyoudewendingqingxuchulai。ganwanbunengyouyuyaomianzieryunvpengyoulengbaoli,neiyangzongshirangshierebian,henyoukenengzuizhonghuidaozhinanyiwanhuiganqingdejieguo。
次之,论述自身的错误,而不是辩解
lijizhiqianshihenzhongyaode,erduizishendecuowuzuochubiaoshuhetianbu,zegengweiguanjian。haoxiangrenkelecuowusuihouzhuanguoshenbianpaozainaohoudegerenxingweishikendingbukequde。suhuashuodehao,wenxindejiaquanshiyiyangde,erbeijudejiazhongzedouyougedebeiju。tamenzhenduinanxingfanxiadecuowuyeyiyangkeyong。youyixienanxingshiyouyuchenmiyuyouxierhushilenvpengyou,youyixiezeshiyouyuyubiededeyixingpengyouchupengerzaochenglenvpengyouwujiedezhuangkuang,cileiqingkuangshubushengshu。nvrenchuguilihunhouhouhuijilvyouduoda?
keshijiuyibanzhuangkuanglaijiang,nanxingfanxiadecuowuquanshiyongyouhuizhuandekongjiande。erbuyiyangzhuangkuangxiadecuowu,zebixubuyiyangdeyuyanjiqiao。zhichangzhongdenanxingdoulejie,yaoranglaozongrentongzishen,zuixianyaoranglaozonggaoxing,erzheileifangfazaiganqingzhongzhongyeshikeyongde。
birudayouxirenvpengyoufahuodezhuangkuang,shidabufennanxingdoushihuipengdaode。zaizheileizhuangkuangxia,nanxingbixuxianxiangzishenzuochudegerenxingweizhiqian,youyunvxingquanshidaozizuidoufuxinde,jinyouxianzhiqian,caikeyibawozhudaoquan。erzainvpengyoudeqingxuhuifuleyihou,yewuxujiqiezuochubiaoshuyuquebao,erliyingzaishidudeshijianwuyijiandigaozhinvpengyou,weishenmezishenwanwanyouxi。
henduonvxingdoujuededayouxishinanxingchenlundezhuyaobiaoxian,quebuzhidaozheiyeshitamenyuxiaohuobanmengoutongjiaoliuhexiangchudefangfa,zhixuzaiguohouxiangnvpengyouhaohaodibiaoshu,bingquebaozishendayouxideshijian,wenroutitiedenvpengyouyidingkeyilejie。henduonanxingzongshihuifanxiadeyouyigecuowu,jiushizainvpengyoufahuoyihouzhituzhehongtayishidegaoxing,erburongyiduofangmianzhengqueyindaohebiaoshu,ranhouyoulvcizaicifasheng,caihuizuihouzaochengletichufenshoudefengbo。
再度,积极送礼物,获得宽容
jiaruzailijingleyishangdefangshiyihou,huoshimeifadedaonvpengyoudekuanrong,neimejiubixunanxingjinyibumingquetichujiejuekunnandefangshile,birusongli、xiezerenshuzheixie。songlizheileifangshi,shihenduonanxingzailianaizhongdetaohaonvxingdeguanyongshoufa,youcikejianqiduidedaonvxingkuanrongyongyoushifenyouliangdeshijixiaoguo,huoxuzheiqiahaoshiniwanhuiganqingzuiyouxiaodefangshini。 huaiyinvpengyouchuguizenmeban?jijisongliwuhuodekuanrongkanqilaijianyi,queyeyongyouyidingdefangfa。zenyangxuanzerangnvxingwufajujuedelipin?zheileiqingkuangxia,songxianhuayiranshizuifangxindetiaoxuan,youyumeiyounvxingkeyihuijuehuashu。
keshiruonidenvpengyouxinggeminganeryouyishenyigui,neimasongxianhuabianbuyidingshizuihaoshidetiaoxuanle,fandaohuijitachanshengfuyantangsaidejuede。cike,qinziweinvpengyouxuanzeyijianjingmeieryoukeaidexiaolipinshizuihaodanshile,zaisongjinlipindeqingkuangxia,hainenggoulingfuxielehuayanqiaoyudexinyongkahuozhezerenshu。duinvxinglaijiang,xiezerenshuzheileiruanxingdefangshihuoshishifenyouyongde,yongbaidiheizijiangzishenduinvpengyoudequebaoxiexialai,budannengrangnvpengyouhehaoruchu,gengnengweizijiliuyoudaliangdekongjian。
shishishang,yinweitianxingdegongxiao,nvxingzhenduinanxingjubeifeichanggaodegaogan。 huaiyinvpengyouchuguizenmeban?dabufendeganqingkunjing,doushiyouyumeifarenshounanxingyierzaizaiersandefancuowuerzaochengde。yiner,xuexipeixunquannvpengyouhehaoruchudehuajinguanyouxiao,keshizuizhongyaodejiushibaituozishenbuhuizaifancuowu,huoshijiangdifancuowudepinlv,neiyangcaikeyirangrichangshenghuogengweixingfu。
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