如果老婆出轨该原谅吗？

laopodechuguiyingbuyinggaibeiyuanliangzheigewenti，xuduoqingkuangxiawomenbunengyigaierlun，zhishibixushijinantishenrufenxi。chuguideairen，laopochuguideyuangushiduofangmiande，henkenengshizijizuodebuzuhao，hulvelelaopodetihui；zhongniannvrenchuguihuoshiwaibuhuanjingyaosudeweihaihenda，womenbunengjiyulaopogengqiangdexiangyou；yihuoshishifufubicidejiazhiguannianbuyiyangzheixie，zheizhongquanshizaochengfuqiguanxikunjing，laopochuguideguanjianyaosu。

jiarulaopochuguigaiyuanliangma？keshidangbeiwenqilaopochuguigaibugaiyuanliang，xuduonanshengdediyifanyingkendingshi“buyuanliang”，keshizaizheilijiandingbuyidejuezeshenhou，daliangdeshiyouyubuding。youyuqinggan、xiaohai、zichanzheixiegegelingyudeyuangu，huirangrendaojuezeshibukeyibaozhengneimajianjue，youyubuding。

shijishangzaiwendaojiarulaopodechuguiyingbuyinggaibeiyuanliangshi，zishenxinlizaoyiyongyouyigehenquelidehuida，zaiwenxuntarendequanguochengzhong，jinjinweilegenghaodiweizijidaliangdenenggouzuozheiyitiaoxuandeyuanyineryi。huasuineiyangshuo，keshizhenduilaopochuguishibushibeiyuanliangzheigewenti，zaililunshangyeshiyounengbunengbeiyuanliangdeyuanyinhejiexian，shijishangnenggoufenxiabianhaoduogequkaizhandingyi。

一、两人的价值观念是不是彻底更改

zhongniannvrenchugui，wulunshitanlianaihuoshiwanhun，zaiyiqideyuanyinbujinshiyouyuenai，daliangshiyouyuliangrensanguanjiaoweixiangtongyi，xingquaihao、xihaoyejiaoweileisi。yinci，jiaruzaihunyinshenghuozhong，jiaru2gerendesanguanzaoyiwanquanfashenggaibianle，neimaneiyangdehunyinshenghuoyezaoyichedideweifanledangshizaiyiqidechuxinle。

zheigeshihouzishenjiubixushensishulvshibushibeiyuanliang，qianwanbiebeiqianbanerganleyouweifanzishenxinliniantoudejueze，yaoxunmizishenzuixinlideniantou，qukaizhan。jiazhiguannianfashengbianhua，liangrenzaiyiqiyehuiyouqideguaiguaide，huigesanchawudezhengchao，qingganrengranhuifashengbiedegecengmiandekunjing。yinci，yuqishuoneiyang，haibibushangtiaoxuanbuyuanliang，xiaoxiaosasadeliyi，fanglingyifangzou。

二、出轨的原因是不是可被原谅

chuguideyuangushiyouhenduozhongduoyangde，youjijichugui，yeshiyouchuyubeidongchugui。chuguideairen，shuobailejijichuguijiushiyiqiedechuguiyuanguquanshibenshende，zishenduizheiyiduanhunhoushenghuobumanyi，keshilingyifangmeiyouyiqiedebuzhengque，erzishenzuochulezheiyiduanchuguidegerenxingwei，ruguoshineiyang，neimaneiyangdelaoposhibukeyibeiyuanliangde，wulunyiqiantaduizishenyouduomehao，nanrenmenyeyingdangtiaoxuanliyi。

jiaruyigenvrenxinzaoyimeiyounideshenshangle，neimatajirannengzuodiyici，jiuhuiyoushihoudedinci。shenmeshichuyubeidongchugui？bianshishuangfangdouyoushenmewenti，huoshishinanxingxianchugui，zaochengnvxingweilegenghaodixunzhaojunhengerchugui。

ruguoshineiyangdeyizhongfangshi，neimaneiyangdechuguijiarushuangfangdouhaizaihubicizhijian，yeshinenggouzaicilaidaoyiqi，shinenggoubeiyuanliangde。guigenjiedi，shijishangbianshikanfenshoudeyuanyindaodishibenshen，huoshilingyifang，yihuoshishibicidoushiyou，suihouzaizuohenglianghejuece。

三、是不是也有情感寄予

disandian，yeshigengweiguanjiandeyidian，liangrenzaiyiqishiyouyuganqing，jiaruhaizaiyibicizhijian，haiaizhelingyifang，jiububibeizheiyijianshisuojidao，yaorenzhenquyingxiangtamen，rangtamenzaicifanhuizishendeshenpang。jiarutiaoxuanyuanliang，jiuluoluodafangdequyuanliang，bubiyizhinazheijianshiqingshuoshier，yizhidanxinzhe，jiaruzhangqixingneiyang，yehuizaochengqingganzaidumaixiangliekai，jibianhehao，erneiyangdeyuanlianghaibibushangbuyuanliang。

laopodechuguiyingbuyinggaibeiyuanliang，tarendejianjieshizhongdoujinjintarende，guanjiandejuezehaibixukanzishen，jiaruzishenkeyifangkaishou，juedemeiyoubixuzaizaici，neimajiutiaoxuanbuyuanliang，xiangfan，jiuyaotabianchengyiwangba。