老婆出轨我该怎么办？丈夫要如何应对？

 zheiquanqiubingbushizhiyounanshengcaihuihunhouchugui，muqianhenduonvxingyemanmanjiashanghunhouchuguijingbingqiangjiang。huaiyilaopochuguizenmeban，jiejuelaopodewaiyu，henduinanshengquanshimenxinziwen：qizichuguiwonengzuoshenme？laopochuguiwogaizenmeban？lihun？dayicanneiren？daodiqizichuguiyinggaizenmeban？huoxunvrenduocichuguihouhuigaime？worenweiyouyixiazuofa：

一、先保持理性，防止凌霸偏执行为

 henduonanshengdangfajuelaopowaiyudeneiyishunjian，douganjuezaodaoqichidaru，nanrendexinshengzaoshoujudadetiaozhan，xinlihentoule。zaifumianqingxudeshanghaixia，juedaduoshunanshengquanshichongdongbuyi，sangshilizhi，shizhimeifajingxiaxinlai。danshizheiyineishiyibanshizuizhongyaode，jiaruziluanzhenjiao，neimejiuwufachulihaoqiziwaiyuzheiyishiqing。

 jiejuexifuchuguilegaizenmebanzheiyinandian，henduonanshenghaihuijixuxuanyongjiduanzhuyifangfa，biruduilaopojinxinglingbaouda，duilaopojinxingguyishanghaizuizheizhong，zheileiquanbushikeguande，quanshiweiguidexingwei，shizhibunengjiejueyiqienandian。yaobuyaoyongtadeyouwulaihailebenshenni？nanshengyaozaiduanqineineineizhenjingchuqu，ganwanbunengchuxianpianzhixingwei。

二、分析妻子出轨的真真正正原因

 nvxinghunneichuguideyuanyinhenduo，gudanjimo、fuqifangshijiatingbuhe、zhaoxunshengliciji，huozhezhishizaiyingduizhangfudeng。zheileiquanshidaozhiyijingjiehunchuguinvren，bingqiehuishangyin。yiner，zaizhangwolaopowaiyuhou，huaiyilaopochugui，jiejueqizichuguiyinggaizenmebanzheiyinandian，dajiajinkenengyaoxianxunzhaoqizichuguidezhenzhenzhengzhengyuanyin，neibankeyigegefangmianjiejuewenti。

 tangruoyuanyinbujianli，neijiushibuxiangganwenzi，yushiwubu。zaishuo，henduoneishiqizichugui，buquanshilaopozishendeguocuo，dabufenhenanshengyouguanxi，jianyanzhiyigebazhangpaibuxiang，jiushizheiyidaoli。nijiarujinhaoleyigezhangfuxuyaodezeren，xifuergujimeifachuguiba，jianjiandibazuixingquanbuguaizainvxingshoulibingbushigongpinggongzhengde。

 zaishuo，nanshengmenyaoshidangbingqiyiwangdechuantongguannian，weishenmechuguidenanrennengzuizhongbeibaorong，chuguinvrenjiuxiangjinde“jinzhulong”，zheidequeduinvxingtaikekele，renherenruguochengxinchengyihuiguo，douxuyaozuiyingbeibaorongdefenpeiquan。

三、反思自己手里存在什么问题或有误

 laopochuguiwogaizenmeban？zuoweinansheng，beilaopodailedailvmaozi，shangxinqifenzaisuonanmian。zaijiejueqizichuguiwonengzuoshenmezheiyinandiandeneishi，nibunengquanbuchizelaopozishen，nishibeishangsurenzhishou，yeyaofansizijishoulicunzaishenmewentihuoyouwu。

 birubenshenshibushilengdanlaopole？nibenshendezhuanyexingshibushiranglaopodedaolekaolvdao？shibushihulveleduilaopodeguanxin？nibenshenshibushihenjiumeiduilaoposhuoguowoainizheisanzi？duocongbenshenshouligaizheng，yexukeyijubeishibangongbeideyuqixiaoguo。yigeshiyouliyuwanmanwanliulaopodexin，yeyoujibianbukenwanhui，yeduibenshenxiadiyiduanhunyinshenghuohuoganqingshenghuoshunlijinxingcankaoxianshiyiyi。

四、莫冲动离婚，看一下婚姻生活是否也是有修补室内空间

 laopochuguiwogaizenmeban？dangqizichugui，hunyinshenghuopinweikailiedeneiyishunjian，dajiahaishiyaonuliyixiaxia，wuxuchongdonglihun，kanyixiahunyinshenghuohainengfoujinxingxiubu，yijuyishenzuozenengfouwanliulaopodexin，erbingbingbushizaibaoyuanxifuchuguilegaizenmeban，tebieshizaishijialiyouyoushixiaohaizidegengbunengchongdong。

 yaozhangwo，lihunshichulihunlianjiaoyounantidexiaxiace，zuihaoshisansierxing，wubiyaomingqueneifenhunyinshenghuoshifouzaojiubukejiuyaole，fuqiganqingshifoudequemeiyoujianqingyuxiubudeyuzhaole。xiangqingchule，zaizuoguanlijuece。bianshinidecuo，xiangwanliude，yinweiwokefuquedianwanliulaopodexin，ciwaikuanrongdeyizhenzizhimibuhui。shitadecuo，ruguoshitachengxinchengyihuiguo，nengrende，weihebuxuehuifangqichengjian，jitayigejihui。

 nvrenduocichuguihouhuigaime？yexu，dequewufarongren，daxiaohuozixingweibijiaozhongdenanshengjianyihaishifenshouzuopengyou、lihunjiuzheiyangba，jiangjiuzaiyiqikeshishiduiliangrenhuxiangdechaimobale。