zaifuqijianjiranzaoyihuxiangshenghuozaileyiqi,neimabidingbianhuiyouyixieciganying。erlaopoyidanchugui,zhangfuyeyidinghuizaishenghuozhongdeyixiexiaoguanjiandianzhongyouyidingdefajue,zhenduizheixieyichangdezhuangkuang,zhangfuyidinghuiyouyidingdehuaiyi,cikehuaiyilaopochuguigaizenmeban?qizichuguizenmeban?yaoruhejiejuecaisuanshizuihaoshide?nirujinzhishishihuaiyilaopochugui,nvxingchugui,zheibingmeishenmejutigongxiao,meiyouyiqiezhijiezhengju,yebutaikenenglijizhiyilaoposhibushichugui,yunfuchuguizenmeban?neimazaizheishi,keyitiaoxuanqiadangdefangshijiejuezheishicaisuanshizuizhongyaode。
一、优良的正确认识本身心里的真真正正念头
youyuzaiyixiefuqijian,huoxushijiehunqiandeyixiegerenxingweilijinghuoshishibenrenxingqingyuangu,laogongzishenjiujiaoweiyishenyigui,congshehuixinlixuedeshijiaoshangeryan,shiyinweizhuguanyinsuerzaochengleyixiejianjiejinerkaizhanlezishenweihaizuihoucushibukeyichongzulizhideduiyixiezhuangkuangkaizhanyouxiaodefenbian。danshishishanghenyoukenengshiqingbingmeiyounixiangxiangdeneimabijiaoyanzhong,naizhiyiqiedouhenkenengjinjinyigewujie。yinerzuixianlizhidepouxi,kanyixiaqizhongshibushicunyouyixiewujiehewaiqu,dengzhenzhenzhengzhengxiangqingxihouzaizuozhunbei。yunfuchuguizenmeban?
jiarulizhidesisuozhihouhuoshiganjuezishenhuaiyideyougenjudehua,neimajiuyingdangduizhenggeshiqingkaizhanyixiebixudezhangwo,erqieshihoushixianghaiyaoyouyidingdechongfenzhunbei。youyujiranpingdingyaoquzhangwobingchuli,neimazuihoujieguojinyou2ge,yigeshilaopomeiyouchugui,neimawujieyichang,liehuoxiongxin;kezuihouyidanquedingdeshilaopoqueshichuguile,ruhechulilaopochugui,nvxingchuguini?neiyeyidingyaoxianghaobenshenjiujingyingdangzenmejiejuezheiyijianshiqing,shikuanronghuoshicongcifenli,zaixinzhongyidingyaoyouyigequelidehuida。
shijishangjiranliangrenzaoyiwanhun,neimajiubiaomingbicizhijianyidingshiyouganqingjichucunyoude,erzuihoufashenglechuguineiyangbijiaoyanzhongdejieguoyeyidingshiliangrendoubuyuanyichanshengdeshiqing,liangrenbicizhijianhaowuyiwenfashenglehenduobuyukuai。erjishiruci,yiqiandeshanmenghaishi,jiehunhoudexiangzhixiangxi,zheixieyidianyidiyidingquanshilingrennanwangdejiyili,yidanqueshijianglaopochuguineiyangdekeguanshishibaifangzaimingbiaomianneimayiqiedoujiangyuelaiyuebunengwanliu,liangrenzhongjianyeyidingburongyihaiyouzaicishenghuoxialaidekongjianle。
jiarulaopozhenchuguile,laopoyouhunhouchuguigaizenmeban?qizichuguizenmeban?zuixianyaozhengquerenshibenshendeniantou,xiangyixiangliangrenzhongjianzheixieyiqianmeihaodehuiyi,renshizijidezhenzhenzhengzhengmudicaisuanshizuihouyaode。jiaruyiqiedouzaoyibuzaiyi,neimajiusuanshiqingcipo,yekeyibuguyiqiedefangkaishou。kezhongjiuhunyinshenghuosuoguanliandaodejuebujinshiliangrenbale,qianchedeguoduo,zaizaijiashangbicizhijianzheixieyiqianzaiyiqidenanyiwanghuaizhuiyi,zhenduihuaiyichuguiyihou,yidingyaotuoshanchuzhi,bubijiangliangrenzhongjiandouzuihousipolianpi,neibanmeiliuyiqiekongjiande,jiusuanzhidaoshiqing,yebuguoshixianghuzhijianfushangbale。
二、正当合理的沟通交流,妥当顺利的开展
zhishangchangshuobianshiweilegenghaodishuominghunyinshenghuobingbushirenqing,suoqianshedaodeguoduo,qianwanbieyouyuyishizhiqijiubashiqingnongdaobunengwanliudechengdu,zuizhongjieguofandaobuzhongyao,liangrenquanshiyishenshangshang。neimazhenduihuaiyilaopochuguiyihou,bubizuochunaxiepianjidexingwei,yebubilijijianghuatitaolunjiangqing,neiyangzongshirangshiqingyuelaiyuebunengwanliu。genjupingchangdeyixiegoutongjiaoliujiukeyifeichanghaodeduilaopozuochuyixiejiechuan,genjutadefanyingshijishangjiunengdayuelejiejieguo。
liruxianliaodeqingkuangxiajiangyixieyouguanchuguidehuatitaolunhuoshishenpangdeyixieanli,kanyixialaopodeshijifanying。youyurendaozuochuzuozeixinxuhoubuguanzenyangyangai,shijishangxinlihuoshidanxuhehaipade,danxinbeibierenfajue。yinerzaicuobujifangdeqingkuangxiahurantandaoneiyangdehuatiyidinghuijiqijidadegongzuoyali,jiaruqueshiwukuiyuxinneimayidingburongyiyounaxieshensechuxianyichangdezhuyaobiaoxian,erjiarulaopoqueshichuguile,zaitaolunzheizhongcengmianhuatitaolundeqingkuangxiajiuyidinghuifanyingchuyixieduoduoshaoshaodebudangran。
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qizichuguizenmeban?zuizhongbianshigenjuyixiliedegoutongjiaoliuheguanchazuihoufajuelaopodequeyouchuguideshiqingchansheng,neimashijishangdoumeiyoubixuqueshizuoyixiezhuizong、zhuajianzheileideshiqing。zheiquanshiyishizhiqi,zuolezhihouqishixiaoleyidaban,danshiquewujiyushi,erqiehaijiangshiqingyinxianglegengweibunengwanliudechengdu。jiangshiqingdoupengbofazhan,bubibayiqietuiludoudusi,wuluntiaoxuandeshishajieguo,zuizhongkeyiliangrenlingjulidexixinjiangquanbushiqinghepingtanpancaisuanshizuizhongyaode,youkuyounaozuihoubingbukeyichanshengyiqieyuqixiaoguo,liangrendounengxixindehuxianggoutongjiaoliuhuoxushiqingdouhuoshiyouzhuanzhede。
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