老婆出轨后如何挽回婚姻才是有效的呢？

 laopochuguihouruhewanhuihunyincaishiyouxiaodeni？chuguihenrongyi，yehennanwanhui。ruguowozaozhidaozheixie，woweishenmeyaokaishi?wangwangshiyinweiyishidechongdong，woxuyaofuchuyiqianbeilaixiufuyiduanhunyin。laopochuguihuilaitaiwanzenmeban?xianjiejuezheixiewenti。lejiezheixiewentihouzaizuojueding。

老婆出轨怎么办?

 ruguoqizichugui，tayouwanhuidexin。xianbiejizhedaying。womenyaochengqingzheixiewenti:tayoumeiyouhechuguiduixianghuaqingjiexian，youmeiyounachujutidewanhuicuoshi，zuihouyidingyaozhidaotachuguideyuanyinhewanhuideyuanyin。womendouzhidaohunhouchuguishiyizhongbukeraoshudezuiguo，danshiwomenhenwunai。jingchangchuguiderendoushiwomenshenaideren，suoyiwomenrenbuzhuxiangyaoyuanliang，jishiwomenzhidaotazuoleyijianhenbuduideshi。danwohaishixiangjitayigejihui，suoyizaizaijitayicijihuizhiqian，wobixunongqingchutashifounengbaozhengbuhuiyouxiayici，tashifouzhendeyougaizhengdejuexin。

分散自己作弊的注意力。

 qiziyaowanjiuhunyin，shouxianyaozuodejiushihechuguiduixianghuaqingjiexian。ruguonizhendexiangbeiyuanliang，neimenibixuhechuguideduixianghuaqingjiexian。burannibuqingchuzhihouhaishihuiyoufazhandekeneng。suoyi，zhangfuyidingyaowenqizicishishifouyijinghechuguiduixianghuaqingjiexian。zaiquedingzheiyidiandejichushang，tacainengzhidingxiayibudejihua，haidekantalaopozheiyibudetaidushibushiduini。

采取具体的恢复措施。

 qici，haiyaokanduifangyoumeiyounachujutidejiuyuancuoshi。ruhekanduifangshuoxiangchulejutidejiuyuancuoshi，yejiushiduifangshifouyouzhudongrencuodejuexin，zuizhongyaodeshixiangchucuoshi，ruhebimian。ruguoduifangyuanyigaosunichuguiduixiangdelianxifangshi，gaosunitamendeshiqingxijie，zirankeyishuomingduifangshizhenxinde。ruguoduifangbuyuanyigaosunipingchangdeshenghuoxijiehuozheqianyiduanshenghuozhongdebujiandian，neiwuyishiweinibaoliude，suoyibushizhende。zheigeshihou，jiusuanduifangxianghenichuqufazhan，yebuyaodaying。benlaitanlianaishiyigeshuangfanghuxiangxinshanghuxiangxihuandeguocheng，danshiruguoyifangxiangeshaduifangdezhenxin，neishijueduibukenengde。

了解出轨和恢复的原因。

 zuihou，haiyaolejieqizichuguideyuanyinhewanhuideyuanyin。henduorenhuihulvezheilianggeyuanyin，juedefashenglezheizhongshi。chuguideyuanyinbuzhongyao，danqishizheicaishizuizhongyaode。yifangmian，nikeyichaoguota。chuguideyuanyinshiduiduifangdeshenghuohehunyingandaoyanjuan，haishizhendebeiduifangyouhuole。yifangmian，niyekeyizhidaozijixuyaogaijinhetigaodedifang。lingwai，qishizhenzhengwanjiuzheiduanhunyindeyuanyinzhiyouyige，neijiushiyiranxiangai，bicixiangai。ruguoshiyinweiqitaluanqibazaodeyuanyin，meibiyaokaolvzaiyiqiyuanliangta。