发现妻子出轨后，这位丈夫是这么做的

 liangrenzaihunyinshenghuozhongjiarubukeyishizhongbaochixianghuxinlaihetianmanqingyi，neimazaizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuozhong，zaozhongwanyouyigerenhuixianliqu。rutonggongzuozhonghuranfajuezheiyifengongzuozhongbingbuyizishendeneishihou，neimashibushinijiuhuitiaoxuanlizhi。-ruhe wanhui

hunhouchuguideshierbujinchanshenghuizainanshengdeshenshang，zainvxingdeshenshangdoushiyiyangde。

01、沒有感情的婚姻生活，没办法长期性保持好情感。

 lixingenlaopoguoyunwanhunhenduonian，lianggerendangchudouyouyulaidaowanhundenianling，yincizaijiarendexiangxijieshaoxianenglejielexianghu。doushuoqinggannenggou jianjiandisuzao，zhenduilixingenguoyundoushiyiyang。

 lixingenguoyunbingmeishenmeqingganjiben，jiehunhoulianggerendouhaimeixiangyouguolianqingdeweidao，jiuzaoyigangkaishizaoshoulehunyinshenghuodechaimo。

 jiehunhoubujiuguoyunjiuhuaileyun，daixiaohaichushihou，guoyunjiuyizhizaijiazhongzhaoliaoxiaohai。keshizhenduixiaohaizhangdayihoudewenhuajiaoyu，guoyungenlixinquechanshenglejiaoweidademaodun。

 guoyunjuedexiaohaibukeyidaozaiqipaodianshang，yingdangzixiaojiujixiaohaikaizhanjiaoweihaodewenhuajiaoyu，yinciguoyunjiujijijihaiyaoshangyoueryuandexiaohaibaoleduozhongduoyangfudaoban，qiwangnenggou tigaoxiaohaidezixuenenglihekaoshichengji。

 keshizheiyangyilai，xiaohaideshengxueyalijiugengbianda，lixinxintengnidexiaohaimeirichangyouzuobuwandegongzuo，jiugenguoyunshangyishuonengfoujiangdi2gefudaoban。

keshiguoyunjiushuo：“rujinbugaohaoxiaohaidezixuenengli，nayitiantajiubibierenluowule。”

lixinshuo：“neiyuanbenyiweiwojiaxiaohaimeiriliangongzuodouzuobuwan，ninandaoshuojiuyidianyebuxintongma?”

jiushizheiyang，lixingenguoyunshuciyouyuxiaohaidenantizhengchao。

02、理性解决婚姻情况，比打打闹闹处理地顺意。

 zhengchaopinciduoleyihou，guoyunyezhujianbulicailixin。lixinyebujiasisuobazishendehuolidoufangjingongzuofangmian，jiulianwuzidoubanzhilejiudiankefangqushui。

lianggerendeqingganjiushizheiyangyuelaiyueyuan。

zhihou，lixinzaiyicibujingyidejiyu，jingranfajueguoyunwaiyule。

 lixinyishijianhenfahuo，xiangzhaoguoyunzhiwen，keshitazhihoulizhidixiangxiangyixia，guoyunhuiwaiyu，shijishangzishenzuoweilaogongnandaoshuojiumeiyounantima?

 lixinshuo：“dangnichajuexifuchuguideneishihou，wodequehenfahuo，keshiyixiangqitazenmehuiwaiyu，woyexiangqileyinweiwobutaihao。ruobushiwochangchangyouyuxiaohaideshierhetazhengchao，zuizhonghaibuhetaxingfang，tayexujiuburongyineiyangganle。”

zaizuoshihouhainenglixingjiexinanti，lejiedaozishennantidenansheng，tongchangzairichangshenghuozhonggengkaopu。

 03、zainayihou，lixinganjuefufulianggerendeyishizhuxinghuanshibixujianchixiaqu，yincijijibandaowuzigenguoyunyiqishui，jiangdizishendelaodongliang，yechangchangguanzhuguoyun，duihaizijiaoyunantiyegenguoyunhaohaodishangyi。

jiushizheiyang，guoyunyezaiyebuhuigenbiedenanshenglianluo，fandaogengguanzhulixinhexiaohai。

 nvxingzaijiehunhouhuiwaiyu，shijishanggenzishendehunyinbushunyoutingdadeguanlian，erzaochengzishenhunyinbushunderen，jiushishuozishendelaogong。nanshengruguozaiqizichuguihouhainengfajuezheiyinanti，shijishangtongchangyejiunenggou wanhuiqizidexin，haiwanjiuzheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo。