另一半出轨后，什么才是正确的做法

 zaiganqingdequanqiuli，meiyiciliuleitongchangdoudaizhutongxindebeishang。zaihunhoushenghuozhong，meiyidiyintongxinerpaichudeyanlei，tongchangyedouzangzheshenshendidebiequ。zheifenbiequbansuizheyigerendechuxianerchuxian，quemeibanfasuiyigerendeliquerliqu。-ruhe wanhui

 fuqiguanxizhong，yixiexiaobiequwuxuzishizhizhongguazaixinzhong，neihuiweihaifuqiganqing。danshiyeyixiebiequ，jiusuanbuyuanguazaixinzhong，yeshizhongmeifawangque!

liruwaiyu，liruhunwailian，liruliyi!

 “ganqing”liangziyiqianshi2geneixinyuxindegongmingdian，zhinengjiaolexinderen，cainengzuodaozhenzhengxianghuxinlai，bukuidishuoyisheng“woxihuanni”。danshihunyinshenghuodequanguochengquebuyidingyifanfengshun，xuduo jiaolexindefufuyouyudisanzhedechuxian，erjianjiandigenggailechuzhong。tamenyongzuijueqingdewaiyuhehunwailian，laitidaizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo!

 ganqingdebiaodafangshiyoutaiduotaiduo，meiyizhongdoubixuzhongshi!danshixuduo renquepianyaopaoxialezhongshi，paoxialezishendeliangxinyuzizun。yuanbenyouzhexiangxidejiazhong，quepianyaotiaoxuanlewaiyu、tiaoxuanlelianren、tiaoxuanleliyi!

 tamenmeiyoushizhongruyidezhongshidexin，meiyouhunyinshenghuodezerengan，gengmeiyouzuoweirendeliangzhi!renmenyingdangrenke，waiyuderengenbenjiupeibushangyouzhehunyinshenghuo，gengpeibushangbeisuoyourenai!

01恋人的外遇能令人疼到心痛

 zaiyiduanhunyinshenghuozhong，fufushizhongdouyingdangshizuiqinmiwujianderen，zheiyifen“qinmiwujian”lidangbuduandaoliquzheishijiedeneiyitian。

 shubuzhixianrujindehunyinshenghuoyulaiyushiji，hunwailianyulaiyufangbushengfang。zheiyifen“shizhong”yu“qinmiwujian”jinguankanqilaijianyi，keduixuduo fufulaijiangqueshifenshehua，canhaizhexuduo youyuwaiyueryuelaiyuegengjiatongchudexin。

 youxuduo fufuyiqianrenweixianghuqingganzhishen，yiqianlishiyaoshouhouyishengyishi，daozuizhongyedanshijinjin luren;youxuduo fufujiusuanzuizhongbianchengluren，yewangbuledangshibeizhiaiderensuopanbiandetongku。

 zhiyaoshizhenshiganshouguoganqingtongkuyubiequderen，zhiyaoshipugongliyideren，zongyouyitianhuizhenshikangaoqingchuhunyinshenghuozuixiangxideyangzi。kangaoqingchuzishenzaiganqingzhongdedijian，kangaoqingchuzishenzuizhenzhengdeyiqian。

 zaizheixiebuchenggongdeganqinghuoshihunyinshenghuozhong，tongchangbukeyitaolun“yiqian”。meimeishuodao“yiqian”zheiyici，changchangrangxuduo renxinliyongqiyisigantan，xinzhonghuangdong，yinyinyueyuedaidiantongku。neijiushiqijinweicengwangjideyiduanxinsuanjiushi，neijiushiyiqiantaotaofeifei，quehennanwanbuhuiyigerendefaliyuxinsuideganjue!

neileijuedesheikeyilejie?beihunwailiansunhaiderendounenglejie。

 dangaidenanrenwaiyu，dangaidenanrenshuomishanglelianren，dangaidenanrenzhenzhenyoucibuyuchengrencuowudeneishihou，zairuheqinmiwujiandefuqiganqing，yedanshijinjin yizhangyitongjiupodefeijiuzhizhang!

 jinguanneizhangzhishanghaitianmanzheshanmenghaishi，haidianzhuizhefufuyiqianweiganqingerqinfenguodeyidianyidi，danshizaihunwailianyanqian，zaihaodeganqing，tongchangyechengshoubuleyiciwaiyudeyanlidaji。

 youxuduo fufuyiqianrenweinenggouxiangaiyisheng，kezhongjiucaifajue，youyulianrendeyiciwaiyu，xianghudemuguanghuangruogeshijianyuelaiyueshengshuqilai，yulaiyulingrenhanxin，rangrentongxin。

 dangtongdechuanbuguoqilaishi，dangzuizhongyisiwanqiangbeiwaiyuderencuihuixiaoshidaijinshi，xuduo renzhiyouliuzheleishui，tiaoxuanheyiwangpolie，liuyouzuizhongyidianzizun，dujuenagepanbianzishenderen。

02一个女人应对婚外情的痛苦与从容

 zaochen，huijianleyiweigangliyimeiduojiudelaodajie。29suidetahenqingxiu，kexiaoxiaonianjijiubeihunwailiancuihuilehunyinshenghuo。bingbushitayouwu，zhishitadezhangfu“taichuse”，mishangleyigegengnianqingdenvxing，neinvrentidaileta。

taxiangwoxushuletadeyiqian，xushulezaishangyiduanhunyinshenghuozhongdebiequyutongchu。

 yinianqian，tahaichunzhendirenwei，jishizheishijiequanbunanshengdouwaiyu，tadezhangfuyeburongyiwaiyu。kezuizhong，tadelaogongyouwaiyu，cuihuileqinggandexinlai。cihou，tarijianxiaoshou，zhengtianmomoliulei。

 bageyueqian，tazhujian“xiangtong”le。tarenwei，jiusuanzheishijiesuoyourendoubuzaiyizishen，tadezhangfuyehuizaiyizishen。jiusuantazaoyiwaiyu，yejianghuijinjin yishidebuzhengque，burongyijueqinghezishenliyi，zaozhongwanhuihehaoruchu。kezuizhong，tazhangfuquetiaoxuanlelianren。yingduitadewanliu，tazhangfujueranhelianrenzhulaidaoyiqi。

 tashuo：woduitanulilezhenxinshiyi，taquerenweineinvrenbiwogengdongta。wozhenjihuikuanrongletawaiyudepanbian，tajiushuoworengetezhiruanruo，shuowoduitalengmo，bibushangneinvrenwenrou。

 yiduanshiri，wobianweilekelingdenvxing，meirendong，meirenteng，gengmeiyourennengkuanwei。wohaipagaozhibabamama，haipagaozhipenyou，woaquanbutongchuzangxinli，duziyirenchengdan。

 woxiwangzhetanengjiandaowodekelingyubiequ，qiwangtahaiyoudianerliangzhi。ketajiushuo，neinvrenbiwodoukeling，biwogengbixuwoduinideai。taqiuwomanzutamen，qiuwobiedangetamen。

jiarumeiqingganle，yinweiwohaipasheqiu。kerenmencaijiehunwunian，houbanshenghaihenzhang，haiyouyigexiaohai，jianglaikegaizenmeban?

 woduitashuo，jishiniyijianshimeiqingganle，duixiaohaiyezongyaoyoudianerqingganba?dajiaxianwangyiqi，wodengnihehaoruchu，wobuhuiyuninaole。danshitani，shuoneinvrenhuishiyanhaomamaderenwujiaose，yaowobubidanyouxiaohai。

 zaiwufamibudezhuangkuangxia，wozhinengtongyileliyi。taxiexielewo，yetineinvrenxiexielewo。shuowogudaju，mingbaizhinanershang。

 liyineiyitiantatongku，womingbaitahentongchu，yehenkuijiu。tajiangguoyiju：“wobaoqianni，yinweiwoyoukuchu，qiwangniweilaizhaogehaolaogong”。wohuiletayiju：“wuxubiaoshu，yewuxuguanwo，zhongxinzhufuxingfukuaileba。”

cengjingdewoweitaliuxialaileshubujindeleishui，wodetongchuzennengshitayiju“baoqian”nenggoutianbuhuanshangde?

 wobuhuixihantadebaoqian，liyineiyitian，wobenlaidoukuaifengle，kehuanshiweichilechongzudelizhihelixing。woningjingqiandinglezi，weizijiliuyouzuizhongyidianzizun。

03有的人直至离异才看懂婚姻生活和感情

 neiweinvxingdeqinshenjinglirangrentongxi，jinguantaduiganqingnulilezhenxinshiyi，danshiliyineiyitiantayidingdongle，congyikaishitajiuaicuoleren，neirenzaoyibuzhijixuaixialaile。

 zaiwaiyudequanguochengzhong，tadezhangfuzaoyibeilianrentonghuazuoyong，zaoyibianhuailezishendeshengming。tacuihuilezishenderengetezhi，zaiyebuhuiyidianrendebenxing。hezheileirencouhexialai，zhiyoushiwuxiansunhaizishen，buzhidaoshenmeshihoushizhongdianzhan。

mingzhidaolianrenwaiyubuzaihuitou，queqinfenweichihunyin，neileijuedeyidingshitongchude，ertengdaowanmeijiushishuozuizhongdebaituo。

 xuduo renliyideneishihouyingdangyouguozheileirumengchuxingdeganshou，yiqianwoxihuanniaidenanyiwanghuai，kezhongjiu，quezhigongxianleyichangxuwupiaomiaodemeng。jiranshimeng，woyuanjinzaoxinglaishi，jieshengzishendeqingchunnianshao。

 tadeqinshenjinglideyibiaominghunwailianzhongyigezuiguangfandezhuangkuang：xuduo neishihou，dangyiduanhunyinshenghuozhongdeqingganbianchengjiushi，dangshangxindeyanleisangshishijixiaoguo，dangguzhibianweigengmingxiandetongxin，dabufenrenyezhiyoutiaoxuanyouzizundiliqu，haoxiangmeiyougengqiangdefangfa。

 tamenhuisheqiyiduanguzhi，dujueyiduanyiqiansunhaizishenqianwanbiandechuguixingweidehunyinshenghuo，dujuenageaishangyoufuzhifuganqingderen。

 youxuduo beihunwailiansunhaideren，zhizhiliyineiyitian，caizhenshimingbaileshenmejiaohunyinshenghuo，mingbaileshenmejiaoaiqing。mingbailejiushishuotongchu，erzheileitongchu，jingchanghuilingrenbenkui，cuihuiyigerenquanbudezihaojiqiwanhuilaogongdexinxin。

 zhenduineiweinvxingeryan，jiarujinjin nagedisanzheyaoxianghuihuaitadejiazhong，jiarujinjin nagenvrenyaoxiangtidaitadebuwei，tahaishinenggoushizhonghetahaoxialai。danshi，dangtazuixihuandeneigerenyewanquanyiqingbieliandeneishihou，dangtadelaogonggangkaishibatadangzuolanluhudeneishihou，tazongsuanmingbaile，jixuxiaquzaoyimeileshijiyiyi。

hunyinshenghuobudanlingrenwennuan，hainenglingrenxinhan!yixiexinhan，jiusuanduojianchibuxieyimiao，quanshiduizishenjiaoda desunhai!

 darenbudalian，qirenbuqixin。zaihunwailian，lianrendebianxinsunhaidebudanshizishendexin，haihuidaozhimeifaquanyudeshengmingzhishang!

04婚外恋离异的关键缘故是外遇的人对恋人动了情

 zigongzuozhongzhijin，liangnianjianli，jianyiguoxuxuduoduodejibenshangshubujinde“yinwaiyuerliyi”deshili。jibenshangquanbudehunwailianchangyouyigexianghudetexing，erfufuzuihoushifouhuiliyi，hezheiyitexingxiangguan。

 wonengneimejiang：congxuduo renliyidequanguochengkanlai，zuihoucuihuiyizhuanghunyinshenghuodeguanjianyuangu，tongchangshifuqiguanxidezhuanbian，erbujinjin waiyu。tongchangshiwaiyuderenmishanglelianren，erbujinjin beisunhaiderenbuyuanwanliu。

 rutongneiweinvxingyiyang，tacongtouzhiweidoucongweijianguonagecuihuitahunyinshenghuodenvxing。tayikaishijiutiaoxuankuanrongzhangfu，tiaoxuanqinfenjiejiuzishendehunyinshenghuo。danshitadezhangfumishangleneinvren，zaoyibuaitazheiyizhengshilaopole，zheicaisuanshiliyideguanjianyuangu!

zheiyeganghaobiaoming，waiyuderenyidanmishanglelianren，waiyujiuyibujinjin danchunxingdewaiyu，zhishifazhanqushibianchenghunwailian!

 shuobailedehunwailian，jiushishuoyongyougudingbudongdeguanlian，yongyou“zhenzheng”deqingganyikao。erquanbudehunwailian，tongchangdoumeibanfawanliu。

 zaidabufenhunwailianzhong，jinguanyankelai，yaoshiniyaowanliu，yekeyizuihouwanliu，danshixuduo renwufashuodongzishenzaicibiequxialai。rutongneiweinvxingyiyang，shideqingchunnianshaolidangjiyigeduideqishangzheiyiduanqingchunnianshaoderen，erbingbushiyibianyigezhanancouhexialai。

 hunyinshenghuolaiyuanyuyuganqing，shiyizhongrenxinhuanrenxindezhenxinshiyi，shiyizhongzhongshidekeshou。dangyigewaiyuderenfashengbianhuaxin，neimaganqingyejiuzhaobudaole，zizunyejiufensuile。youderenningkewanghoumiancishengdanshennannvxialai，yebukenheyigebeipanaiqinghezhongshiderencouheyibeizi。

05爱惜自身的婚姻生活，别毁坏他人的家中

 zaiyiduanhunyinshenghuozhong，aicuoyigeren，jiushishuoduizishenjiaoda dechaimo。zaihunwailianzhong，mouyirendeyiciwaiyu，jiunengcuihuijizhidejiatinghunyin。

 rennenggouqingku，keshirengetezhidezizunbukeyibeicaita。hunyinshenghuonenggouyouxiaochaoxiaonao，nenggouyoumaiyuan，keshifufuzuishaoyaobaozhengxianghuzhongshi。meifazuodaozhongshideren，buyinggaiwanhun。

 xiangxin，aixihunyinshenghuoderen，zizhongziaideren，yidingburongyibeijianglaicuoguo。eraishangyoufuzhifuderen，waiyuderen，yibianlianrenliyideren，zaoyiyibuzuigaibeisuoyourenxinlai，gengpeibushangbeisuoyourenzhiai。

 haodefuqiguanxijiushishuoyichengdairen，zaizheixiemeimanhunyinjiazhongzhong，xianghudeyanlimobutianmanlezhongshi。meiyigechongjingganqingderen，zuixiandouyingdangxuehaozizunziai。busunhaizishendehunyinshenghuo，buhuihuaitarendejiazhong，zheicaisuanshiyigerenduiganqing、duijianglaideshixintai。