老婆出轨了怎么办？教你4个应对方法

 xifuchuguilezenmeban，shiqingbuguangezainajiananshengdeshenshangdouhaowuyiwenshiyigedashaqi，yexumeiyinanshengdefanyingbuyiyang，danqizichuguizheijianshiqingjinanshengchanshengdexintaizhuangtaichongjixingshiyiyangcunyoude。

 zuoweinansheng，zuidanxindemoguobeidailvmao，danruozheizhongshiqingqueshichanshengle，yezhiyouquyingduita。womenyiqilaikanyixiachengdoushiyisiqingganzixunzhongxindexintaixuezhuanjiayouguanxifuchuguilezenmebandechudeyixietiyi。

最先，看老婆对婚姻生活是不是有确立的心态

 yaowoduizuoyouhunyinshenghuobukailangdeshixifuchuguizaibeifajuehoudexintai，tadexintaimeiyouxianzhudegaijin。yaowozaiyixietichuzhiyitashibushihaiaizhezishendelaogong，yetichuzhiyitakandairujinhunyinshenghuodexintai。

 huoxuliangrenbixuwanquandehaohaoditanyitan。laogongruxiangzaicihunyinshenghuo，zuixianyaojiandaolaopoduihunyinshenghuozhihoudeyigequelidexintai，tadexinshibushiyiranzaizheiyihunyinshenghuozhong?huozuishaoxiangyaozaicifanhuizheiyihunyinshenghuozhong?zheihenguanjian。buran，laogongdekuanrongjinjinweizijizaiyicifushangdejiyubale。

次之，考虑到自身的心里可否均衡

 zaizuofufuzixundegelizhong，yibancunyouneiyangyigeguilvxing。jiarubicimeiyou“yuanzexingdenanti”，tongchanghuimoheqihao、xiubuhao。erjiaruyifangchuxianle“yuanzexingdenanti”zezheiyiduanhunyinshenghuojiangzaoyuyanjunkaoyan。waiyuhehunhouchugui，xianeryijianshi“yuanzexingdenanti”。

 youyuxifuchuguizheizhongshiqing，duobanhuidaozhilaogongxinlijidadebupinghengli。jiurujingdiangushizhongnanzhurenwengxinlidejidabiequ、yuanqidengbupinghengli。jiaruyaoxianghunyinshenghuojianchixiaqu，neimayidingshiyaokeyijunhengxinlizheileitongchuhebupinghengli。

 jiarujunhengbushang，neimazhihouzaiyishizhuxingheyingduixianghushi，bicideguanlianjiuhuichuzaiyizhongshidiaozhong，wufazhangqifazhanqushi。youshi，yushijingzishuaihuailejiuqueshisuilewufazaihaiyuan。fuqizhijianyongyouhunhouchuguihuowaiyuhoudesunhaitongchangjiushishuozheiban。

第三，刚开始自我反省

 “zhanglangbudingwufengpinjiededan”huacaolibucao。yidingqixiandajiadehunyinshenghuochuxianlenanti，suihoucaihuishihunyinshenghuozhongdeyigerenxunzhaohunneichuguijiyu。

 yinci，qiwangpengdaoxifuchuguinanrenkeyijingxialaixiangyixiang，zishenzaihunyinshenghuozhongshifouhaozhangshijianhushilelaopodetihui，huoshijinjinyiweideyizhaozishendejuedequaita，danzishenjidebingfeilaoposuoyaoxiangde。neiyangxiangyixiang，jianghuihuijiangdiyixieduiwaiyulaopodenaonuheyuanqi。lingwaiyehuiranglaopoganjuelaogongkeyiduitayixielejie，duixiubuliangrendeqingganshiyouxiezhude。

第四，再次思考大家中间的情感

 congzuoyoujingdiangushizhong，renmenkeyitihuidaodeshilaogongxinliduilaoposhenshendideai。jiusuantazuochuneiyangdesunhailaogongdeshier，laogongyiranyaoxiangzaici。shubuzhilaoposhibushiyetongyangdeailaogongshizuigaisisuode。jingdiangushijirendejuedeshi，laogongailaopobilaopoailaogongyaoduoyixie，huoshiduoyixie。

 laogongbixusisuoyixiazishenjiyutadeai，queshishitasuobixudeaima?yaobushi，niyebixuchenxialaixinyongxindelaixiangyixiang，nimenliangshibushiqueshiheshizaiyiqi。