男人要如何理智解决妻子外遇问题

 nanrenyaoruhelizhijiejueqiziwaiyuwenti?qiziwaiyuzhangfugaizenmeban？hunyinzaodisanzhechazuzenmechulihao？zheibianchengleyigebeishouxuduorenyiyidehuatitaolun。yixienanrenbuzhangwoxifuchuguidezhuyaobiaoxian，yinerjidaidaoleyuanliangmaoyequanranbuzhi。

一、男人要如何理智解决妻子外遇问题

最先要尽可能让自身理性、平静下来

qiziwaiyuzhangfugaizenmeban？hunyinzaodisanzhechazuzenmechulihao？

 shibaolaopo，yanxuexintaihuiposhitagengweishengshuni，shiyuanbennenggouzhongyuandepojing，wanquanpolie;sunhaidisanzhe，bidingzaoshoufalvfaguidejingjizhicai，buliangyingxiangbukanshexiang。

 cishi，zhinenglixing、lizhi，yongwanqiangdehengxin，zhixixiongzangdenuyan，ranglixingzuochubaochiqingxingdeguanlijuece，caisuanshikefubeijudeweiyifangshi。

要剖析媳妇出轨的缘故

 laopobuzhen，youhunhouchugui，yizhiyouyuangude，zhinengzhaodaoshijiyuangu，caikeyiduizhengzhiliao，tuoshanjiejue。conghenduoshiliyuancailiaokan，laopopanbianlaogong，guanjianyuanguyou3ge：1shilaopodaodelunsang，gongzuozuofenglangdang，shuixingyanghua;

 2shifuqijianqianquejiandingbuyideganqingjiben，qingganbushen，lingxunxinhuan;3shilaogongdeguoshi，huozhexingwuneng，huozheqingganshangmanzubuleqizidebixu，huozheyeshihunhouchugui。

 yijuzhei3zhongyuangu，renzhenwancheng，zongyoujiejuekunnandefangfale。shilaopodeyuangu，yingquanjielaopo;shizishendeyuangu，neimejiurenrenyouze，bimianpingbaiwugudejiazhongzaoshousunhuai。

要正确看待媳妇出轨这件事情

 danglaopomishifangxiang，xianrujinzaoyijuewu，zhuihuishifen，fancuowu，yudisanzheduanjuelaiwang。zheishihou，laogongjiuyinglijikuanronglaopo，tonglaopohehaoruchu，bingcongneixinshangmochuzheitongchudeheiying，zhongshilaopo，xinlailaopo。

 dantongchangyouzheiyangdeshiqing，qiziyouwaiyubeilaogongfajuehou，bianhuaizhepoguanposhuaidexintai，xiaochendikang，bingbushixianglaogongqiurao，kuanrongzishen，naizhiyirantongdisanzheweichiwanglai。

 zheishihouyingjiandaolaopozaisanjiaoguanxizhengzhongjian，laogongbula，jiubianchengdisanzhedelieshi，erzhuirugudi。yinci，laogongyingkefubenrenqinggan，jijizhudongdizuolaopodeguanniangongzuozhong，bujinyansurenzhendiqiangdiaolaopodebuzhengqueheshanghai，youyaojiqingdireliehuanyinglaopozaicifanhuizishenshenpang。

 zhengdelaopo，jiukefangzhiyichangjiazhongbuxing，duiernv、duishehuifazhanchangyouyichu。huoxu，lijingxixindegongzuozhong，buyanqifandiguiquanyiranshixiao，sixintadidieluo，neimejiuzhinenglihun。

寻求帮助机构阻隔老婆与第三者的不正当关系

 qiziwaiyuzhangfugaizenmeban？hunyinzaodisanzhechazuzenmechulihao？yibianlijiduankailaopotongdisanzhedebuzhengdangguanxi，laogongnenggougenjudisanzhesuoshudanweidelingdaoganbu，duitajinxingtichupipingwenhuajiaoyu，quanzuqibuchengshidegerenxingwei。shijianjingyan，jigoudeganyu，huituidongnantidekuaisu、qiadangchuli。

启动亲朋好友一起规劝

 yigerendenengliangshijuxiande，laogongnenggougenjulaopodeqinpenghaoyou，duilaopokaizhanguiquan。qinpenghaoyoudehuayoushihouhuibilaogongdehuagongxiaoda，dahuoerxianghugongzuozhong，yidingnengjiedaogengqiangdeshijixiaoguo。

应本身健全

 jiaruyinweilaogongbenshendenanti，liruzemalingnvelaopo、wangluoduboshijiu、wusuozuowei、duilaopobuguanxintitie、qianquexiaonanzihanfengcaizheixie，zaochengxifuchugui，laogongzeyingfeichanghaodisikao。congzheidangzhongxiqubeitongdejingyanjiaoxun，congbenshenjianquanxueqi，xiadingjuexindidangdeshenshangdefuchen，suyigequanxinde、mimanzhexiaonanzihanfengcaidelaogongpinpaixingxiang，wanhuilaopofeidaodexin。

要丰富衣食住行

 youdelaogongyixinmangliugongzuo，balaopoyirenpaozaijiali。yishizhuxingjiandan，zaochengjingqishenkumen，disanzhechenxuerru。zhenduizheiyangdeshiqing，laogongzexucongfengfulaopoyishizhuxingxiashou，fengfuduocaijiazhongdekeyushenghuo，changchangshouhouyixialaopo，yidaoyouxiyule，yidaocaochijiawu，jinmifuqiganqing，tuijinfuqiguanxi，zusaidisanzhechazudedongxi。