发觉老老婆出轨心存芥蒂，最后学会放下

老婆出轨了 怎么办?我们结婚了到如今，有5年了，小孩早已2岁了，这本应是一个将来充满活力的和谐家庭，可是就在前不久我却不经意发觉了一个恐怖的密秘，老婆外遇了。

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 jianailaoshishuotajiandaowolaopozaizishenwaiyuhou，yejielizaiweihubaoyangrenmendehunyin，dangnidehunyinchunantideneishihou，tajijizuoshierlaichulizheizhongnanti。keshiwoqueyouyuqiziwaiyu，yizhibaoyuan，yizhixincunjiedi，yizhiyumeifajiandaolaopozuodetianburenmenguanliandeqinfen。

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zaizuotongwodeguanniangongzuozhongzhihou，jianailaoshilizaiwodeshijiaoshangbangwochushileyixiewanliuhunyinmaixiangxingfudefangfa。

一、跟老婆好好地谈一谈，告知她自身的真正念头。

 zaijianailaoshidejianyixia，wogenlaopokaizhanlewanhunzhijinzuikegumingxindeyicigoutongjiaoliu，wogaozhilaopowozaoyichediyuanliangle，yeqidaitakeyihenshaoxiang，renmenliangrendouxuehuifangxiayiwangdebukaixin，liangrenyiqibazheiyijiaweihubaoyanghao，baitouxielaodaolao。erqiegenlaopodachengxieyi，yibutiguoquzheixiebukaixindeshier。

二、考虑老婆的感情要求，多跟老婆沟通交流引起共鸣。

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三、在夫妻生活上多照料老婆的觉得。

 yibanlaishuo，nanrenzaifuqishenghuoshangjianghuihuijiaoweikaolvzishen，jinerhushilezishenlaopodetihui，shijishangnvrendoushiyoushenglixuqiude，nanrenzaifuqishenghuocengmianjiarubukeyidailainvrenkaixin，yihuozhemeiyoukaolvtadeshenglixuqiu，doushibianchengzaochengnvrenwaiyudefabingyuanyin。yincishihoudefuqishenghuozhongwogangkaishizhaoliaolaopodeyaoqiu，ranglaopotihuidaozhenshidekaixin。

四、尽量避免加班加点，多挤压時间陪老婆，并学好和老婆一起分摊家务活。

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