老婆出轨，男人害怕不言的痛

老婆出轨了 怎么办?就在上月我发现了老婆出轨了，我明白的那时候真是痛苦不堪。一连好几日不体不眠都不睡，不相信我我最亲近居然身背我作出这样的事情来，一直感觉不太可能，但那也是没法逃避的客观事实。

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