我的老婆出轨了，面对这一客观事实，怎样面对及处理

老婆出轨了 怎么办?目前，社会发展中的引诱应有尽有，让人目不暇接。不仅是男人，许多女士也因而添加来到外遇的精兵之中。当自身的老婆也变成了在其中一员，人们的心里是不肯坚信的。但面对这一客观事实，大量的应当想一想怎样面对，及其解决困难的方法。

维护自身，理智心态，不必采取任何过激的个人行为

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 zhenshigaoqingshangdenanren，zaipingwenjushiyiqiandoukeyixiankongzhuzishen，renmennenggoufahuo，nenggouqifen，danjuebunenggoucaiyongguojigerenxingweisunhailezishen。mianduilaopochuguidekeguanshishi，renmenyaojijizhudongxunzhaojiejuekunnandefangshi ，caisuanshixianjieduandetoudengdashi。

知其所以然并知其然，才算是高明的人

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坚决解决，展示出自身的最男人的一面

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 yixieshiershijishangbingbukongbu，jiunalaopochuguizheijianshieryan，haipadeshirenmenzishenbukeyiwenzhuzhenjiao。zairenmenmeiyoushangjinxin，caiyongguojigerenxingweideneishihou，huibeibeishiweibuwanshanzhiming，zhiyourangtarenjuedelaopodewaiyushiqiadangde，neiyangrenmenjiushiquzhudaoquan。

 yinci，renmenyaokeyilizhimiandui，buzuoguojigerenxingwei，zuoyigeshanyupouxidegaomingren。tuxianrenmennanrenguoduanjiejueshierdepoli，yuji，wukuiyuxinli，yuren，fangkerenzheairen。laopochuguizenmeban?