男人该如何应对妻子的外遇

 nanrengairuheyingduiqizidewaiyu?xuduonanshengdoubukeyilixingdejiejueqizichuguideshier，tongchangdiyishijianjiujianghunyinshenghuotuidaowufamibudechengdu。xiabianjiulaijiaoniliangbugengtuoshanchuliwaiyunanti。ruheyingdui ☞chugui weiji？

一、男人该如何应对妻子的外遇

维持理智始终是第一

 huaiyiqiziyouwaiyuzenmeban？nanrengairuhechuliqizidewaiyu？xifuweizijidailvmao，shimeiyounajiananshengnengbaozhengmeishenmeqifude。beitong、naonu、qurudexintaishishifenyiqiezhengchangdezhuangkuang。danyinerersangshilixingdetiaoxuanyouwudefangfafaxie，bushikeyongde。

 oudalaopo，duifudisanzhe，zheizhonggerenxingweizhiyoushizishengengweibeiju。haihuishitagengweishengshuni，shiyuanbennenggouzhongyuandepojing，wanquanpolie。neimacishibuguanzishenzenyangborandanu，weichilixingshizhongshizuikaishibixuzuode。

要剖析妻子出轨的缘故

 daizishenlizhizhihou，doubutiyiyuxifufanmiangoutongjiaoliu，pouxiqizichuguideyuanguyingdangshidierbuyaozuode。laopobuzhenyouhunhouchugui，yizhiyouyuangude，zhinengzhaodaoshijiyuangu，caikeyiduizhengzhiliao，tuoshanchuli。

 conghenduoshiliyuancailiaokan，laopopanbianlaogong，guanjianyuanguyou3ge：1shilaopodaodelunsang，gongzuozuofenglangdang，shuixingyanghua;2shifuqijianqianquejiandingbuyideganqingjiben，qingganbushen，lingxunxinhuan;3shilaogongdeguoshi，huozhexingwuneng，huozheqingganshangmanzubuleqizidebixu，huozheyeshihunhouchugui。xunzhaonantidegenbenyuanyin，goutongjiaoliucaihuikanqilaigengweiheli。

再次思考大家中间的情感

 huaiyiqiziyouwaiyuzenmeban？nanrengairuhechuliqizidewaiyu？jiarulaogongxinliduilaoposhenshendideai。jiusuantazuochuneiyangdesunhailaogongdeshier，laogongyiranyaoxiangzaici。shubuzhilaoposhibushiyetongyangdeailaogongshizuigaisisuode。

 jiarulaogongailaopobilaopoailaogongyaoduoyixie，huoshiduoyixie。laogongbixusisuoyixiazishenjiyutadeai，queshishitasuobixudeaima?yaobushi，niyebixuchenxialaixinyongxindelaixiangyixiang，niliangshibushiqueshiheshizaiyiqi。

 laopoduihunyinshenghuozhihoudeyigequelidexintai，tadexinshibushiyiranzaizheiyihunyinshenghuozhong?huozuishaoxiangyaozaicifanhuizheiyihunyinshenghuozhong?zheihenguanjian。buran，laogongdekuanrongjinjinweizijizaiyicifushangdejiyubale。

挑选宽容后的心态状态均衡

 jiarubicimeiyou“yuanzexingdenanti”，tongchanghuimoheqihao、xiubuhao。erjiaruyifangchuxianle“yuanzexingdenanti”zezheiyiduanhunyinshenghuojiangzaoyuyanjunkaoyan。

 waiyuhehunhouchugui，xianeryijianshi“yuanzexingdenanti”。youyu，xifuchuguizheizhongshiqing，duobanhuidaozhilaogongxinlijidadebupinghengli。jiaruyaoxianghunyinshenghuojianchixiaqu，neimayidingshiyaokeyijunhengxinlizheileitongchuhebupinghengli。

 jiarujunhengbushang，neimazhihouzaiyishizhuxingheyingduixianghushi，bicideguanlianjiuhuichuzaiyizhongshidiaozhong，wufazhangqifazhanqushi。youshi，yushijingzishuaihuailejiuqueshisuilewufazaihaiyuan。fuqizhijianyongyouhunhouchuguihuowaiyuhoudesunhaitongchangjiushishuozheiban。

丰富衣食住行，避免再度越轨

 youdelaogongyixinmangliugongzuo，balaopoyirenpaozaijiali。yishizhuxingjiandan，zaochengjingshenshizhikumen，disanzhechenxuerru。zhenduizheiyangdeshiqing，laogongzexucongfengfulaopoyishizhuxingxiashou，fengfuduocaijiazhongdekeyushenghuo，changchangshouhouyixialaopo，yidaoyouxiyule，yidaocaochijiawu，jinmifuqiganqing，tuijinfuqiguanxi，zusaidisanzhechazudedongxi。