出轨的代价很大，这三条你都想到了吗？

 youshi，ganqingbuzhidaoweishenmejiuhuizoudaozuihou，huozheyouyuwukenaihe，huozheneirenqueshifashengbianhuaxin，huanjuhuashuoganqingdemeilitonghuali，zongyixietongchuxiangyaoniduziyirenchengdan。yexuniyezongtingyixierenliyidexinxi，haiyaodanshennannvdepenyouyexumeiyoushenmeganshou，danbujiulianqing，huoshitiqianzhunbeichengjialiyedenanrennvrentongchanghuikaolvdaozishendeganqing，erzheixiejingdeqikankankekedefufu，yidinghuixingfukuailediguolejinsheng。zaidangdaihunyinheganqingzhong， waiyu defuchudaijiashitingdade，neimajingqishenchuguideqiziyoushenmezhuyaobiaoxian？laopodechuguiyaonulinaxiefuchudaijiani？

一、对自身的危害

 shuobailetouhuanhuireyishensao。hunwailianyuanbenjiushishuobufengcaide，chuguideqizizuixianhaowuyiwenshijuedekuijiu，youshenshendidefuzuigan。

jiezhejiarulaogonghuanshiduizishenbutaihao，neimayulianrenzaiyiqidefuzuiganhuijianjiandihuanjie。

 jiaruyulianrendeqingganyulaiyushen，jingchanghusiluanxiang，youyubukeyiweihailingyifangjiazhongyebukeyichediyouzhelingyifangneileijuederubaizhuanaoxin。

danxinhunwailianbeifajue，yinciyejingchangshenxianhaipadangzhong。

 shubuzhizhibaobuzhuhuo，jiranyouyouhuijiuhuiyoubeifajuedejianghui，daoshizongshirangzishenmingyusaodi，haihuizaochengjiazhongdongdangbuan。

二、对另一半的的危害

 lingyibanshihunhouchuguilijishouhairen。hunhouchuguizheicikuangfengbaoyuduihunyineryanshijidadezaihuo，meiyounajiananshengnenggouchengshouqizipanbian。

 duinanshenglaijiang，lejielaopodechuguihou，gengyuwangdezuofashiyaoxiaoruobeidailvmaodechiru2，youyuweimanqizichuguierdaozhidejiduanhuabuxingguoduole！

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 yinweiqizichuguibijiaoyanzhongweihaizishenderengeleixingquanyi，tongchangshishiqukuanrongde，jibianqingganwaishanghaola，xinlaihennanhuibuqu。

三、他人的成见对自身的危害

 jinguanhenduorenzuibianshuochengyibianzishenerhuo，keshichedibuzaihutarendeniantoutihuiderenhuanshiguoshao。nanshengxiaikanqingmian，ernvxingxiaitarendezanyang，gengbieshuoxuduorenxiantianxingdouxihuanmangmupanbi，huoxingqinghaoqiang，taoyanbeitarenhulve。zheishi，chuguidedaijiashiniyizhizaitarenyanlijiushishuozuiniedehuashenwei，xuduojianshizhehuiganjuenidehunyinguanbutaihao。