老婆出轨了该怎么处理：妻子给自己戴绿帽怎么办

 zaiqingganshenghuozhong，bulunshilaogonghuanshilaopo，yaoshita(ta)ruguowaiyu，doushinanyibimiandixianluchulaiyilianchuanzhenxiang，ruguonixixidiguanchaheganshou，jiubixunengxunsubawoqiwaiyuhoudexindongtai。laogonghuoqiziwaiyudeshishenpangderendouzhidao，ernagebeipanbianderenhaimengzaiguli。laopochuguilegaizenmechuli?qizijizijidailvmaozenmeban?

一、老婆出轨了该怎么处理：妻子给自己戴绿帽怎么办

1、维持理智

 laopochuguilegaizenmechuli?qizijizijidailvmaozenmeban?laopoweizijidailvmao，shimeiyounajiananshengnengbaozhengmeishenmeqifude，danyinerersangshilixingdetiaoxuanyouwudefangfafaxiebushikeyongde。

 oudalaopoduifuqingdizheizhonggerenxingweizhiyoushizishengengweibeiju，haihuishitagengweishengshuni。neimacishibuguanzishenzenyangborandanu，weichilixingshizhongshizuikaishibixuzuode。

2、剖析缘故

 lizhizhihoupouxiqiziwaiyudeyuangushisha。laopobuzhenyouhunhouchuguiyizhiyouyuangude，zhinengzhaodaoshijiyuangunenggouduizhengzhiliaotuoshanchuli。dabufenzhuangkuangxiaqiziwaiyudeyuanguyou3ge：

 1shilaopodaodelunsanggongzuozuofenglangdangshuixingyanghua;2shifuqijianqianquejiandingbuyideganqingjiben，qingganbushenlingxunxinhuan;3shilaogongdeguoshihuozhexingwuneng，huozheqingganshangmanzubuleqizidebixuhuozheyeshihunhouchugui。xunzhaonantidegenbenyuanyingoutongjiaoliucaihuikanqilaigengweiheli。

3、思考情感

 laopochuguilegaizenmechuli?qizijizijidailvmaozenmeban?jiarulaogongxinliduilaoposhenshendideai，jiusuantazuochuneiyangdesunhailaogongdeshier，laogongyiranyuanyizaici。

 laogongbixusisuoyixiaxiazishenjiyutadeai，queshishitasuobixudeaima?yaobushi，niyebixuchenxialaixinyongxindelaixiangxiang，niliangshibushiqueshiheshiyiqi。laopodexinshibushiyiranzaizheiyihunyinzhong?huozuishaoxiangyaozaicifanhuizheiyihunyinzhong?

4、挑选宽容后的心态状态均衡

 jiarubicimeiyou“yuanzexingdenanti”，tongchanghuimoheqihaoxiubuhao。erjiarulingyifangchuxianle“yuanzexingdenanti”zezheiyiduanhunyinjiangzaoyuyanjunkaoyan。waiyuhehunhouchuguixianeryijianshi“yuanzexingdenanti”。

 youyuqiziwaiyuzheizhongshiqing，duobanhuidaozhilaogongxinlijidadebupinghengli。qiziwaiyusuirancuowu，keshijiaruhaixiangwanhuihunyindehuajiubixuyaolixingdijiejuewaiyudenanti。cankaozuoyoudefangshi，huoxukeyiranglaopozaicizhongguijiazhong。