柏拉图式的爱情你有过吗？

 zaijintianderenmenkanlai，bolatushideaiqingguanrangrenbukesiyi。meiguodeshehuixuezheduibolatushiaiqingshizhiyoushenjiaodechunaiqing，haishiyouxingjiaoquepianzhongshenjiaodegaoyaaiqingyezhongshuofenyun。neibolatushideaiqingshishenmeyisini？

一、柏拉图式的爱情是什么意思

 bolatushideaiqingshishenmeyisi：bolatushiaiqingqishishiyixifangzhexuejiabolatumingmingdeyizhongjingshenlianaizhuiqiuxinlinggoutongpaichideaiqing。shilixingdejingshenshangdechunjielianai。

bolatushideaiqingyouyixiadeyiyi:

1、lixiangshideaiqingguan (biyujiweilangmanhuogenbenwufashixiandeaiqingguan

2、chunjingshendeerfeiroutideaiqing

3、 nannvpingdengdeaiqingguan

 4、zaizheishishangyouqiejinyouyigeren, duinieryan ta(ta)shiwanmeideduinieryanshiwanmeide。yejiushishuorenheyigerendouyouqiwanmeideduixiangzhiyouyige。

二、柏拉图式的爱情:感情这回事，就像如人饮水冷暖自知。

aiqingshiyizhonghenmeihaodeganjue，shishenghuozhongdejingshenzhizhu， shilangmanwenxindewenrou，tianmikuailedexingfu。

 zhexuejieduiaiqingdedingyishilixingde，suoyitabaorongleru：daode、zeren、yiwudengdengzheixiechongmanrenleilixingguangmangdeshehuihuadeyanshengwu，erbafanzhideyuwangjiangweizuididexuyao。

nvrendoushiganxingderuguoyigenanrenzhenxinshiyideduitamenhao，tamenhuiyouganzhide，tamenyedongdehuiying。

zuipadejiushiniba“woaini”shuodeneimedongting，yedibuzhuyiju：“dengzhe，womashangdao”。

 younanshicishiyidinghuizhanchulaishuo：“woyemang，woyeshixuyaoguanxinde，woyemeibanfade，woyexiang24xiaoshinenghufenghuanyu，peibanzuoyoukeshiganqingbeihoushipinbodijingjilaiwendingde，nishuodenengxiangdaoneishidianying、dianshiju”。

 shuosheidouhuishuo，xingdongshihuichanshengchengbende，wangwanghuirangrenwangershengwei，danyanyuyoushizuicangbaiwulide，qingchunmengdongshiqi，yexutianyanmiyurangrenxindongbuyi，renweineishiyichanglangmanzhilv。

keshimanmandechengzhangchengweimeigerenbijingzhilu，jianjiandihuifaxianshenghuobingbushikaozhetianmiyuhuanxiangjiunengduguode。

 manmandiwomenlikaixuexiao，meigerendouzaishiguanglichengzhang，ruguoyigenanshenghenitanlianai，ketameifajiniyihou，shenzhitalianxianzaidouwufabaozhang，neimezheifenlianai，zhendebutanyeba。

 bolaturenwei：“dangxinlingbingjueroutierxiangwangzhezhenlideshihouzheishidesixiangcaishide。linghunbeiroutidezuiesuoganranrenzhisuoyishisuoweidegaodengdongwu，shiyinweirendebenxingzhong，renxingqiangyushouxing，jingshenjiaoliushimeihaode、shidaodede。”

三、柏拉图式爱情:精神爱情

 zhexuejieduiaiqingdedingyishilixingde，suoyitabaorongleru：daode、zeren、yiwudengdengzheixiechongmanrenleilixingguangmangdeshehuihuadeyanshengwu。

 bolaturenwei：“dangxinlingbingjueroutierxiangwangzhezhenlideshihou，zheishicaishide。xinjingshimeigeshengwutidebenxing，renzhisuoyishisuoweidegaodengdongwu，shiyinweirendebenxingzhong，renxingqiangyushouxing，jingshenjiaoliushimeihaode、shidaodede。”

 danshijishanganzhaohuiyinpiandeliluneryan，qishibolatushideaiqingzhuyaoshizhiyigetongxingzhijiandeaiqing，zheigeyehedangshixilafengqixiangguan。xilaxuezherenweitongxingzhijiandeaiqingcaishizhenzhengshutiandeaiqing，yixingdehunyinzhidushiweileshehuidejiangou。

 xianjinbolatushiaiqingdegainianyijingbeiniuquchengjingshenaiqing，doushiduanzhangquyizhishixingrongnannvzhijiandeailian（bolatushiaiqingzaixiandaijingchanglaibiaodanannvzhijiandeaiqing，tongchangchuxianzaiyanqingxiaoshuozhong），erzheigezhengshiyinweixiandaishehuiduiyutongxingliandepaichi。