男人对女人的三从四德是现代趋势吗

 conggudainvzi“ sancongside ”daoxiandainanren“sancongside”，nanrendediweipaonaqule？nanrenshibushidoudeleruangubing？xiaobiankanlai，nanrenzhendeshishihouyinggaibubugaile！nanrensancongsideshishenme，nanrenduinvrendesancongside。

一、男人三从四德是

1、不准骗女友。

2、buzhunzaiwaimiangapintou。

3、buzhunxiaowo youzhi xihuankandonghuapian。

4、buzhunzainvyoumianqianshuobiedenvren。

5、buzhunbadao bunengyoudananzizhuyi 。

6、jiusuanshinvyoudecuo yebuzhunguainvyou。

7、buzhunduinvyoufapiqi bunengbulinvyou。

8、buguanfashengshenmeshi yaoxiangxinnvyou（chufeizhendeshinvyoudecuo）。

9、buzhunxiaonvyoupang（henzhongyao）。

10、zuizhongyaodeshi ：yaohaohaoainvyou bunengsanxineryi。

 sancong：nvyouchumenyaogencong，nvyouminglingyaofucongnvyoushuohuayaomangcong，side：nvyouhuaqianyaoshede nvyoudamayaorendenvyoushengriyaojide nvyouweiguiyaodengde。

二、男人对女人的三从四德

 ergudaiduinvxingzeyou“sancongside”deyueshubiaozhun：suoweide“sancong”，shizhi：weijiacongfu，jijiacongfu，fusicongzi。yisishishuonvhaizizaiweichujiazhiqianyaotingcongjiazhangdejiaohui，buyaohuluandifanbozhangbeidexundao，yinweizhangbeimendeshehuijianshifengfu，yougenbenxingdezhidaoyiyi；chujiazhihouyaolicongfujun，yuzhangfuyitongchijiazhiye、xiaojingzhangbei、jiaoyuyouxiao；ruguofujunbuxingxianjierqu，jiuyaojianchihaozijidebenfen，xiangbanfafuyangxiaohaizhangdachengren，bingzunzhongzijizinvdeshenghuolinian。zheilide“cong”bingbushibiaomianshangde“gencong”zhiyi，ershiyougongzuoxingzhide“congshi”zhibenzhi。(《yili、sangfu、zixiachuan》) suoweide“side”shizhi：de、rong、yan、gong，jiushishuozuonvzide，diyiyaojinshipinde，nengzhengshenliben；ranhoushixiangmao（zhichuruyaoduanzhuangwenzhongchili，buyaoqingfusuibian，）、yanyu（zhiyurenjiaotanyaohuisuiyifuyi，nenglijiebierensuoyan，bingzhidaozijigaiyanyubugaiyandeyuju）hezhijiazhidao（zhijiazhidaobaokuoxiangfujiaozi、zunlaoaiyou、qinjianjieyuedengshenghuofangmiandexijie）。(《zhouli、tianguan、jiupin》)。xianzaishixinzhongguo，yibushiguoqudefengjianshehui。xianfazhongguiding，nannvshipingdengde。nanxingruoyaoqiuzijidebanlvzuncong“sancongside”；neimeniyexuzuodaoyixiajidian，caisuangongping：

1、坚强。

neixieshibaiguoyicijiuyuantianyouren，weimibuzhen、diedaolepabuqilaidenanrenjianjuebunengyao。nanrenyaonengjinvrenanquangan。

2、忠诚。

nanrenhenvrenzhijianyingtanchengxiangdai，buzangzheyezhe，bicixiangjingrubin。

3、youqidu，gengyaodadu

 bunengxiaojiaziqi。 yinweiyidiandianxiaoshijiuchicu，bulunnvrenshiyingongyushangsichuquyingchou，haishiyinsiyuduonianbujiudepengyoujuhui，zaitahuijiahoudachaodanaohuozheyinchenzhelianbantianbudalinidenanren，qishishiziside。dangran，tahuishuotaneishiyinweiainicaichicu，keshibuyaowangle，aiyigerenyeyaojitaziyou。

4、身体健康。

 buyaoqiuneigenandeyouduomedeweimenggaoda，danyidingyaoshentijianjiankangkangde。yigenvrenshentirouruo，keyichengzhiweiruobujinfeng，ruguoyigenanrenzhengtianbingyangyangde，nvxingdexingfucongheerlai？

5、要孝顺。

budongdexiaoshunfumuhezhangbeidenanren，yidingbushihaonanren。