如何谈恋爱？

 henduorenbuzhidaoruhetan lianai ，zaochengzhaobudaonvpengyouhuoshifenshou，xiamianxiaobianjiujiaodajiajiaoniruhetanlianai，xiwangkeyibangzhudaodajia。

一、如何谈恋爱技巧的十大谈恋爱技巧：

1、勇往直前法

 henduonvhaiziduiyixingpengyouhuoduohuoshaocunzaijiexin。tamenzongdanxinhuiyinyishidedayi、ganqingyongshi、erwurumitu，yizhizhongshengbaohan，qishizheishirenweidisuoxiaozijideshejiaoquan。 duoshaorenzailijingcuozhe、cangsangzhihou，doucenggantanshirenhaishihaorenduo。pingnideshenghuoyueli，xiangxinhaishikeyihenkuaidibianbiezhouweirenmendeyoulie，yaoxianghuodeyixingpengyou，jiubuyaoyouxiaotidazuodefangrenzhixin，bixushouxianchangkainifengbidexinfei。 gurencengtixingwomen：“jianhuozefanghuo，jianrenzefangdao。”youxierencongzheiyiguxunbiantuichu“jianyixingzefangliumang。”xinzhongcunyouzheizhonglingrentixindiaodandeniantou，daoshibianhuiweishouweiweidixiang：“wokebunenggenta......”zheiyangnijiuzenmeyebuhuiyouyixingpengyou，gurenbushiyeyou“buruhuxue，yandehuzi”zheiyimingyanquandaorenmenyongwangzhiqianma？

2、半暗示法

 “banzheshifa”detedianshiqiuaizhesuiranmeiyoumingquedishuochu“woaini”，danqiuaixinxiyaobi“anshishi”qingxi，bingyaoqiujieshouxinxiyifangjiaokuaidizuochufanying。 liru，zaimuqianwoguonannvjiaowanghaibushifensuibiandeqingkuangxia，zhuanmenmailedianying piao、yinlehuiruchangquandengqingduifangyiqiwaichuguanshang；yaoqingduifangdanduhezijiyiqiqu sanbu、jiaoyoudeng，yibandoukeyiyiweizhexiangduifangqiuai。 shenghuozhong，dangyifangzhongqingyulingyifangerweilingyifangshifouyeyouyiyuzijishi，yicaiquzheizhongbananshifa。jikedangzuotoushiwenlu，yenengjiangzijiduiduifangdeyilianshouxianbiaobai。yiduibenlaibuganbiaotaidezhixinren，jiukeyizaiqingsongdefangshixiaburuguidao。

3、情投意合法

 zaixiangliandenannvzhijian，tamendejiaotanyibuzaishichuandaxinxidegongju，shuohuanei rongduilianrenmenlaishuobingbuzhongyao，gengzhongyaodeshishuohuazheizhongxingweibenshen，shibansuizhelian rendeqinghuadeneiyizhenxiaosheng、neiyigeyanshen，zheiyiqiedoujiduifangyiyuyueyuxinxi。 zheiyitedianzhengshiqinghuadeteshugoutonggongneng。tazhongshidebushiyuyandeyiyi，er shiganqing，shixinling。duilianrenmenlaishuo，tingzhezijixihuanderenneimeimiaoheshengyinxuxuzaierpanhuixiang，zheibenshenjiushilequ，jiushixingfu。 meigerendouxihuanzanchengzijiyijianderen，dangnixiangduifangshushuonihetadegongtongjingyanhuoxiangfashi，duifangziranerranhuiduinixiandeqinjinqilai。huatijianglianggerendejulilajin，gengxianqingtouyihe。

4、谈中见真法

 shuohuayishuzairenhechanghedouyouzhongyaozuoyong，zaihunlianchangzhonggengshijuzuqingzhong， yaolejiedui，jiubixuduojiaotan，cisuowei“tanzhongjianzhen”fa。 qingnianrendelianaiguochengshitianmierfuyoushiyide，erqie，yidanxianruqingwangdeqingnianhaichangchanghuibaduixianglixianghua、ouxianghua，renweita（ta）jiuxiangtianshangdetaiyang yiyangguanghuiduomu，xiangshiwudeyueliangyiyangwanmeiwuque。zheishilianaiguochengzhongchangchuxian de“guanghuan”xiaoying。 raner，lianai、jiehunbijingshiyizhongshishizaizaideshenghuo，yijianzhongqing、congcongwanhundehunyinshiyoubajiuhuiyoushibai，zhiyouzailianaijiaowangdeguochengzhongxianghushenrule jie，dadaoxinxinxiangying，caihuiyongyouxingfumeimandeshenghuo。

5、一见钟情法

一见钟情，简而言之，就是凭直觉提到的良好的印象而立即产生的恋情。在这“一见”这际，起决定作用的是双方的形象、印象，如外貌、风度、言谈等等。 据希腊神话所说，早先男女一体，是上帝把人类分成男女两性。以后，每一个人 身上都有其美的原形，并在这个大千世界中寻找着各自的附体。而这种寻找一般是由心 灵的强烈撞击来完成。于是，一见钟情往往能产生最强烈的快乐。 其实，初恋的交谈是一门复杂的艺术。一见钟情的交谈也是毫无“指定”可言，很难说应该说什么，而且，层次不同，职业不同，文化修养不同，气质性格不同的人，表达方式也不尽相同。

6、鸿雁传书法

 qingshushijiaoliuganqingdefangshi，shibiaodaaimuzhiqingdeshouduan。keyishuo，tashi“ganqingdehongyan”， “aiqingdetianshi”。 suiranlianrenzaixieqingshushihuoyangyangwanyan，huoliaoliaoshuyu，danbingbushimeigerendeqingshudounenggoutongqinggan，jiashenlejie，jiaqiaiqingzhiqiao。bushanyuxieqingshuderen，tibijiuxie，shenzhimanzhiqinyuwen， youshijinghuihetuilianren。qingshu，guizaiganqingzhenzhi，qiejihuaerbushi。 qingshu，shuxieqingye，zuixuyiqingdongren。“ganrenxinzhe，moxianhuqing”。yipianxiaoshuokanyibianyexujiugoule，eryifengqingshuquekebaidubuyan，qiguanjianzaiyu“qingdongyuzhong”，ruhetanlianaijiqiaodeshidajiqiaozhiyi。

7、借物寄情法

 ruguoshuoaiqingshirenjianzuimeidehuaduo，neimechuyurelianzhongdeqingniannannvzhijiandemianmianqinghua jiushizheiduomeilideaiqingzhihuashangdeyichuanchuanluzhu。aiqingdeyuyan，jiuxiangqingnianrenwucaibanlande aiqingshenghuoyiyang，chongmanlewuqiongwujindemirenmeili。 shide，mianmianqinghuashiyoumeilide， shishuobujindaobuwande。raneryoushihoulianrenmenquedou gandaoyizhongshenshendetongku，tamenzhaobudaoheshideyuyanlaibiaodazijiduilianrendeganqing。tamenjue de，hezijineixinneiruchaoshuibanyonglaidefengfuganshouxiangbi，huayuzhenshitaipinfa、taiyouxianle。 zheishihou，lianrenmenbianxunzhaolingyizhongyuyan，lingyizhongfangshi，laiqingsuzijidejiqing。

 zheizhongbiaodaaiqingdefangfayouqishiyongyuneixieneixiang、xiusedelianren。suiyouqing，quebuganda dantulu，zheishi，keyidongdongnaojin，xunzhaoyizhongbiezhidefangshi，jibuyongshuo“woaini”zhilei reqingnongliedehua，youkeyirangduifangzaiqingsongdefenweizhonglinghuinideliangkuyongxin，heleerbuwei？

8、亲热称呼法

 chenghu，changchangshiliangrenganqingdechuandaoqi，meiduilianrendouxiwangcongduifangneilitingdaoduizijideaicheng、nichenghuoqitaqinredechenghu。 jiandandeyijuchenghu，tashiduliangrenjiguanxiyuanjindeyibachizi。yixingjiandeaiqingguanxishirenleizuiziran、zuimiqiedeguanxi。lianrenjiandechenghunengfanyingchuliangrenshijiedeweimiaoguanxi。 shouxian，chenghudebianhuabiaozhizhe“aiqingnongdu”debianhua。qingniannannvyouxiangshidaoxiangzhi，jinerfazhandaoxiangqinxiangai，shiyouqizirandefazhanguochengde。

 zheizhongfazhanguochengbujinkeyicongshuangfangyanshendefeiguliupandeanshizhongkanchu，erqieshuangfangdechenghudebianhuayehuijiangaiqingdemimixieluchulai. kewomenyouxieqingnianrenmeiyouzhuyizheidian。taduixinshangrendechenghuyuelaiyuejianduan，chujiaoshijiao“wangxiaolitongzhi”，chengweishurenshijiao“wangxiaoli”，chengpengyoulejiao“xiaoli”，relianshijiao“li”，keyijiehun，jiugancuibazheigeziyemianle。“ai，nilaiyixia”，“ai，......”jiaorentinglezhenbushufu，xianranjiangyingxianglianggerendeguanxi。

9、空手套白”郎”

 suiranzhouzaolangyansiqi，chuchuqianglanghuanshi。danzhongweimiaolingnvlangxiangyaohuodeyiweiruyilangjunhaizhenburongyi，yidanyoulehaodemubiao，zhengduoqilaijuebushihuaquanxiutui，pingchangzhaoshijiunenggaoding。 shouxianguanzhuzijideyan。kebuyaokandaozhongyidejiupinmingfangdian，xiaoxinguoletou，“luohuayouyiliushuiwuqing”luoxiaxiaobing，huailemingsheng。 jiezhe，kanzhuntadexin。nvhaidexinsizuixi，tahaotahuai，zongyouganjue。

 nanshengyeyoudanxiaode，nanshengyeyoushouguoshangde。yiju“nanshenggaizhudong”haileduoshaohaojiemei。dafangzhudongyidian，xianxiangtatanbaiyemeishenmelebuqi。danshi：qiejizhangyawuzhua。buyaotaizaihuta。taizaihuta，jiushaolecongrong；taizaihuta，jiumeilezixin；taizaihuta，jinchi。renzongshineiyang，yueyourenjinzhangta，jiuyueshenqi。shenme“feijunbujia”，shuochulainizijiyebuxiangxin。 nanshengzhuinvsheng，feijinxinsi；nvshengzhuinansheng，rouchangbaizhuan。yidanmouritongponeizhangzhi，jiedahuanxi，shangxinshiyi，weikeliaoye。

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