qiabozisuanjiabaoma?fuqijianruguofashengfenqimeiyouhuodehelidejiejue,neiyangyoudefufubianhuichuzailengbaolideqingkuang,jiabaozuichudebiaoxianshishenmeni?yiliangcihaixing,ruguozhangqiyiwangdehualianggerendeqingganhaowuyiwenbianhuifashengliekai。neima,danghunyinshenghuofashengkunjingshi,jiarufufushenxianlengbaoli,beijiabaozenmebanni?yinggaizenmebanni?
1.给彼此之间更理智的室内空间
fuqilengzhanshijianlinshifenliyihuier,bicizhijiannenggoupingjingxialai。dangsinianlingyifanglejiudaohehaodeqingkuangxiale,zheijiushisuiyuerandejiejuefangan。
lengbaoliyanchishijianhenduanziran。jiarucicilengbaolishilingyifangchangyongdejiqiao,lingyifangyunizhengchaohuoyoushenmewentidehua,xiangqilengbaoli,yilengbaolibianhuiyouhenjiuliangrenmeiyougoutongjiaoliu,jiuwubihetahaohaoditanyitan。
jiarutazhenxinaini,zennengchengshouneimelaitianhulveni,huoshizennengshitayicizaodaolengbaoli,ruguohuanshizheibandehua,neimanengsheqijiujinzaosheqiba。
2..平常争吵后不必一直冷暴力
fuqijianlengbaoliyaolijihuodechuli,fouzebianhuibianweijiatinglengbaoli,jiabaozuichudebiaoxianshishenmeni?yidanbianweijiatinglengbaolijiuduifuqiguanxidaozhijudadesunhai。yinci pingchangyaodangxin,zuozhanhoububiyizhilengbaoli。
fuqilengzhanruhejiejue?dangchanshengzhengzhideqingkuangxia,jiejuekunnanhuigenghao,zhunshichulihuijiazhongfuqizhijiandeqinggan。
qingbuyaoxiangzishendeqinpenghaoyouxunqiubangzhu。hunyinshenghuozaoyukunjingshi,henduoyinvxiangqinpenghaoyouxunqiubangzhubingbushiqiadangdezuofa。jiarunibuduanxianglingyifangxunqiubangzhu,henyoukenenghuizaochengfanguolaishijixiaoguo,suihoubianhuibazijichuzailieshidebuwei,quanbupenyoudounenggouxiezhuniqianzelingyifang,jiarulingyifangyouhenpianzhideniantou,bianhuifashengxindefenqi,zheihuijihunyinshenghuodaozhijiaoda deweihai。
3.丈夫和妻子都应当多做自我剖析
liangkouzichanshengfenqidehua,bukeyizaisuiyichizesheiduidaodishisheidecuole。yingdangduozuoziwopouxi,ganyudanfuzishendeyiwu,beijiabaozenmebanni?xiangzishendeqizichengrencuowubingbushijiandourenshishier,neiyangyeyouliyusuzaofuqiguanxi,kefujinzhangdefenwei。
fufuchanshenglengbaoliruheyouxiaochulini?liangkouzichangchangchuqulangdediqu,suihouxinpingqihedezuoxialaishuoshuohua。zaizheileilejiedeziranhuanjingxia,lianggerentanqishierdeqianhouzuoyouyuanyinyehuifeichangrongyihenduo,fuqijianyoufenqibukongbu,kongbudeshifenqimeiyouhuodehelidechuli,suihoujianjiandijileibianchengdafenqi,zuizhongbianhuiyoukenengyifaerbukeshoushi。
jiaruninyouxiaohai,neimafuqijianchanshenglengbaolishibijiaohaochulide。jiarudajiazaiduqineibukeyixuehuifangxiaqingmianqujijizhaolingyifangjianghua,zheigeshihouninengrangnidehaizidaidajiatongyi,neiyangfuqijianjiaolvbuandefenweibianhuixunsuwanbi。
fuqilengzhandezuihaoshifangshishiyouyigezuixianshiruo,neiyangshijishangbianhuiranglingyifangpingjingxialaixiangyixiangzijizuodebutaihaodediqu。
4.冷暴力期内不必随意污辱另一方
yaoxiangbuehuameisulengzhandexintai,zuihaoshishaoshuohua,buyaoshuohuazhishang。zheiduanshijianlianggerendouhenbijiaomingan,yidanjiangleshuoxianhua,jiufeichangrongyichanshengcuoluan。
dangtazifaxingdiweinirenkerangbushi,niwubixuehaotingtadebiaoshu,jitamenjiuzhengdejiyu。
fuqijianruguochangchangchanshenglengbaoli,lianggerenzhongjiandeqingganyehuizaoshoufeichangdaweihai。hunyinshenghuoshikunjingfeichangrongyichanshengde,qingganzuijingbuzhulianggerenzhangqidelengbaoli。
5.不必忽略冷暴力的风险
youyixiefuqijuedelengbaolihuofenjunenggouwanbifuqijiandefenqi,chedibuqingchuzheileixiaochenlengbaolizongshijiazhongkunjing。jiaruzheileilengbaolibuduanxialai,xuduo zhuangkuangxiabichaoyijiadeshanghaiyaoda。keshilengbaolibukeyibuduanhenjiu。ruguonizishenxinzhongyoushu,lingyifangyebutaikenenghuishinilairangbude,youqishiyilengbaolidefangfa。
qiabozisuanjiabaoma?lianggerenchuangjianjiazhongsuihouzaiyiqirichangshenghuo,sheishusheiyingbingbingbushihenzhongyao,zhishizenmecainengbianchenghuligongying,lianggerennengzaidufanhuihaodefangwei,zheicaisuanshizhenshidehuosheng。
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