家暴最初的表现是什么？夫妻发生冷战怎么调解气氛？

 qiabozisuanjiabaoma？renherenzhijianchupeng，haowuyiwenhuifashengzhengzhi，shenghuoburuyizhishishizhibajiu，jiabaozuichudebiaoxianshishenmeni？youdeqingkuangxiahuiweilegenghaodiyixiexiaoshiererzhengchao。zaibijiaoyanzhongdezhuangkuangxia，tamenjianglijishenxianlengbaoli。biciburongyixiangbicizhijianjianghua，guanlianlengdaodingdian。beijiabaozenmebanni？nanrenlengbaolideqingkuangxianeixinhuibushufuma?zenyangzailengbaolizhongranglingyifangxianshiruo?

 liangkouzizhengchao，zongtimubiaobingbushiweilegenghaodishengfu，zhishizaizhengchaoyihou，xianghuxinrenbicizhijian，zhangwozhengchaodeyuangu，lejiezenyangzaizhengchaoyihouliangrenhehaoruchu。dangtamenenaishi，haiyoujihuiyanzangbicizhijiandeshenshangdequexian。danwanhun，meiririchangshenghuozaiyiqi，xuduo nantidoushihuipuluchuqu。yiner，zaibianchengfufuyihou，genjuhuxiangrenshouhelejielaijiejuekunnanshizhongyao。

学好立在另一方观点对待难题

 zhengchaodeshizhibianshiduiyumoushiqingzhengshizishendejianjiecaisuanshiqiadangde。dabufenzhengchaoderendoushihuijuede“woshiduide，nicuole。”henduojiazhongdoushizaizhengzhi，bingqiefuqijiandedabufenjiufenanjiandoubingbushigudingbudongde，tamendanchunshijiaoduwenti，erbushishishifeifeinanti。fufuwubixuehaoyibuyiyangdeguandiansisuo。xiangyixianglingyigeren，huoxunideyiyijiangbuhuizaigengyouyiyi。

争吵要沾花惹草

 dangzheiduifuqizhengchaoshi，doushihuizhualingyifangyuyanshangdexitongloudong，bingxunzhaolingyifangdeluojicuowu，jinyiqiehenyoukenengkaizhanjingong，ranglingyifangmeiyounenggouzhengbiandekongjian。jibianzhuandaoleyuanyin，tayejingchangsunhailingyifang。yiner，jiabaozuichudebiaoxianshishenmeni？dangyiduifuqizhenglunshi，beijiabaozenmebanni？tamentongchangjinjinranglingyifangrangtamenjuedebuneimaqingxubuwending。zhangfuheqizizhongjiandeyiyishigenju“goutongjiaoliu”laijiejuede，zheibipouxihezhengbiandezhengchaogengyouquanjuxing。

不会再别人眼前争吵

 yeyouyidianshi，dangfuqizhengchaoshi，neibianshibubidangbierendemianzhengchao，erzhengchaoyeshiyoujishuxingde。meiyoufangfadefufuyizhiyulaiyumengliedizhengchao，erqiejiangchuzaimeifazhenglideqingkuang。neimabawojishuxingdefufushizenmechaojiade?dangyoudisangerenshi，tamenburongyizhengchaode，neiyanghuiranglingyifangbuhaokan，dangzhongchuchou。jibianneigerenbianshiyaoxianghongren，tamenyehuijuedeguoyibuqu，fangbuxianeiyigeyanmian。yidanpoguanposhuaizongshiyuechaoyueqiangda。

第一招：寻求帮助别人

 feichanghao，zheileizhongleidexunqiubangzhujinjinyizhongguangfanyingyongduoqingganwentidounenggoucaiyong。“hei!wopengyougenwoshuozainalimaizheitiaozhuozi。nimailaita，ninishifouhaijidexiangxidizhima?”“jiaruwodediannaofashengchangjianguzhanggaizenmeban?wodoumeiyoujinxing!”shiqing，nantizheixiequanshiyinbenreneryide。guanjiandeshijianghuadefenggehezishi!buyuanyibiaoshuzishen，yiranfahuo，zheixie。zuihaoshishitajiandaonizhuangzuo，jiudengtalaihongren。zheihuishitaganjueniguanzhuta，niguanzhuzheileiguanlian，zheileiguanlianbushitadetuoxie，niyezuochuleqinfen。

yibanfenqikeyiyongzheiyizhaoshu，nanrenlveweiyoudianzhilidoukeyijieshoudaoniyaohehaodeshujuxinhaola。

第二招：应用社交网络平台

 zaizheigebijiaofadadehulianwangshidai，shejiaowangluopingtaizhenshibianshiduoyongtude!nidewentiyoudianerbijiaoyanzhong。tabixiangqinigengfahuo，yinci tanenggoutuisongnideyibufenqingkuang，xintai，xinlizhuangtaideng。duininengjiandaodeshejiaomeiti。zaifuwupingtaishang，xiangyiqunpenyou，jianghuadeng。haijidekeyijiandaota。jiarunikanbujianta，neibianshibaitoufa。zheirutongfajita。buguanniyoujigekuanweini，taquanshimeiyongde。nixuyaozuodebianshirangtajiandaobinglaiyueni。zheileiyibanbianshiyongyizhuanwanmojiaodezhiqianla，jiaruniretashengqileerqieshizenmedoulaibuchudeshichui，youwangbudiaoqingmiandangzhongzhiqian，zheijiushigefeichanghaodetiaoxuanla!

第三招：装醉

 qiabozisuanjiabaoma？jiarunidefenqibijiaoyanzhongerqieguanlianjinruleyigecaogaodehuanjieerqiejiangyaoliekai，neimayingyongzheiyifangfakenengshihelide。hejiuhoudadianhuajita，suihouzhuangzuoxinqingdiluo，shuochunixiangshuodehuayuniduiwoduinideai，bingjiuchanbuqingta，neiyangtajiuburongyifangkaishou。cifangshibukeyichangchangyingyong。yibanyonggesancizhishangjiumeyisile，zheitieshimengyao，yongduoleyiwenbuzhi，haihuijixulingrenrenweinishisipilailianderen。