家暴怎么办？你以为这是冷处理其实就是冷暴力

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“大家吵不起來。”

“tashifenshoudeyuanyin?”

 “meiyicitaduiwobugaoxingle，jiubangwoshimianse。jinguanbudabuchaobunaobuchaobujiao，keshibianshibuliwo。zheiyangyilaiwoyexinlibushufu，jiubuhaoyisi，bianhuixiangjinfangfataohaotaquyueta，keshishijianjiuleneiyangqueshifeichanglei。worenweiwoyibianyulaiyuganjuemeiyouhaohaodidaita，yibianyouyulaiyuganjuewobuhuixiangzishenle。”

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ruchuyizhe，yiyangshilengbaoli，ciwaiyigepenyouqueyongtalaitichufenshou。

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 tamaizhetou，haoxiangbushengjiuli，keshihenrenzhendishuo：“shijishangcicitichufenshoujinguanshitamingquetichulaide，jiabaozenmeban？danqueshiwoyouyizhengqueyindaode。”

 “wotichufenshouyiqian，huiyouyibujietadianhuabuhuitaduanxiaoxifengkuangquwanchuqulangbugaozhita，nongdaonvhaihenshengqijijimingquetichutichufenshou。keshiwonengzhuangzuowanhuiyixia，rangtajuedehaoguoyidian，zhizhitazaiyebuhuifangfarenxiaquzaitichufenshou。”

“…dixiongnizheizhaoyoudianersuna。”

“congmingnvrenlikaijiabaonan，dui…woshiyigehuaxinnan。”jiangwanzheijuhua，tajiudaozaizhuozishuijuele。