面对爱人的冷暴力，怎样做才是最有效的？家暴怎么办？

 congmingnvrenlikaijiabaonan，dajiaweihejiangjinrizheiyizhutifenggeni?youyubulunshizaidajiadequnhudongjiaoliuli，huanshizaishehuifazhandegoutongjiaoliushang，jiabaonanzuipashenmenvren？dajiadoushihuifajue，jiazhonglengbaoliyulaiyubeiguanxin，tayeshiyigejiaoweinanjiejuedenanti。jibenshangmeiyigezhongguoshijiatingdoujingliguojiazhonglengbaoli，juedaduoshudezhongguoshijiatingdoushiyoushiguohenduodejiazhonglengbaoliquyingduibicizhijian。jinguandajiawuxuquyingduibaoda，biantilinshangle，jiabaozenmeban？keshijiazhonglengbaolijidajiadesunhaishuipingfenhaobuxunyurentishangdebaolixingwei。

 jiazhonglengbaolirujinzaoyibianchengshehuifazhanshangpubianxianxiangdeyigebijiaoyanzhongnanti。yixiangshehuidiaoyanfajue，zaichanshengfenqidejiazhongzhong，you88%dejiazhongzhonghuifashengfufuhuxianglihuidezhuangkuang，30%zhishangderenhuifashengshuaimenerquhuoshishuaidongxidegerenxingwei，48%dejiazhonghuifashengyuyanbiaodamanmaheyuyanjingongdegerenxingwei，erzhenshifashenglaogongshibaolaopogerenxingweidejiazhongjinzhanju20%。genjuneiyangyigediaoyan，dajiafajue，jiazhonglengbaolishiyigeshehuixianxiang，tazaoyibianchengrichangshenghuodeshijizhonghenzhongyaodeyigecengmian。

家庭冷暴力是冷暴力中很重要的一种

 jiabaonanzuipashenmenvren？yinci wojuede，zhenduirujinshehuifazhanpubianxianxiangdezheigewenti，zuoweijiatingzhuyaochengyuan，dajiabixuqulejieta，pouxita，caikeyixunzhaogengweiqieshikexingdefangshiquyingduita，chulita，tashidajiazuoweidangdairenwubixuehaode，zheilijiweihaidaojiazhongmeiyigerendemanzuganyujiatingjibenjianshedejieguo，yinerjiazhonglengbaolizheiyizhutifenggezhenduidajiadedaoxingfudeshenghuodegongzuonenglihechuangjianxingfujiatingdegongzuonenglishishifenguanjiande。

 lengbaolishijishangyejiaojingshenbaoli，tashitachabieyuroushenbaolixingweideyizhongbaolixingwei，huanjuhuashuoyigerenduilingyigerendejingshenshizhiquouda，qulingnvetadejingshenshizhi。wojianglengbaolixiaojieweisan“bu”：buyaokan，wulun，butan。jiabaonanzuipashenmenvren？huanjuhuashuo，tabulicaini，bugennijianghua，yewulunni，buguanzhuni，niairuheruhe。

下边我也例举几类冷暴力的主要表现：

 yuyanbiaodagoutongjiaoliuyouqishao，shijingchanghuichuxiandeyizhongqingkuang。zhuanglongzuoya，huanjuhuashuofeichangshaodehua，jiabaozenmeban？youxintaobifuqiliangzhongjiandechupeng，shilengbaolideyigezuixianzhude，yeshihenzhongyaodeyigefangshi。

bufashengguanxi，huanjuhuashuofeichangshao，jibianyouyeshifuyansaize，zheileizhuangkuangzaichanshenghunwailiandejiazhonglibianshifenguangfan。

zhenduijiawuhuoxiaojidaigong，duijiazhongdeyixieshiershifenchuyubeidong，huoshisuoxingchediwulun。

yuyanbiaodadejingong。weixieni，lengyanlengyu，shangnidezizun，zheiyeshiyizhongbaolixingwei。

经济发展上的操纵。

 youderenhuihuranxialuobumingyiduanshijian，chedibugulvqinrendetihui，renzhezishendexintai，gensuijuedezuoyixieshier，meiqudanfufufuyujiatingdezerenjiyiwu。

 yinci changchangyouxierenshuo：lengbaolibianshijiangniliangshai，ruguonibuhuiyou，wohushini，ruguonishiqiti。zheizhongganjueshihentongchude，zheizhendeshiyizhongjingshenshizhidecuican。

冷暴力有可能令被告方长期性陷入轻度抑郁

 jinridahuoerzaiqunneidehudongjiaoliu，womenkeyijiandao，dajiayouderenshishounvezhe，youderenzeshinvedaizhe。shijishangshounvezheyoudeqingkuangxiayehuibianweinvedaizhe，nvedaizheyehuizhuanhuachengshounvezhe。jiarunizairichangshenghuozhongpobudeyichixushiyannvedaizhehuoshibeinvezhederenwujiaose，shijishangdoushihuishiyizhongshifentongchudeganshou。

 youdiaoyanfajue，congmingnvrenlikaijiabaonan，zhixinglengbaoliderendaduoshushiyixiegaowenpingderen，lengbaolijingchanghuichuxianzailingdaoganbu、laoshi、yishidengdewenhuayishucengjijiaogaodejiazhongzhong，zheixierendoushiyouyouliangdejiaoyujinglihegangweizhenshishenfen，dangfuqijianfashengfenqideqingkuangxia，youqishifashengshifenmengliedexintaideqingkuangxia，tamenyouyuzaoshouxinlitezhengdeguanshu，liruzixiaojiubeiwenhuajiaoyu“qianqianjunzidongzuibudongshounengli”，juederentibaolixingweishicubaodefangfa，yinci jiutongchanghuicaiyongyizhongshifenyinbidelengbaolidefangfalaibiaoshuzishendebumanyi。