家暴一次能判离婚吗？为什么每次吵架，都会选择“冷暴力”？

 jiabaolihuncaichanzenmefen？“lengbaoli”zheigecicongbeichuangzaofamingchuqudaoxianzai，guanzhuduyizhishifengao。jiabaofa，naizhizaiwodexueshengzhong，xuduo xueshengyehuimingquetichuneiyangdenanti：“wobeinanpengyoulengbaolile，gaizenmeban?”“nanyouyizhibuzhudonglianxiwo，tashifouzailengbaoliwo?”。weiboremenhuati“tanlianaishilengbaolijiujingyouduozhishang”zhong，xuduo wangminbiaomingzishenzaihunyinguanxizhongyeyudaoguoxiangjindeqingkuang。jumoujiaoyouwangzhandetichufenshouxiaodiaoyan，jiabaoyicinengpanlihunma？chaochu85%denvshicenglijinglengbaoli。

 yijingkanwenzhangneirongdeniyeduoduoshaoshaodeyijingzaodaolengbaoli，neimaweihemeiyicizhengchaonanpengyoudoushihui“lengbaoli”ni?neidajiajinrijiulaipouxiyixiananhaizidezhenzhengniantou，jiqidajiayingdangruhezenyangjiejuelingyifangdelengbaolini?

yincixiaoaikeyiqufangtanleshenpanghaoduogedefeidanshennanxing，yiqilaikanyixiatamenshizenmejiangdeba~

我语言表达能力不强，不明白争吵，争吵吵不赢。

 zhengchaozhongbeimalehuijuedebiequ，suoxingbuchaole，zijipazhebudongzhishang，sheiyebiefanwo，woshoulebiequhaibuyunxuzijitianchuangkoule?wozizunyouqiang，nishanghailewonandaoshuodiertianwoyeyouxianghabagouzainiyanqianyaotoubaiwei?butaikeneng!titichufenshou?tichufenshouyekaibulekou，wotingsongde，yelejieyiduanqingganbuyi，butaikenengyizhengchaojiutichufenshou。

 jinguanwoshinanrendanyinweiwoyouxintai，yeyaoxiangxuanxiezishendexintai，ketachediburongyibangwojiyutashishifenrangwonanshoude，yinci wubibangwoshijianrangwoyigerenxiaohuaxishouwodebiequ，chufeishinijijichengrencuowu，yaobuzheiyijianshierbianhuixiangyigegengzaiwoxinli，jiabaofa，yaojiaoweiyiduanshijiancaikeyixiaohuaxishou。

 guohouyebuleyihelingyifanggoutongjiaoliu，youyucongyiqiandezhengzhizhongzaoyiduilingyifangzaochengbuanquanganle，juedelingyifangzaizheigeshishangshimanhengwulide，goutongjiaoliulefandaodagailvhuizaicifashengzhengzhibingqiewonengzaicibeima，yinci suoxingshayebieshuohua。

 yinci zheijinjinyizhongyoushejiaomeitiquedianderendeyizhongbuyouzizhudezishenfangyueryi，jiabaoyicinengpanlihunma？ziranzheileizishenfangyukeguanxingdiyejilingyifangdaozhilekunhuo，danshuoxieshenmelengbaolishiweilegenghaodicaozonglingyifangneimejiuyoudianerguodule。

 beilengbaoliqishuyaosikaoyixia，shifoutaikouzhixinkuaile，youyixiehuabujingyizhongsunhailetaren，duojibierenyixiebiaoshudejiyu，erbubiyizhifourenta。

 nvyougennizhengchaochedibingbushiyouliyouju，zhishixianggekuoyinqiyiyangbayiqianquanbudeshierdoujinifanchu。genwozhengzhisheiduidaodishisheidecuo，yidanshiwoyidiandizhi，tajiuzhujianqiaozhuozizayizinimoyangbieshuoyouduokongbu。

 zhenshimeishenmelixingketan，woneishihoujiusuanshuoposhuazuipizitayeshiburongyitingde，bingqieworenweitabixulizhiyiduanshijiancaikeyijiejuekunnan。

 yinweiwobixushijianlaikaolvyixiawomendeguanxile，taneiyangdexingzihexingqing，queshiyaowoduiwomendeweilaiyoulv，rujintajiushizheiyang，zhihouni?

 jiabaolihuncaichanzenmefen？womendehaizijiaruhetayiyangdexingzineikezenmebanni?yebingbushiwofeidelengbaoli，jinjintaneishihouzaiqitoushangzenmejiangdouburongyitinga。jiarutanengxiugaitadezheiyixingzijianxindajiadeqingganhuibirujinhaoxuduo 。