对付冷暴力的男人怎么做？家暴后女人心理阴影是什么？

 jiabaobaojingzenmechuli？zainannvguanxizhong，yeyouyizhongbaolixingwei，tayagenbuyongdongshounengli，jiabaolihunzenmechuli？jiunengranglingyifangdalianggaidong，zheileibaolixingweishiyizhongjingshenshizhishang，heqingganshangdeshuangzhongdaji，shashanglishifenda，jiabaohounvrenxinliyinyingshishenme？tabianshi“lengbaoli”。

 xuduo nvshengdouzaodaoguolengbaolidesunhaihetongchu，quebuqingchuruhejiejue，jinridajiajiugenjuliangxingxinlixue，xiaojiechu3gehelidefangshi ，bangnizhiliao“lengbaoli”。

1.没法沟通交流，就不要找他“沟通交流”

 zaichanshengzhengzhishi，dajiadoushihuifajue，xintaibijiaoxingfendeshizhongshinvxing，ernanxingjiaoduodoushihuitiaoxuan“huijuegoutongjiaoliu”，yiyizhongjianmo，huotaobidefangfaqujiejuekunnan。

yizhiyu，dajianvxingganjue，tazheileixintai，zongshirangnantiyulaiyucaogao，nidexintaiyejiuyulaiyumenglie。

shijishang，zainanshengtiaoxuanduobi，huoshihuijuegoutongjiaoliudeqingkuangxia，bibushangxianrangzishenjingxiaxinlai，meiquzhaotagoutongjiaoliu。

 youyu，zaibicixintaidoujiaoweimengliedeqingkuangxia，yingduinantiyebuyidingkeyihuodehelichuli，jiranlingyifangrujinhuijuegoutongjiaoliu，jiububigenxintaidikangle。

 jiabaolihunzenmechuli？ninengtiaoxuanpingjingxialai，rangzishenqusansanbu，bahuolidoufangdaozishendeshenshang，kanyikanhua，kanyixiatianshang，ganshouyixiafeng。

dengzhenizhenshidijingxiaxinlaihou，ninengfajuezhenduizheizhongnanti，nizaoyiyongyoushengjidelejie。

 shijishang，youshinanxingsiweihenvxingsiweidechabiejiuzaizheili，jiabaohounvrenxinliyinyingshishenme？zaizhengchaodeqingkuangxiayibannanrenshiqidailiuchuzishenshineikongjian，qudulisikaode。

yinci ，liangzhezhijianrangnantigengfanza，bibushangbanandianjiaodaotamenqusisuoba，ninengquguangjie、maidongxi、sansanxin。

 dengzhenidiaozhenghaozishendeqingxuhou，ninengfajuenanshengyebingbingbushineimexiaiduobinanti，taduobidejinjinkuangzaodexintai，jinyouneiyangcaikeyigenghelidijiejuekunnan。

2.你的日常生活重心点在哪儿，他的心就在哪儿

 zairichangshenghuozhong，dajiazongshihuipengdaoyixienvsheng，tamenbaquanbudesixudoufangdaonanyoudeshenshang，zheileitaiguodeyikao，yizhiyuyiqiedongjing，bianhuiduizishendalianggaidong。

zheileinvsheng，shizuifeichangrongyizaodaolengbaolisunhaide，youyu，zheishijishangbianshi“ziwojiazhigan”bugoudefanying。

 niyuefazaodongbuanjiaolvqingxu，yuefachixufangqizishenlaiquyuelingyifang，jiecijihuihuodeshuobailede“rentong”，dadaoneizaijiazhiyaoqiu，zheijiuhaoxianggekepadexunhuan。

nijiangquanbudeshiyongjiazhidoujiyuzailingyifangdeshenshang，queweiyouwangjilezishen。

yizhiyu，zaiganqingzhongyulaiyudijian，yulaiyububeigaoduzhongshi，naizhichangchangbeilengbaolikandai……

 shubuzhi，keyiwanbizheiyiqiede，bingbingbushitichufenshou，jiarubuzuozishengenggai，neimahuanzuohesheitanlianai，jieguodoushihuizheiban，yinci ，liangzhezhijianbaoyuantarende“leng”，bibushangjuecegaibian。

 zailingyifangbulinideqingkuangxia，qusuzaoyigezishendexihaoba，wulunzheiyixihaoyouduoda，zhixunenggourangzishenyuelaiyuegenggaoxing，gengkaixin，neinijiuquzuoba。

jinyoumingbaidiaozhengzishen，aixizishen，caikeyidedao daliangdeai。

 dengzhenibahuolichoulichulaifangdaozishendeshenshangdeqingkuangxia，ninenghuranfajue，yuanxianzishenhaikeyineimexingfukuaile，erqieninenghuodeyifengengjiankangdeganqing。

3.以毒攻毒

 zaiyingpian《wuwendongxi》zhong，baliushufenzhengside，bianshilaogongshishikekedelengbaoli，wokanleyingpianhou，jiuzaixiang，tayidingyexiangguoxuduo fangfaquchuliba。

danyemeiyouyiyangjianxiaoguo，yinci tacaitiaoxuanletiaojingzheileifangfawanbiyiqie。

 dajiadajiadoulejie，beilengbaolideweidaoshiqueshihentongchu，danweihejibianniyingyongleshichuhunshenjieshu，doumeifarangnanshengzhongzhilengbaolini?youyudajiahushilezuiyagendeyaosu，bianshi“ai”。

 tayouduoaini?yigerenaizheni，zenhuishinizaiwujinzhihaizhongtongchupiaoliu?nimeiyourangzishenyouzhebeiziwojiazhi，caisuanshizuiyagendeyuangu。

 buyaozaidanxintalengbulengdenantile，rutongnilaizhuiyizhihudie，nishizhongdoumeifazhenshidibatayouzhe，danruguonizhujiantiaoxuanzaizhongyipianhuayuandeqingkuangxia，ninengfajue，tadangranhuiweinitingliu。

 yinci ，taleng，nijiuxuyaobitagengleng，jiezhemeiyicitalengdeqingkuangxia，doubazishenyuelaiyuegengchuseyidian，niyouduodadeshiyongjiazhi，jiuyouduoshaoyouhuoli，ninyoushiduoshaoyouhuoli，tajiuyouduoaini。

 yinci ，jiabaobaojingzenmechuli？yingduilengbaolideqingkuangxia，yiqiemaiyuan，yuantianyourendoubuqizuoyong，jinyouzishenzhenshidizhanliqilaichuli，caikeyibuxuzishenzaizaoshousunhai。