轻松化解男人冷暴力，家暴后女人心理阴影是什么？

 jiabaobaojingzenmechuli？cengyouqiuzhuzhegaosuwoguoneiyangyijuxinsuandehua：“woliangzhongjianweiyidexinyoulingxishiwomeilita，jiabaolihunzenmechuli？tayebuliwo。”xunzhaodajiadeqingkuangxia，tahetadelaogongzaoyilengbaolihenjiu，jiabaohounvrenxinliyinyingshishenme？2geduoyuemeiyoushuoguoyiqieyijuhuale……

 hunyinshenghuozhongzaisuonanmianyoudiediezhuangzhuang，dan，xuduo qingkuangxia，dangfufubicipengdaowufagoutongjiaoliudefenqishi，xiaoxiaosasadidachaoyijiayuanbifenbiebiezhubuzuoshengyaogengfeichangrongyixunzhaojiejuefangan。

 neima，zaiyingduinanshenglengbaolishi，nvxinggaizenyangjiejuecaikeyijijiejuelenanti，hainengrangliangrendeqinggantiwen，shitagengaizhenini?

zhaodaotaduinilengbaolideyuangu

1)他不愿在情绪激动时损害你

rendaoqingxujidonghuoshiqingxushikongdeqingkuangxia，zuifeichangrongyizuochuzhuihuimojideshier。

 tebieshizainanshengyushengjulaijiubinvxinggengjubeigongjinengli，tamenyegengweiqingxizishendezhenzhengxingqing，tamendanxinyidanchanshengzhenshidezhengzhi，huikongzhibuzhuzishendexintaisunhaidaoni，yinci tamenhuibipozishenpingjingxialai，yuelaiyuejianmo。

shide，nimeiyoukancuo，youshinanshengdejianmoshijishangshizaiyongtadefangfaaixizheni。

jiabaolihunzenmechuli？jinjindabufennvxingbukeyilejienanshengdezheicenghanyi，zaitamenyanzhong：jianmo=buxihuanta。

 yinciyuexiangyueqi，yingduinanshengdejianmo，meiridoushizaibaozoudebianyanxingzou，jiabaohounvrenxinliyinyingshishenme？yizhixiangganxieshierzaochengnanshengdeliuyi，weicilaizhengshinanshenghaishenaizhezishen。

2)对你如果不爱了

haowuyiwen，lengbaolishinanxingyongyubinvrentichufenshoudechangyongzhaoshu。

 dangnanrenduinvrennile、buhuizaidonglexin，tamenxuduo qingkuangxiaburongyijijititichufenshou，zhishiyonglengbaolibinvrentitichufenshou。

那样的冷暴力一般有那样几类主要表现：

 ①ba“mang”guazaizuishang。burongyiweilegenghaodipeizhenihuijueduoyudejiaoji，huijingchangdejiabanjiadian、gongchu，nishaoyoumaiyuan，tabianhuiyi“mang”weiyuanyin，saizhuniyaoshuodequanbudehua。

 ②buhuiyingxinxineirong。nijitamenfatiaoxinxineirong，tayaobudangmeikanjianbuhui，yaobugehenjiuhenjiucaifuyanleshidehuiyige“ng”“e”“hao”，qieneiyangdezhuangkuangbingbushiouyouchansheng，zhishibuduankaizhanzhe。

③juebujijilianluoni。nimeijijilianluota，tarutongxiaoshileyiyang，jueduibuhuijijilailianluoni。

 ④shilengshire。duinidexintaiyaoshitadeqingxuerding，taxinqingyukuaijiudouniwanyixia，xinqingyumenjiuduiniwudongyuzhong，neiyangfanfu，shilengshire。ruguonizongsuanchibuxiaotifenshoudeshihou，tahuiguoduanditongyi。

jiabaobaojingzenmechuli？niduitasixintadi，taganjueniwuguanjinyao，nifanganzhejianglai，taquefangancehuazheliqu。