什么是家庭冷暴力

 shenmeshilengbaoli ？shenmeshi jiatinglengbaoli ？baolideyizhongxingshi ，lengbaolishibaolideyizhong，qibiaoxianxingshiduoweitongguolengdan、qingshi、fangren、shuyuanhemobuguanxin，zhishitarenjingshenshanghexintaishangshoudaoqinfanheshanghai。lengbaolizhuyaoyouliangzhongqingkuang，yishijiatinglengbaoli，ershizhichanglengbaoli，shijishangdoushiyizhongjingshennvedai。

一、什么是冷暴力？

 lengbaolishishenmeyisini？jiatinglengbaoliduozhifuqishuangfangchanshengmaodunshi，mobuguanxinduifang，jiangyuyanjiaoliujiangdaozuidixiandu，tingzhihuofuyanxingshenghuo，lanyuzuojiawudengxingwei。

二、 什么是家庭冷暴力？

 butongyukejianderouticuicandejiatingbaolixingwei，jiatinglengbaoligengduodeshitongguoanshiweixie、yuyangongji、jingjihexingfangmiandekongzhidengfangshi，dadaoyongjingshenzhemocuicanduifang。zheizhongfangshichanshengdejudaxintaiyalihuishiduifangjiejinbengkui，tongshibansuizhedeshihunyindegeheyubuxinren，zuizhongdaozhihunyindejieshu。zhidezhuyideshi，zaishishijiatingbaolishihou，duoshinanxingzhenduinvxing，erzaijiatinglengbaolishijianzhong，nannvshuangfangdouyoukenengchengweishishijiatinglengbaolideyifang。youqizainanfangshiyeshiluo，yalidadeshihou，nvfangduiqidelengbaolixingwei，weihaichengduyuanyuanyaodayubaoli。

三、实质分析

 lengbaolishishenmeyisini？suowei“jiatinglengbaolishizhifuqishuangfangchanshengmaodunshi，taidulengmo、mobuguanxinduifang，jiangyuyanjiaoliujiangdaozuidixiandu，tingzhihuofuyanxingshenghuo，lanyuzuoyiqiejiawugongzuodengfeizhengshibaolixingwei。jiatinglengbaolishijishangshiyizhongjingshennvedai 。fuqishuangfangdoushilengbaolihoudeshouhaizhe，liangbaijushang 。wangwanghaihuibujingyidirangjiatinglengbaolimanyanzhijiazhongdexiaohai，duixiayidaideshanghaigengshiyinxingde、qianyimohuade，shanghaizhidashiwufayujide。

 ziguyilai，renmenjiuaiyong“fuqibenshitongmingniao，bingkulaishixiangfuchi”laixingrong“jia”dezhongyao。goujianhexieshehuidejiben“xibao”jiushijiating。suoyi，“jiatingbaoli”bujinweijiyigejiatingdexingfu，yeweijishehuideandingtuanjie。suoyi，womenyaoduishehuizuogongxian，shouxian，gaohaojiatingdexingfumeimanyeshihenzhongyaodeyigefangmian。

四、解决途径

 shenmeshilengbaoli？daduoshuzaoyujiating“lengbaoli”derendouyouzheiyangyizhongganjue：wurenkesu，wuchukeduan，wufakeyi。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，hunyinwentizhuanjiajieshaoleliuzhongfangshi，yongyiyingduijiating“lengbaoli”。

1、平静

 ruguonifaxiannidepeioukaishichuxianlengbaoliqingxiang，zairenheshihoudouqianwanbuyaodachaodanao，neiyanghuishideqifan，niyidingyaobaochilengjing，zheiyangcainengyouzugoudexinqinglaifenxinimenzhijiandemaodunsuozai。

2、分析

 nixuyaoyizhibiheyizhangzhi，banimenshenghuozhongyoukenengjifaduifanglengbaolidewentiyiyiliechu，napashizuixiaodekenengyebufangguo，ranhouzaibagenniwuguandeyinsuyeliechulai，tongshizaibanidepeioudexinggetedianyexiechulai，kankanshishenmeyuanyincijita（ta）duinishishilengbaolide。

3、交谈

 dangnizhunbeihaopingjingdexinqinghefenxihaosuoyoudeyuanyinhou，nijiuyinggaizhudongtichutanhua。tanhuayaozaimeiyoudisanzhedechanghexia，yaokaichengbugong，bayiqieyoukenengdewentidoubaizaizhuomianshang。nixuyaodeshiduifangduinitongyangdekaichengbugong，ruguojinjinshijiatingneibumaodunhuoyuanyunidemaodun，zheizhongtanhuaqifenyou90%yishangjiejuewentidekeneng。ruguoshinipeioubenshendewenti，xiangyouwaiyushenmede，zheiyangyenengyouzhuyurangnilejieshiqingdezhenxiang，huozheshuo，zhishaorangnimingmingbaibaidizhidaozijisuoshoudeweiquheshibaishiyinweishenme。

4、抉择

 shiheshisan，zainijinxingfenxideshihoujiuyinggaiyougejuedingle，dangnimentanhuazhihou，nijiugengyinggaizhidaozenmexuanze。congxintaiganshoulaijiang，nizhudongzuochudexuanzeyaobinibeidongjieshoudexuanzeyaohaohenduo，youqishiyouyuduifangzaochengdewenti，nizhudongyuanlianghuibiaoxiannidedadu，nizhudongfenshouhuibiduifangyougenghaodehuixuanyudi。

5、说服

 ganqingdesangshishishuofugongzuobiandeyichangjiannan，yongguoqudeaiqing、yongjiating、yongfumu、yonghaizishenzhiyongcaichanhemingyudoubukenengdadongquyiyijuededuifang，niweiyidexuanzejiushifankeweizhu，yongtitiedexingshizuochubangzhuduifangdezitai，congbangzhuduifangcehuayuxinrendejiaowang、daobangzhuduifangshejita（ta）weilaideshenghuo。

 nizheiyangzuohuirangduifangcuoshoubuji，jiuxiangbierenzaiwakufengcinideshihou，niyesuizhewakufengciziji，bierenhuijuedehenmeiquneiyang，nihuirangta（ta）huranfaxiannidelingyimian，baokuonidecongminghetongqingdali，bingyishidaozijiduinideqianjiu，tongchangqingkuang，nizheiyishou，keyiwanhuijumiandegailvshi80%yishang。

6、小别

 yaoshinimenzhijianjinjinshichuzaiyigejiaozhangshijiande“lengzhan”jieduandehua，zanshidechuchajiangshiyigefeichanghaodebanfa，danyaojizhu，fenkaideshijianbiechaoguoyigeyue，nihuidaojiahou，yeqianwanbiefenju，neiyangjiushenmedoushuobuqingyejixubuxiaqula！