女性面对家庭暴力怎么办，必须掌握好这5点

 juxiangguanbumenshujudiaochabaogao，zaiwoguojiabaofabinglvzai29.7％～35.7％zhongjian，zaiqizhong90％zhishangdeshouhairenweinvshi。zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？neima，dangzaoshoujiabaodeqingkuangxia，nvshigaizenyangziwobaohu？yougaizenmezuocaikeyihelifangzhijiabaodechansheng？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？yudaojiabaodezhengquezuofayounaxie？

 zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？shijishang，youguoduodequanweizhuanjiahefangshigaozhirenmen，jiejuejiabaogengweichangjiandefangfajiushishuoda110baojing，huoshizhaofunvlianhehuixiaofeizheweiquan。danshuwangbianzhiyanbuhui，zheileifangshizhongguizhiyoushiyizhonglixianghuaqingkuang，tajiuxiangguazaishujianshangdeyikeguozi，nengkanhuode，danbuyidingnengzhenshichihuode。lengzhanshishenmeyisi？yudaojiabaodezhengquezuofayounaxie？

 yinci，zheili，wangbianyibuzaitanzheixielirujingbaohezhaofunvlianhehuidelaobanfale，zhishixiangjinyibulieshujigefangmianhaoyong、lingbianhenenggouziwobaohude“pianfang”，buzhuiqiukeyihuodedahuoerguangfanrenke，zhiyuannenggouduiyixieyijingzaodaojiatingbaolidenvshirenqunyouyixiexiaofanggongxiao。

其一，以较大 的抵抗和瘋狂答复“第一次”；

 shijishangxianshishenghuozhongyouhenduokeguanshishigaozhirenmen，quanzujiabaodezhongyaotongchangqujueyu“diyici”。tangruozaiwomenchucizaoshoujiabaodeqingkuangxia，jinjinqianchangzhezhisididafuyixia，erqierangtajiuneibanhexiniyiwangdehua，qishizhibajiuhaihuijixuyougengweibijiaoyanzhongdediercihedisancide。

 zaiwangbianlaikan，yaoshipengdaojiabao，renmenhaiyaoyijiaoda dedikanghefengkuangkaizhandafu，feichangshidiyici。jinliangyaoranglingyifangwanquancongzheidiyicide“yibuxiaoxin”he“lumang”zhongjuewuhuilai，jienayangedechufa，kaizhanzhenqiediziwofansi，rangtamenzhenshitongjiri，zhangzhangjixing，neng“huabingchongji”，nengzaixiayicibashoujuqilaiyihouhaipayongjingluoxiaqu。

 shizheshengcunshishengwujieshizhongbukeyigenggaidecunhuoguilvxing，qudehunyinshenghuoyujiatingzhongyiyangkeyong。danqiedepadadande，dadandepabupaside，nanshengyounengliangshangdeyoudianouda，neimanvxingyeyidingyaoyoujiuchanbuqingshangdegongzuonengliduofangmianfanji。

其二，识其性后再决策是否犟嘴；

 zhixingjiabaodenanshengyibanyouerzhong：yizhongshiqishanpae，lingyizhongshichiruanbuchiying。wangbiantiyiduineiyangerzhongnanshengyidingyaoduofangmianyousuochayi。zhenduiqianmianyizhongnenggoujiangzui，bingqiewubijiangzui，naizhishiyeyaorangdikangdaolaigengweiqiangliexie。qiyunyongyiweiwangmindehua，jiushishuo“douqianrangdaoqiangmiandaole，tayeyaojiangwowangsilibia，wozhinengdikangcaikeyicunhuodeshineikongjian”！

 zhenduihoumianyizhong，nvxingpengyoumenjiububichiyanqiankuile，tashuonaxiejiuyaotashuonaxie，bubijiangzui，yaoxuehaorenrang，yaonenglijigaoqingchutafahuodeyuangusuoshu，linghuoyunyonggezhonggeyangsuoshudetianshidilidenggezhonggeyangbiaozhun，yixiezhuzishenjiejueyandixia“weiji”。guigenjiedi，zheizhongyongwangbianjiaxiangdeyijuhuashuojiushishuo，“fufuyaoshidongxinxing”！

其三，把他的软助做为一张牌面，重要情况下展示；

 zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？cshiyiweibeishoujiabaocanhaidenvxing，tayiqianchuangchuleyigexingqiaiwucibeilaogongbaozoudezuigaojilu。zailijinghenshuciqinfenyiranmeifalihunhou，tagangkaishixiaojieqilegongzuojingyan。tazhangfushiyigeshifenfengjianshehuidenansheng，qimamazixiaojiuzaiqibabadebijiaoyanzhongjiabaozhongyishizhuxing，zuizhongyouyuchengshoubushangtongchu，tiaojingzishale。yinci，yibianduifutababaduimamafanguodecuo，tamenfuziliangxingtongmolu，shinianlailianggerenmeiyouyijuhua，laonianrendewannianshenghuoguodeshifenqican。lengzhanshishenmeyisi？yudaojiabaodezhengquezuofayounaxie？

 duiyuzhangfudezheileigerenjingli，cbawozhuletaderuanzhu。youyicizhengdangxingzhangfuyunuhoufabingdeqingkuangxia，tafandaochongdaozhangfuyanqianjiangdao：“nidaba，daba，kansiwosuanleba，nibadangchubingbushiyeneiyangzounimadema？zongzhidajiajiayidaiyige，yinweiworenshule！”

 erzheihuaganghaogongchulezhangfuxinligengweiaitongdeyiduanjiyili，mamashitazheiyibeizizuixihuandeyigeren，erzheigeshihoutaquepobudeyibayanxiadezheiyinvrenyuyiqiantongkuzhongdemamalianluolaidaoyiqi。shizheileizenghenheduimamadetengaijiyuletazidonghuakongzhidenengliang，neiyicitadeerguangmeiyoudaxiangc，erhenhenshanxianglezishen。

 cgaozhiwangbian，tazhangfuhaiyouyigeruanzhu。neibianshicongbuhuizaihaiziyanqiandongshounengli，yincimeimeizhangfuzhiyayaofanudeqingkuangxia，tahuituituoquhaiziwuzitaobi，dailingyifangqinglengshiduofenzhonghou，yichangyuanbenhaiyaolailindejiabaoyejiuguoqu。

 genjucdezhuangkuang，renmenbuhuitainansuanchu，jibenshangsuoyourenquanshiyongyou zishenderuanzhu。zheileiruanzhubixukaopingchangguanchahexiaojiede，jiarunengbawodehaodehua，kenengzaizhongyaodeqingkuangxianenggouzuoweiyizhangpaimianjiurenmen。cileifangshiyouweihaixing，youyong，danjuebunengchangjian。guigenjiedi，jiabaoruoshipinciduole，zairuheshiyongfangshiquanshibaifeihekebei。

其四，独立自尊自爱和自立，始终是女性解决家暴的较大 宝物；

 juwangbianshuzhi，zaodaojiabaodenvxingxuduo quanshibukeyidulizizunziaihezilidenvxing，tamenzaixingqingshangcunyouzherouruo，zaixingdongshangqianqueqipo，jingshenshijiequefaduli。jinercushizishenzhangqixingchuzaihunyinshenghuodelieshidangzhong，nanshengyiyanjiubatakantoule，neixinchiwanbaoxinwan，lejiebuguanruhetadoubukehuoquezishen，jinersiwujidan，dananzizhuyiguannianyuelaiyuepengzhanghexintainiuqu。

其五，具有一定的分辨“气象云图”工作能力；

 jiabaodezaocheng，chukaiyouyibufenyuangushiyinweibicidexingqingbuhehuoshishimoufangbaonve，qiyeyoufeichangyibufenshiyouyubicizaochenglefenqiyihou，yifanghuoshuangfangdoumeinengjishichulihuoduofangmianjiejue。ji，tamenbingmeiyoujuyouyidingdefenbian“qixiangyuntu”degongzuonengli。

 wangbianjuede，zuoweiyiduifuqi，yifangyingdanggaoqingchulingyifangdeqimaaihao，xintaifazhanqushiguilvxing，lejietashenmeqingkuangjianghuihuinaopiqi。zhinengjuyoulezheiyigongzuonengli，nvxingcaikeyiyufu。zuishaonenggoucongmouzhongyiyishanghelifangzhijiabaodechansheng。

 jidewomuqinchangshuo：fufuzaiyiqi，najiarenchangyouxingzide，guanjiansuozainidemingbaitadexingzi，tashangqulenijiuyaoyixia。zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？woshangqule，niyejiuderenyixia，zongbutaikenengliangrendouchangfandiaoba？buranbudaqilaicaiguaini！