面对家庭暴力离婚，这三个女人告诉你怎么做才对

 jiabaodedingyishishenme？shenmeshijiatingbaoli？jinqi，wenzhoushiyinvrenazaolaogonghegonggongbaozoudezheiduanshipinkuaisuzaiwangluoshangbaohongle。xinlangweiboshangchuanzhezichengweixiazhizi。tagaozhixinwenjizhe，jiangmoujiayizhicaiyitaqinjiejiewaiyu，cengyiduduiakaizhanjiatingbaoli，bingyishijiaorenzhuizongtianjiaa。yudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？

 tacheng，anfaqiantaqinjiejieyiyujiangmoujialiangdifenju。alianbuyouhaojichuxuehongsedeshangbajiningjiedexueji，anfadizhidedibanzhuanshangdaixianzhuxueziheyiliuliuxiufa。yudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？tatiji，ahejiangmoujiayu2012nianwanhun，yuyou2nv1zi。xianjieduan，gongzuoyuanrengzaibeigaofangjialikaizhangongzuozhong，gonganjiguanyezaoyixietongganyu。jiabaodedingyishishenme？shenmeshijiatingbaoli？

yibanzhangfujiatingbaolipubian，jiagongyecanjiazheijiuhenwomenyiqichabiele。

 haijidemeiguoguoxintaizhiliaogaoshousatiyashuo：“yigerendegexingtexing、renshengsanguan、jingshenshizhipinxing、siweimoshi、shenghuofangshi，doubeishouqijiatingguanxideweihai，xuduo naizhishigenbenxingdeweihai。”

 yigezixiaozaibaolijiazhongzhangdaledexiaohai，jiandaofuqinchangchangmazanghua、dajia，dangtazhangdaleyongyouzishendejiazhihou，jianghuiyaowang2gebuyiyangdefangweifazhanqushi；renkeshibaozhehuozherenkeshouhairen。shubuzhijuanqimeidefufu，zaibujingyijianzhongjiujiaohuixiaohaixiangjingrubin；zhangdayihoujiazhongyehuihenwennuanhemu。

1、婚前应要看彼此爸爸妈妈

 abudanzaoshoulaogongdebaozou，jiagongjuranyecanjiazaiqizhong。zheijiuyaorenmenjuedehennanyizhixinle，yigeyiqiezhengchangdejiazhong2gefufuyiqishenghuo，jiazhongdefenqibenyingliangrenyiqichuli。jiagongjurannengzheshoubanghaiziyiqibaozouerxifu，shexiangyixia，zheiyijiagongshijidengzhongguogongmin？

 doushuojiatingguanxihenzhongyao，kanxiaohaiziyaokanniang。hunyinshenghuozhenduisuoyoureneryandoushijiyiyizhongteda，womenxianghexinaiderenbaitoudaolao，jiageyigerenjiushishuojiajitadejiazhong。neiwomenzaixuanbutaruhunyinshenghuoshengdiandeqingkuangxia，hebuxiankanyixiatadebabamamashishenmeyangderen。

bujinshiqihuaxuewuzhishangdebiaozhun，gengguanjiandeshijingshenshizhishangdeshencenggoutongjiaoliu。2gejiazhongdejiazhiguannianshibushiyizhi。

 yigehaoguimilijingqinrenxiangxijieshaolejieleyigenanhai。lianggerenyikaishihenhedelai，zaicifazhanqushiyiduanshijianhou，tajibenshangmeiridoushitongdianhuayuwomaiyuan：“wojuedeshenzhongkaolvyixiawomenliangdeguanlian，yikaishilejiedejirihaixing，jinqifajuetajianghuahengaosheng，woyoudianerjienabushang”

 jiabaodedingyishishenme？shenmeshijiatingbaoli？wojitadetiyishi，jiarulianggerenhaixiangzaicixiangchudehuajiuyingdangqujiandaonanhaierdebabamama。jieguo，guoran。

 neiweizhuangzhongwenroudehaoguimiqunanhaierdebabamamajiayikan，tababamamayeshijianghuahengaoshengderen。loucengzhijiandegebilinjuyikaishiyebuxiguan，rujindoujianguaibuguaile。zhihou，genjuxianliao，nanhaierdemamazaijingshenbingyiyuangongzuozhong。meiribixukaohandefangfaquhetamengoutongjiaoliu。xianeryijiandayuejiulejieshenmeyuanyinle。

 2gejiazhongshenghuofangshixiangjuhenyuanjiumeibanfanenglaidaoyiqi。yigejiazhongzixiaowennuanhexie，lingyigejiazhongzixiaozai“kangzheng”zhongzhangdaledexiaohai，liangrendejiazhiguannianzennengyizhini？jieguojiushishuoliangrenmeiyouzaizaicixiangchule。yudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？

 jiatingguanxijiushishuorenmencongchushijiqidaochengnianrenyiqiansuodaidejiazhong。keshizairenmenchengnianrenyihou，huibaituojiatingguanxi，yehuixunzhaodeairen，gouchengyigejixinshengjiazhong，nagejiacaisuanshiwomenzijidejia。meigerendouzhangdale，yedoushicongjiatingguanxilibaituo

2、为了宝宝忍受的婚姻生活

bnvxingzaoyiguodebuxingfukuailele，keshiyibianlianggehaizi，tarenleshinian。

 qianbujiugaokaohou，liyidebabamamajudui。zheizaiwangluoshangyezaochenglehendadezhenjing。womenlejiexiaohaidekeyehenzhongyao，shinianhanchuang，jinniangaokaoyebianchengjuedaduoshuxiaohaigaibianrenshengdeweiyifangshi。babamamadouqidaiernvnengdayouzuowei，yincizaixuduo jiangyaojinniangaokaodejiazhongeryan，lijibabamamadefenqizaishengji，yehuiliuzaishihouchuli。

 juedaduoshurendouganjue，weilebaobaoyingdangren，keshitamenbuqingchudeshi，yigezaoyibuailedejia，jihaizidesunhaijiaoda 。

 zaifuyangxiaohaiquanguochengzhong，jiliyubaorongtongchangbixunchigengyounengliang，yingduixiaohaideniantou，jiyudeyinggaishizhangwohezhongshi，erbushisizirenweiduozouxiaohaitiaoxuandezhipeiquan。babamamayeyingdangquzhangwohezhongshixiaohaideniantou，erbushibazijideniantouqiangjiayujihaizi。

 renmenyizhijijiyuxunmixingfukuailedeshiqing，shubuzhixingfukuaileqishibushihennan，rutonggedeshuode：zuiwenxindejiamoguoyouhaoxiangchudejiazhong。

3、退而求其次

 bnvxingbuzhiyicibeijiabao，sangeyueqianhaifajuejiangshifuziliangpairenzhuizongzishen。keshitaruhezuodeni，huaizhexiangxiang，qidaishirikeyihaoqilai。

 qianzhenzipapijiangzhudachanpinwanghongmeinvshishangbozhuyuyalushipinzisujiatingbaoliqinshenjingli，tongchiqiannvyounanpengyoujiataotianzuixingwei，zhuiyizishenguoqudeyinianhaoxiangyishizhuxingzaiemengli，tongkubukan。

 julejie，xiaohuoyouguosanduanjieguohun，qiansanrenlaopodoucengzaodaoguoqishifenbijiaoyanzhongjiatingbaoliqinshenjingli，zheishipuchuhou，gaixiaohuoshengjilehaojitiaozipaizhaoyishizhuxingdongtaixing，bingbaweiboqianminggaidongwei“kuangwangzidadandawangwei”。yishiyoujinuquxiang。

 renmenqinglixingxiangyixia，jiaruyigenanrenjieguosancihun，yizhibugongzuozhong，yizhibixunvxinglaibaochizishenyishizhuxing，qieganjuelisuodangran，zuixianzheigerenjiugaizaicikaolvle。bierangyiqieyigerencaozongnideyishizhuxing，neijueduishiemengdegangkaishi。

 bixutishibeijiabaoderen，wubixuehaoyongfalvfaguiwuqizhuangbeibaohuziji，youxierentamenhuozaizishenxuqingjiayidepengzhangdeguannianquanqiu，tamensiwujidanwurutaren，bazijishengehua，zheiyangderenzhongjiushijishaoshu。

 yinci，nvhaimen，dajiazaitiaoxuannanyoudeqingkuangxiayidingyaoxuechatigaojingti，bubibeibiaocengwupinsuomihuo，xuehaobianbie，caisuanshizhenshiconghuidegangkaishi。

 diyiciyushangsunhaishijiuyingdangbaohuzijile，zhenduizheixiechixusunhaizishenderen，yidingyaojinzaodujue，burancuihuidejianghuijiushishuozishendeyibeizi。

 yudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？renmenshengzhangfayuzaizheigehemudeshehuifazhan，yaoxuehaoyongfalvfaguidewuqizhuangbeibaohuziji。baolilingrongren，tashirenshengzaishidejichushehuidaode。