什么是冷暴力？面对丈夫的家暴，选择原谅后他们的婚姻过得怎么样

 meiyouwuzhitiaojiandehunyinshenghuobushishijidehunyinshenghuo，meiyouaiqingdehunyinshenghuoneijiushitianmanquanyidehunyinshenghuo。zaoyulengbaolihunyingairuheshihao？muqianyulaiyuduoderenwanhun，tamendezuihoumudibingbushishiliangrenyiqixiangyaoyougejia，daliangdeshiyouyujiazhongcuizhewanhun，yihuoshishiyibianmouleiquanyierzaiyiqi。shenmeshilengbaoli？yinweijiatingbaolilihungaizenmechuli？

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 shixiajiatingbaolibianchengliyigengweiguanjiandeyuanguzhiyi，xianjieduanzaiwoguodagaiyou24.7%dejiazhongcunyoubuyiyangshuipingjiabao，yingduijiatingbaoli，nishishuobuhuanshitiaoxuankuanrong？zaiqizhongyouyixienvrenshibukeyichengshoujiatingbaoli，zuihoutiaoxuanliyi，eryeyixienvrenxuanzelekuanrong。neimayingduilaogongjiatingbaoli，tiaoxuankuanronghounvxingdehunhoushenghuozenyang？sanweinvxingjilehuida。

他尽管有家庭暴力，可是因为我不可以去告他，否则家就没有了。

 lnvxingyulaogongjiehunshinianle，tashiyigeyilaiganjiaoweiqiangdenvxing，suichudoushiyikaolaogong。gangwanhundeqingkuangxia，laogonghuanshiduitashifentiexin，danshimanmandibansuizhehunhoushenghuodefazhanqushi。laogongzhenduizishendexintaiyefashengbianhua，congyiqiandetiexinbianchenglelengdan。

 zaoyulengbaolihunyingairuheshihao？deqingkuangxia，lnvxingkanbushunyanlaogongyixiezuofa，chuziyunvxingdexutao。lnvxinghuiduilaogongxutaobuduan，youshihoulaogonghuifapiqigaoshenghongzishen，zhihoushilijidongshounenglidaziji。yingduilaogongdejiatingbaoli，lnvxingtiaoxuanlechengshoukuanrong，tanaozhongconglaimeiyouxiangguoliyi，genghaipaqugaolaogong。yidangaolelaogong，daibiaofuqiganqingpolie，tashitabuyuandejieguo。

 ganqinghuiying：yingduineiyangyigelengdandenansheng，zishenqingkuanglejinjinfangrentazaiyicidejiatingbaoli。yierzaizaiersandeqianrangshinanyijiejuenanti，zuoweinvxingniyinggaixuehaobaoweizishendeliyi，biezaishoutadecuicanle。shenmeshilengbaoli？yinweijiatingbaolilihungaizenmechuli？

他那么可伶，无我有照料，之后怎么办呢。

 wohelaogongwanhunbanianle，laogongshijialideduzi，erbabamamayouzaiwomenjiehunlezhihoubujiubianguoshi。neigeshihou，laogongdeqingxujiuyuelaiyueshifenbutaihao，haozaiyouqiyedeshierqianyitadezhuanzhuli。

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 ganqinghuiying：niyoubushiguanshiyinpusatoutai，nishuonizhaoliaota，neimayousheilaizhaoliaoneiwo？nvrenshibixurenlaizhaoliao，nishijishanglianzishenyemeiyouzhaoguhao，youyounaxiezizhizhaoliaotarenni。

小孩还小，为了宝宝我可以承受。

 hnvxingyulaogongjiehunwunianle，gangwanhundeqingkuangxia，laogongduizishenhenhao。neigeshihouyebingbulejielaogongshiyigeqingxubuwendingderen，zidawochanhouyihou，fangfoshierzaoyishengmizhuchengshufanle，tadetianxingyegangkaishimanmanchengxianchuqu。xingziyeyuelaiyueshifenkuangzao，jingchangzaiwaimianwanpaishuleqian，jiunawopaiqi。

 yingduilaogongdejiatingbaoli，woxuanzelenilaishunshou。shijishangwoyexiangguoliyi，danshizhihoukanjiannianjihaixiaodehaizi，xinlihuanshigeshebuxialai。

 ganqinghuiying：zaoyulengbaolihunyingairuheshihao？yingduilaogongjiatingbaoli，tiaoxuankuanronghouhunhoushenghuozenyang？sanweinvxingjilehuida，sangenvrendoubiaodatiaoxuankuanronghou，bingmeiyouhuanchenggenggai，zhishiyuelaiyuedecunjinchile，hunhoushenghuodangranbushixingfukuailele。nishuonishiweilebaobao，danshinicengxiangguo，xiaohaijiandaobabamamameitianruci，xinlihuiruhexiangma？neiyangdehunyinshenghuobiliyi，duixiaohaideweihaihaida，yincitiyigankuaililehun！