婚后冷战，面对家庭冷暴力还有挽回婚姻的机会吗

 xianrujindeshehuifazhan，shijishangxuduodelianrenzaipingshidejiaowangshangdouyingdangjingliguojiatinglengbaoli，yeshijianghuizaiyishizhuxingdewuxingzhizhongduitarenyingyongguojiatinglengbaoli，jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？keshiyoushijianghuidoubuzizhieryi，doubuzhangwoshenmejiaojiatinglengbaoli。hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？

 “jiatinglengbaoli”shuobaileyeshibaolideyizhong，yebeichengzuojiazhonglengbaoli,keshitayouhebaoliyouyisidebuyiyang，baoliyibanshibierengenjuoudalingyifangdegerenxingweilaijiejuekunnan，jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？erjiatinglengbaoli，yibanzhuyaobiaoxianweilengmo、hushi、zongrong、shengshuhebuwenbuwenzheijigetexing，jinerjibierenjingshenshizhishanghexintaizhuangtaishangzaoshouqinhaihesunhai。hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？

 yeshihunyinjiatingchuzaiyizhongzhangqixingdeqianjiaqingkuang,naizhiweihailingyifangdeyiqiezhengchangyishizhuxing.jiatinglengbaolibirentisunhaigengzhimingxing，suozaodaodehunyinshenghuogongzuoyalibibaolidadeduo。nenggou neiyangshuo，jiatinglengbaolibibaoligengkongbu。yeshizaocheng hunyinshibaidejiaoda dezuikuihuoshou。

 hunhoushenghuozhongyidanchuxianlejiatinglengbaoli，jiuyuzhaozhehunyinshenghuochuxianleweiji，tashihunyinweijideyigeyuzhao。hunhoushenghuozhongyoutingdayibufendenanrenshikaoyunyongjiatinglengbaolilaijilingyifangshiya，jinerzuodaolihunhuobiedebuzhengdangxingdemudi。zuoweinvxingjiaruhunyinshenghuozhongchuxianlejiatinglengbaolidejixiang，zishenyouqidaibaochimuqiandejiazhong，neihaiyaoqinfenjianqingjiatinglengbaoli，bajiatinglengbaolimoshazaimengyaqili，qingchujiatinglengbaoliyaosujiushishuoyouweizhongyaode。

 dangnanrenyibuxiainvxingshi，kandaizheiyinvxingyebujijizhudongle。daliangdeqingkuangxia，jiarunanshengduiyigenvrenxuanyongjiatinglengbaoli，biaomingzheigenanrenzaoyitaoyanzheiyinvxingle，taduizheiyinvxingzaoyimeileai，yincitabuzaiyinvxingdetihui，yizhiyifulengbingbingxintai，niaizenmezenme，haoxiangyutabuxianggan。buquyueni，budihuini，yizhiyizhongbuwenbuwendexintai。jiushizheiyangliangzheni，dangnichibuxiao,nenggou xuanzefangshou,wulunzenyangshuo,tabuzaiyi,yenengjiena。

 zheijiushidajiachangshuode“ruandaozisharenbujianxue”，jinguanduitaeryanbutengbuyang，quehuidaozhinixinlizuidichenyinyinzuotongdeshang，yuefabumengliedetichufenshou，yuefajinixinyoubugan。nvxingxiantianxingjiumeiyouanquangan，jiuaicaiji，yijianshiqingwubiyoutayouxiaodebiaoshu，jibiantichufenshouhaiyaojigeyouxiaodeyuanyin。fanguolai，xiangaidelengkuwuqingbaolizhong，nanshengyibandouniyingzangxing，fenhaobulushehuidaodedemajiao，yincininengyilujiaozhenerxialai。

1.出現家庭冷暴力时，女人要学好看透人生

 yigenengkanchuanyishizhuxingdenvxing，zaipengdaojiatinglengbaolishi，burongyizuowuweidizhengtuo，youyutalejiezheigerenbuzhitaqusisuo。nanshengduitaleng，tahuifanbeideduinanshenggengleng，kansheikeyijianchibuxiedaozuizhong。neiyangdenvxingzaiyingduijiatinglengbaolideqingkuangxianengkeguanlumiandui，buxiangyixienvxingneiban,zishenshenxianqizhongbukeyixuehuifangxiaheziba。feidenonggezhenxiangdabai，,nisiwohuo，kandaoguanmucailuolei,daozheiyichengducaixiangxinnanrenyibuaizhenile。

 shijishang，youshiruguonikantouyiqie，ninengfajuesangshibiyouzhegengzhideyongyou。nisangshideshiqinggan，nihuodedecaisuanshizishengengjizhiderenshengdaolu。ganqingzhitubenjiutianmanjianxin，yaoxiangdapaimingxingliuyanxuexipeixun：“powoliangshuideren，wonengzhufeileguihaidajia”。duinieryan，dangnanrenchuxianjiatinglengbaolijixiangdeqingkuangxia，niyejiuyingdangjianjuedebazheigehuoyanmiediao，haohaosikaoxiarenshengdaolu。hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？

2.出現家庭冷暴力时，请给另一方一个理智的室内空间

 hunhoushenghuozhong,jiaruchanshengbuyukuai，bubineishihoujiuhelingyifangchanshengmengliedezhengzhi，yaojixianghuyigelizhideshineikongjian,bubiyibianfenlichulaigeshuyingerjiazhongfenqi,lingwaihaiyaozhangwoyigedu，bubilengbaolideshijianzhangshijian,jijichengrencuowuhegoutongjiaoliucaisuanshijiejuekunnandezhongyao，jiaruxianghudouxianrujiangju，zhangciyiwang，fufuyiqiandeqinggan，yehuisuishijiandebianhuayulaiyudan……jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？

 lengbaoligangkaishihou，renmensuoxuzuodebingbushimaiyuanhezuzhou，zhishiyaoshikefanshengziji，sisuozenyangcaikeyituidongqinggandefazhanqushi。zaizheiduanshijian，bubiyishifahuoerkanduanhelingyifangdelianluo，zuishaoyaobaocunyigexianghudelianxidianhua，yifanglingyifanglianluonirangnichengrencuowudeqingkuangxiazhaobuzheni，jinersangshichulimaodundejiyu。

3.家庭冷暴力期内假如另一方让步，要适度给个楼梯下

 zailengbaoliqinei，jiarulingyifangxiangyaorangbu，jiuxianjitamenyigeloutixia，erbushiziyiweishihuomanhengwuli，sijiuzhetarendebuzhengquemeifang，yaoshidudejitamenyigebiaoshudejiyu，suihouyuanliangbingjienata。jiarulingyifangburangbu,niyinggaixianfanshengziji,fanshengzijinaerzuobudui,jiarujianzhizishendeyuangu，neimejiugaozitaiyidian，jijichengrencuowu,dapojiangju,jinzaowanbizheicijiatinglengbaoli。yibianzishendehunyinshenghuotuiyibumeiyoushenmebuchude。

 zongeryanzhi，jiatinglengbaoli，bingbushiyichangcuoluandezhanshi，jiatinglengbaolichanshenghou，shengfuzaoyibingbushizuizhongyaode，huligongyingcaisuanshizongtimubiao。renmenyingdangzhangwoxiandu，lejieruheshouwei，neiyangrenmencaikeyijinkuailejiedaoxianghudebuzhengque。xianghujiuzhengzheiyibuzhengque，caikeyirangxianghuhehaoruchu！

 meiduanqinggandegangkaishi，changyouyiqiandexingfu，renmenjiuyingdangzunzhonglingyifang，pengdaofenqiliangrenyiqixiangbanfaxiangfangshefadiaochu，changshilejielingyifangzhenshiyaoxiangnaxie，pouxizenmehuichuxianneiyangdenanti。

 hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？dahuoerdoushuozhengchaobuliusu,yinci，qingbuyaozaiduitarenyingyongjiatinglengbaolile，nidejiatinglengbaoliqueshihuiwomenyiqihennanguo，womenyaoxiangxinqiji，jianxinqinggan。nikeyigaoqingchu，meirendeqingganshiquzhibujiede，nikeyizhenxixianzaisuoyouzhede，shizhongbubilengbaoli，jiatinglengbaolihuihaoguangxianghuquanbudeai。