面对这样的婚后冷战，该作何选择

 xiaoyhexiaowwanhunhenduonian，xiaoymaiyuanyulaopodezhongmeiwenhuachayibuyiyang，xuduo shenghuofangshi、goutongjiaoliufangfameifazuodaoyizhi。yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？xiaoyshibiyehoude，xiaowshizhongxiaoxueshengdaxuebiye，zairichangshenghuozhongxiaoyshiyigejiaoweiyouqingquderen，zaijiehunwuzhouniandeqingkuangxiaxiaoyjixiaowmailaiyigezuanjie，xiaowneishihoumaiyuanxiaoybuguoshenghuo。jiabaolihunhouyinggaizenmechuli？zaoyujiatingbaolideyouxiaochulifangfayounaxie？

 yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？meiyicixiaoyxiaowgoutongjiaoliunaxieniantou，yizhibukeyizuodaoyizhi，zhangciyiwang，xiaoyjiuyibuhexiaowgoutongjiaoliu。xiaowjiandaoxiaoyxiaoshufangdehuazhanglexiaochongzi，jiubuyoufenshuodebahuadiuqile，xiaoyhenxinfanxiaowdeyixiegerenxingweiheniantoujiuzaixiaoshufangbanrulaidaoyizhangdanrenchuangkaishilezhangdasanniandejiatinglengbaoli，jichubuheqizijiaoliuyugoutong。jiabaolihunhouyinggaizenmechuli？zaoyujiatingbaolideyouxiaochulifangfayounaxie？

shijishangbazijiguanruxiaoshufangbudanlaopohuitongchu，laogongyeshitongchude。

 zaizheiliduanshiliuniandehunyinshenghuozhongyifukuzishilaopoxide，fanshishilaopozuode，yinciweihexiaoyjinriguoshangneimeyouxianzizaideyishizhuxingduozaizishendeshiwaitaoyuanlibianxiangyouyigerenqingjingdeshiri，shiyouyuyouneiyangyigenvrenzaijingjingdishiyonghenuli。

zaiyuyanzhongxiaoxinghumobubiaoluwaiduilaopodejiazhong、chusheng、wenhuadetediankanbushang。

 shijishangyishizhuxingxiangmaodeyuanbenjiubingbushixueyuefenghua，womenshipingfanshijiedefanren，chizhefanrendefan、yizhefanrendeyi、tanzhefanrendeganqing、zhengzhefanrendetongqian。

 zheixiexueyuefenghuajinjinrichangshenghuodezhuangdianbingbukeyibianchengyishizhuxingdesuoyou，renmenjianguoyouhenduoxuelihengaoshouzuozhehenbeiliedeshi，yejianguoxuelididerenyongyou dadeqingjie，zheibingwuguanxi。

 keshiyouyidianhenzhongyaoneibianshizhongshi，jiaruyigexuelihengaoderenbumingbaizhongshi，neixuelimeiyoushenmeyong，danjiaruyigexuelidideren，henmingbaijingweizhixinzhuanyezhishi，neizheigerendepinpaixingxianghuiweianqilai。jiabaolihunhouyinggaizenmechuli？zaoyujiatingbaolideyouxiaochulifangfayounaxie？

 yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？ruxianghujianzhongshixianghudeyishizhuxingzhongshilingyifangrichangshenghuodechabie，liangrenjiukeyihaohaodijiaowang。

keshizaixiaoyyuxiaowhuihuazhongnenggou jiandaoxianghuzhenduixianghudebuzhongshi。

xiaowbaxiaoydehua、shujirenglejiushishuoduixiaoyshenghuoxiguandeyizhongbuzhongshi。

 dangwenjixiaoyzenmehuihexiaowwanhundeqingkuangxiaxiaoluanshuolesigezi“hulihutu”，biaomingneishihouxiaoywanhundeqingkuangxiajiazalewanxiao，meiyouhuodekaolvdao，yeshiyizhongbuzhongshi。

 zairichangshenghuozhongxiaoyduixiaowyouguogaodejingshenxuqiu，shubuzhitameiyouneimagaodewenhuashuiping，xiaowderenshengguandeshenmeiguanzaojiuzhucheng。

 jiaruxiaowhexiaoyyaoxiangzaicizaiyiqi，neimaqingxiaoybuyaozaineimadedanbo，xiaowyebubiduixiaoydeshenghuoxiguanguoduodequganyu，xuehaoxianghuzhongshi。

 renmenbuyinrenmenquefazhuanyezhishierganjuecankui，keshirenmenyidingyaoduiyouzhuanyezhishiyouwenhuaderen，youyizhongzunzhong，lingwairenmendoubuyouyuzishenxueligaorenmenjiuqiaobuqizheixiemeiyoujiyuhuodewenhuayishuderen，youyuyishizhuxingxiangmaodeyuanbenbingbushiwenhuayishuqigongxiao，shiyigerendepinxinghehanyangqigongxiao。

hunyinshenghuolibixuxianghuzhongshi，zhongshixianghudeshenghuofangshi。

yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？xuehaoxianghuzunzhong，buyouyuchabiefenqiyuelaiyueda，qinfenzhaoxianghurichangshenghuodexiangtongdian。