什么是冷暴力？怎么才能“赶走”家庭冷暴力

 zhuzhebuqingchuzhuweiyueduzheershiyoumuyouaiguoda，aiguoma。shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？congfalvfaguideshijiaoshangkan，zheizhonggerenxingweifeiyaoguidaojiabao，couheshuodeguoqu，jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？keshiwomenzhidaobabamamashixihuanrenmende，falvfaguiyelejie，yincizheileiqingdudejiusuanbushangzuojiabao。

 renmenzongzaixinwenbaodaoshangjiandaodejiabaoyizhilaogongdaguolaopoya，babamamalingnvexiaohaiya（liuyishilingnve）。jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？keshi，dajiazhangwojiazhong"jiatinglengbaoli"ma？shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？

难题一：什么是家庭"家庭冷暴力"？

shangwentijidelaogongdaguolaopoya，zheileisuanwei"rebaoli"。

家暴一般指热暴力

rebaoliyibanzhiwulixueshangdesunhai，lirudongshounenglidajia

 xiangduixingde"jiatinglengbaoli"shizhijiatinglengbaolizhifufuhuoshibiedezuyuanzhongjianzaifashengzhengzhideshihou,bingbushigenjuoudadengbaoliwulixuefangfajiejue,zhishiduilingyifangcaiyonglengmo、hushi、zongrong、shengshuhuowurudexintai,rubulicailingyifang、jiangyuyangoutongjiaoliujiangzhizuishaochengdu、fuqijianzhongzhihuofuyanleshifuqishenghuo、buzuohuojinliangbimianjiawulaodonghuoshizhisangmahuai、wurulingyifangrengetezhideng,shiyizhongcongjingshenshizhishangsunhai、lingnvelingyifangdeyizhongfeizhengguidebaoliqingxiang。

 "jiatinglengbaoli"jianyidejiangjiushishuoyouyizhaochaer，fashengzhengzhideqingkuangxia，zhixiqinshuyizhibulini，feichangshaoheshuohua，jingshenshijiejinibushufu（nenggou tuidaodaobabamamaduiernv，ernvduibabamama）。ziran，jianghuishengqilebulinishiyiqiezhengchang，ng，dequeyijiduren。keshidanglingyifangzhangqixingbulinideqingkuangxia，nijingshenshizhishangjueduihuibenkuide。

家庭冷暴力是精神实质上的损害

jingshenshizhishangdebaoliyuanyuandibishentishangdegengkongbu！zheijiushijiazhong"jiatinglengbaoli"！

难题二："家庭冷暴力"由于下列特性，没办法被法律法规网络舆论监督!

 cunyoudetaiguangfanle。jiatinglengbaolishiyizhongbudangzuodebaolifangfa,fazhanqushisulvzhikuai,fugaimianjizhiguang,rangrenshiliaoweiji。congdadoushidaoxiaochengzhenjianshe,congzhongguobailingdaolanlingjieceng,naizhiyixiexiangcundiyu,doujianghuichanshengbuyiyangshuipingdejiatinglengbaoli。shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？

 fangshitaiduole。lengbaoli、youyizhaochaer、manmajiqicijixinglingyifang、kaizhanrenshenanquanxingyuyiyanjingongcaitashouhairenzizunxin、rengetezhi,shenzhiyouguoduanjiuailibuli、mobuguanxin,yibuzhixingjiazhongdeyiwuyuzeren,lengdandaoyidingshuipingshi,lingyifangdeyiqiedouyujiwuguan,daozhibenlaiwennuandejiazhongruyuhanchao。

 ganzheizhongdetongchangwenpingbudi。xuelidiquntiaimianzi,erqiexurongxinjiqiang,youbushanyufaxiehebiaoshuzishendebuliangqingxu,jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？dangfufu、jiatingzhuyaochengyuanjianchuxianburongqiaeryoumeiyoubiededexuanxiefangshideshihou,fenqizhongdeyifangburongyicaiyongquanjiaoxiangxiang、baodadengcubaofangfa,tamenjuedeneiyangyouweizishendefengcai,yincitiaoxuan"wenmingxingwei"dejiatinglengbaolifangshizhangqixingduifu、jingonglingyifang,zaoshoudaoneiyangzhangqixingdejingshenzhemoyulengdan,jiubidinghuiyinqishouhairenbuyiyangshuipingdexintaiwentihejingshenshizhinanti。

 tarenmeibanfalejie。zhixingjiatinglengbaoli,jikanbudaochuangkou,youkanbudaoxueshui,bingqiemeiyouxianzhudefazhanqushiquanguocheng,beigaofangshiyijingshenshizhishangcuicancongercaozonglingyifang,yinersifabumenshangdiaochaquzhengjiannan,baoliqingxiangdeyinmixingjiaoqiang。

难题三："家庭冷暴力"有多可怕？

jiatinglengbaolishiduijiatingzhuyaochengyuanjingshenshizhi、xintaizhuangtaidejiqicanhai！

 zaodaojiatinglengbaolidejiatingzhuyaochengyuan,xintaizhuangtaishangdoushizaoshouyidingweihai,nvshidaduoshuqingganyuelaiyueminganyixingfen,xintaizhuangtaigudan,shenxinjiankangzaoshoujudaweihainanshitongchangyineryuelaiyuecaiyiyishenyigui、yiziwoweizhongxin、xiaochenbuzixin,bukenherengoutongjiaoliu。shentishangdewaishangnenggou quanyu,erneixinshangdewaishangquebuyiquanyu,jiatinglengbaolizuoweiyizhongyinxingdebaolifangshi,jijiatingzhuyaochengyuandesunhaidingyabirebaoligengda,naizhihaihuijixudaozhijingshenshizhiwanzheng。

家庭冷暴力毁坏家庭和睦与和睦！

 jiatinglengbaolishiweihaihunyinshenghuo、jiazhongdeguanjianyaosu,zhangqixingshoujiatinglengbaoliweihaidejiazhong,yiganqing、zhenqingsuoweichidejiatinghunyinguanlianhuizaoshouweihai、waiqu,lijiweihaizhejiazhongdexingfukuaile,shidaozhijiazhongliekaideguanjianyuangu,youdechanshengjiatinglengbaolideqinziguanxisuiweiliekai,danjiatingzhuyaochengyuanbingbuxingfukuaile。

难题四：人们國家现行标准法律法规能合理操纵"家庭冷暴力"嘛？

抱歉，没办法！！！

 zaiwoguomuqiandexiangguanfalvfaguibiruxianfaxue、pochanfa、tufashijianyingduichufafa,jiqinvxingliyibaozhangfajinguandouyaoqiuleyanjinduinvxingzhixingjiabao,zhenduijiabaodezhudaozheyingzaoshoufalvzhicai,keshi,zhenduisuoshuxiangguanfalvfaguilaijiang,yifangmian,yaoqiudejiaoweichouxiangxing,shangqianqueshijidejiuzhufangshierqiekezhixingxingjiaonanlingyifangmian,zhiduichuantongshidejiazhongrebaolizuochuleyaoqiu,qianqueduijiatinglengbaolizhuangkuangdeyouguanyaoqiu,erqieqijinzaiwoguoweiyouquelidefalvguidinglaibiaozhunyuquanzujiatinglengbaoli。

 zaixianrujindefalvfaguijiagouzhizhong,yunyongjiejuerebaolidefalvfaguiyuanzhufangshilaichulijiatinglengbaoli,haicunyouhenduoxitongloudongyuquedian,zaijutiyunxingzhongbudankanqilaixinyouyuerlibuzu,bingqiehaibulisifabumenshijicaozuo。

zuiweiguanjiandedeyidian：nimeibanfaquchurangshenpanzhangxiangxindezhijiezhengjulai！！！

falvxuexuejiayeyizhizaihaozhaoyouguandezhengcefaguijinzaozhiding，keshishenmeshihoukeyichuqu，huanshiyigeweizhiliang。

zhishangcanzhao《woguojiatinglengbaolifalvjiuzhucuoshiyanjiu》、《jiatinglengbaoliduiqingshaonianfanzuideyingxiang》

duoxuan|ninshibushijingliguojiazhong“jiatinglengbaoli”？

从没经历过

youshihouzaoshoujiazhong“jiatinglengbaoli”

changchangzaoshoujiazhong“jiatinglengbaoli”

rujinrengzaizaoshoujiazhong“jiatinglengbaoli”

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另附有关法条：

《婚姻法》

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 yiju《zhianguanlichufatiaoli》deyaoqiu："youyixiaqinhaibierenrenshenquanligerenxingweizhiyi，shangbuzuxingshichufende，chushiwurixialiejuya、200yuanxialiechufahuoshijingshi：

(yi)oudabieren，daozhiqingdusunhaide;

(er)bufaxiandingbierenrenshenziyouquanhuoshifeifaqinrubierenzhufangde;

(san)gongranwurubierenhuoshiwaiqushishiwumiebierende;

(si)lingnvejiatingzhuyaochengyuan，shoulingnverenguidingjiejuede;

(wu)xiekonghexinhuoshiyongbiedefangshi weixiebierenanquanxinghuoshiyingxiangbierenyiqiezhengchangyishizhuxingde;

(liu)weibihuoshihongpianbumanyishibasuiderenyanchukepa、cankuzongyijiemu，canhaishentijiankangde;

(qi)zangni、huiqihuoshishanzikaichaibierendianziyoujian、chuanzhende。"

 yiju《hunyinfa》di43tiaohe《zhianguanlichufatiaoli》deyaoqiu，shouhaizheguidingyifabanlide，gonganbumencaikeyishenli，shouhaizheweixianggonganbumenguidingjiejuede，gonganbumenweiyuchuli。

fanjiabaofaduijiabaodefalvfaguichufayaoqiu

 disanshisantiao　jiahairenzhixingjiabao，zuchengweibeitufashijianyingduigerenxingweide，yiguijiyutufashijianyingduichengfa;gouzuide，danweishouhuizuixingshichufa。

 disanshisitiao　beishenqingrenweibeishengminganquanweihuling，gouzuide，danweishouhuizuixingshichufa;shangbugouzuide，renminjianchayuanliyingjiyuxunjie，nenggou yijujuqingqinghezhongchengchuyiqianyuanxialiechufa、shiwurixialiejuya。

 disanshiwutiao　yuanxiao、youzhiyuan、dingdianyiliaojigou、shequjuweihui、cunweihui、shegongfuwuxiangmuzuzhi、yuanzhujiandujigou、fulizuzhiyijigongzuoyuanweianzhaocifangfadishisitiaoyaoqiuxianggonganbumenjubao，daozhiyanzhongweihaide，youshangjilingdaozhuguanjigouhuoshibenqiyeduilijichengdandeguanlirenyuanhebiedelijizerenrenyiguijiyuchufa。

 disanshiliutiao　chengdanfanjiabaogangweizhizedeguojiagongzuoyuanshizhiduzhi、duzhifanzui、wanhuzhishoude，yiguijiyuchufa;gouzuide，danweishouhuizuixingshichufa。

 diershisantiao　beigaofangyinzaodaojiabaohuoshizaoyujiabaodeshijifengxian，xiangrenminjianchayuanshenqingbanlishengminganquanweihulingde，renminjianchayuanliyingshenli。

 jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？beigaofangshiwuminshixingweinengligongzuonengliren、xiandingminshixingweinengligongzuonengliren，huoshiyinzaoshouqiangzhixing、hehudengyuangumeifashenqingbanlishengminganquanweihulingde，qizhixiqinshu、gonganbumen、funvlianhehui、shequjuweihui、cunweihui、yuanzhujiandujigounenggou weituoshenqingbanli。