冷暴力婚姻是怎样的，对婚姻的伤害有多大

 zhongguofaxuehuicengdui3500haojigejiazhongzuolediaoyan，shujuxinxixianshixinxi，zaoyulengbaolihunyingairuheshihao？0%zhishangdejiazhongchangyouguohuozhengchuzaibuyiyangshuipingdejiatinglengbaoli，qiejiatinglengbaolibujincunyouyufuqiguanxi，zaiqinzigoutongzhongyeshubushengshu。shenmeshilengbaoli？yinweijiatingbaolilihungaizenmechuli？

 yanjiubiaoming，jiatinglengbaolichanshengdeyuekuai，shaonianertongdexingqingyueguaizhang，zixuenengliyuecha，zaoyulengbaolihunyingairuheshihao？tebieshizaifumuchangchangduixiaohaizuochudezhei5zhongjiatinglengbaoli，bidongshounenglidaxiaohaihaikongbu，kankannizuolejige？shenmeshilengbaoli？yinweijiatingbaolilihungaizenmechuli？

一、爸爸妈妈辩驳小孩的提议

 babamamashixiaohaidediyiqingtumubiao，youshihoutamenyouyixiexiaoniantou，doushidiyishijianyubabamamagoutongjiaoliu，shubuzhiyixiebabamamajianghuihuicongchengrendeshijiaokaolv，buyouzizhudibianboxiaohaidetiyi，jiaruxiaohaixinbuganzaidumingquetichukenqiu，babamamawudongyuzhong，henkenenghuilijiyanlidajidaotamendezizunxin，weilaiyudaoshier，bukenzaigenbabamamagoutongjiaoliu。

qiadangzuofa：xuehaolizaixiaohaizaidejiaoduguanchananti，yongxintingtamendeniantouhetiyi，bubiyiweidifouren。

二、爸爸妈妈对小孩指桑骂槐

 yixiebabamamaduixiaohaideguidingjiaoweigao，xiaohaiyidanmeizuodao，jiuduiyucishizhisangmahuai，bingduiqibiaoshuhezheyixianhaoshushiwudu，naizhiyouyizaibierenyanqianshuoyixieyanlidajirendehua，neiyangduixiaohaidexinxinshiyizhongcuihuishideyanlidaji，feichangrongyirangxiaohaizaochengxiaojibeiguan、ziwofouding。

qiadangzuofa：kandaixiaohaidechenggongshibai，babamamayaoweichilianghaodexintai，deshixintaizhongtongchanghuihuodexiaosatinglei。

三、爸爸妈妈不理睬小孩

 zaoyulengbaolihunyingairuheshihao？xuduo xiaohaizaifancuowuhou，yuanbenjiuchenjinzaizaodongbuanyukuijiuzhong，tamentantebuandedenghouzhebabamamadechizeyuzhize，shubuzhiyixiebabamamayibianchengfahaizi，youyibuzuochudafu，naizhizaixiaohaichengrencuowuhou，rengranzhuyaobiaoxianchulengdandexintai，zheishijishangzhenduixiaohailaijiang，shiyizhongyouzhangdejingshenshizhilingnve，feichangrongyirangtamenyuelaiyuebijiaomingan、mingan。

 qiadangzuofa：shidudichengfahaizizhihou，gaozhitamenzenmehuineimezuo，jiaruxiaohaijijichengrencuowu，babamamayingdangjihaizilijidedafu，gaozhitamenzhicuojiugaishanmodayan。shenmeshilengbaoli？yinweijiatingbaolilihungaizenmechuli？

四、爸爸妈妈没立即答复小孩

 qianyiduanshijiankaibode《mamashichaorenzhong》，erzi（huangshengyierzi）yumamaguanlianlengdan，lijingyiduanshijianjiaowanghou，erzijianjiandichangkaixinfei，youshihouhuizuochuyixieqinmijiechudexingwei，danmuqinjingchangyouyuchuzai“laodiaoxianqingkuang”，chenjinzaishoutoudeshierzhong，meilijidafu，zaocheng erzinankanbuji，zongsuanyouyidingdehuanjiedemuziguanxiyouchuxianlefengxi。

 shijishangzaixianshishenghuozhong，chuxianguoxuduo xiangjindeshier，babamamamangzhezishendeshier，hulvelexiaohaidezhaohuan，naizhihuijiqiyanfan，youyijiazhuangbuhuiyou，xiaohaizaoshouhulvehou，huiguyidizuochuwanpigerenxingweixiyinzhubabamamadezhuanzhuli，zheishi，ruobabamamahuanshiwudongyuzhong，xiaohaijianghuimashanghuisheqidedaobabamamadeguanxin，congerzaocheng qinzigoutongshengshu。

 qiadangzuofa：jibianzaimang，haiyaochouchulaishijianlaigaozhixiaohai，fuqin（muqin）xianzaiyoubiedeshierbixujiejue，dengmangwanhouzaishuopeinixianzaihaihaoma？huoshijihaizibujuyixierichangrenwu，qianyitamendezhuanzhuli。

五、爸爸妈妈不耐烦陪小孩

 tashixuduo babamamadequexian，jiaoyuhaizishihaiyaokanshouji、kandianshiju，shijishangxiaohaishibijiaomingande，dangtamenwandezhengkaixin，yaoxiangfumuyiqicanjiashi，niuguotouyikan，fumuyijingquanshenguanzhudizuobiededeshier，zhangqixingzheiban，feichangrongyirangtamenyexuehuilesanxineryi，weilaixueyechengjijianghuihuijiaoweicha。

 qiadangzuofa：zaoyulengbaolihunyingairuheshihao？jihaizigaopinzhideshouhou，peizhetamendeqingkuangxiajinkenengbubizuobiedebuxiangganshier，jiaruqueshishitaimang，yeqinglijigaozhixiaohai。