婚后冷战，婚姻中的冷暴力足以逼疯你爱的人，学会拒绝冷暴力

 tanlianaideqingkuangxiahenduorendoudanxinlingyifangjiatinglengbaoli，dajiaganjuelingyifangjibianhezishenfenbugushendechaoyichangyebijiatinglengbaolidaolaishuangkuai，zuishaozhengchaozhengshilingyifanghaizaiyizishen。hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？jiatinglengbaolishihenduorendoudanxindeyizhongfenshoudefangfa。lengbaolishishenmeyisi？hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？

一、“整整的五个月，关起家门口后你我之间就没讲过过一句话……”

 tashilxifuerzaimingquetichuliyishideqisu。hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？tayulwanhunyejiejinliunianle，zheiliunianli，lianggerenyecengyouguoduanzanxingdemeihaoshiguang，shubuzhigengyouzhangdeshiguangli，ljiaojilaopode，queshiyouzhangwuzhijindewuxingzhongsunhai：jiatinglengbaoli。lengbaolishishenmeyisi？hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？

 lxiangbuqilaizishenshiyishenmeshihougangkaishi，duilaopozhixing“mobuguanxin、buwenbuwen”xianxingzhengcede。bierenqianshishiyechenggongdedafu，penyouxuduo ，yonghupingjiafeichanghao。shubuzhihuidaojia，yingduilaoposhi，taqueyizhiciwaiyifuwaimao：duilaopoyouyuanwufen、conglaibujijigoutongjiaoliu，shenzhishiyeliningkeshuishafa，yebuyuanyihelaopogongchuyishi。

 laopoyoushihouyehuiwufakongzhishangnao：“nikankanniyingduiwodechouezuilian！shibushinixianqiwo！renmenneiyang，yeyouyidianfufudemoyangma？”erlquelianchaodoubuxianghetachao。zailneixin，laopozhuandebitashao，yanjieyeduanqian，hunhounaizhimanmanyuelaiyueliangbinbanbai。lneixinjizhelaopojiatingfenweizuochudefengxian，dantayedequeyanfanlaopo。

 zhuanzhedianzailaopoqianbujiuyouyuhenyanzhongdeweiyanerzhuyuanzhiliao。qianbianshuoguolshigedafu，tafenpeipengyouquzhaoliaolaopo，danzhuyuanzhiliaoqineiljichumeiyoulaikanhuguoyici。zhihou，laopozuihouxinhanwanquanle，tamingquetichuleliyi。xiangqilaopozheimeduonianduijiazhongzuochudewusifengxian，lzheicizhuyilibujizhongle，taxunzhaorenmen，yaoxiangwanhuilaogong。

二、常有哪些十二星座呢？

一、狮子女

 jiqingkailangdeshizinvyeshishoubudejiatinglengbaoli，shizinvpengdaojiatinglengbaolideqingkuangxiaqueshihuiganjuezishenquanshenjiqingdoubeilengqijijitunmei。yincikailangdeshizinvhendanxinbeilengbaolifenshou，youyubumingbaijiejuelengdandetamenbuqingchuyingdangquwanliuzheiyifenganqing。lengbaolishishenmeyisi？hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？

二、射手女

 juxiezuodenvhaitaoyanweiweisuosuo，youshenmeshinilijigentashuo，tahuihenyuanyitingnidejianyi。keshidangnihetajiatinglengbaoli，tamenhuihennanshou。danghejuxiezuodenvhaimeiyouganqingdeqingkuangxia，bubimomocengcengdeyonglengbaolifenshou，tamenhendanxinbeilengbaolifenshou，lijiyimulerandetichufenshou，sheshounvhuixiexieni。

三、水瓶女

 xiaosadebaiyangzuoyeshihenpalengbaolifenshoude，baiyangzuodeqingganhaipadejiushishuotuozhe，tamenganjuetuozheshiduibicideqianban。hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？jiaruyoudianeryaojiatinglengbaolidejuede，shuipingnvhuilijixiaosadeyunitichufenshou，burangniyiqiejiyuqujiatinglengbaoli，zhongjiutabuyuanjinihuiletamenxinlineifenxiaosa。

 jiatinglengbaolisheidoupa，jiarumeiyiduanganqingdoumeilejiatinglengbaoli，huoxujiuchuxiandalianghepingfenshoudelianrenle。yejiuburongyiyouneimeduorendaofenshouhouhennanhaipaqutoushenyuxiayiduanqingganle。

三、那麼如何解决呢？

一理智的沟通交流

 bulunshijiatinglengbaolihuanshibeijiatinglengbaolideyifang，yaoxuehaoqujijiqugoutongjiaoliu，yaoxuehuifangqizishendeqingmian，xianglingyifangdixiatoumeiyoucuo，bubizongyizhigaoqiyangyikouqidejianghua，hezhiyideyikouqilaigoutongjiaoliu，neiyangsheidouchibuxiao，bingqiehaihuijixushuangsunhaibicideqinggan，goutongjiaoliubukehuoque，youshinibushuolingyifangdoubulejie，zhangciyiwang，zongshisunhaibicideqinggan

二暖人的个人行为

 liangrenshuizaitongyiwuyanxia，keshixianghudoumeililingyifang，naizhieyuzhongshanglingyifang，fangfochoudiyiyang，lingrenjuedeyayigan，nenggoujijidailingyifangsansanbu，lvdujialvyou，naizhiweilingyifangzuoyidunfan，shenyegaihaoruzizheixie，yixienuanrendegerenxingwei，haikeyirangjiatinglengbaolixiaotuiwuying，xianghujianyingdangxianghuzunzhong，lejieaixi，yiqiedoubingbushishi

三有意的争吵

 duibiqizhengchao，jiatinglengbaolilingrenshiluo，jiarujiatinglengbaoliwufadedaochuli，nenggouchangshi，youyihelingyifangchaoyijia，youyuzhengchaoyeshiyizhongxuanxiedefangfa，nenggourangleijixinlidexiaojiqingxuhuodeyizhongshifangchulai，keshijiranshiyouyi，yidingyaozhangwohaozheiyidu，ganwanbukeyihanyouqingxubuwendingdequzhengchao。

zaiqingganzhong，jiarupengdaolejiatinglengbaoli，qianwanbie“yiezhie”，jiejuekunnancaisuanshirenmenzuihousuoyaoxiangdejieguo。

 jiatinglengbaolibingbukongbu，yaoshitanchengxiangdai，qubajiejuewentidiao，bashierjiangkaijiuhaole，yirannenggougaogaoxingxingdezaiciyishizhuxing

 lengbaolishishenmeyisi？liangrenxiangyu，enailaidaoyiqishiduomedebuyi，liangren，xixixiangyi，xianghuzaiyilingyifangdetihui，kuanronglejielingyifang，jiumeiyouguobuqudekan。