夫妻之间婚后冷战应该如何处理？

 lengbaolishishenmeyisi？taruhunhoushenghuohou，congbenlaidedanshennannvdaochuanglijiazhong，fufumendoushiqinshenjingliyigemoheqidequanguocheng，zhongjiushibenlaichedishengshudeliangrenlijingtanlianai，cihouyaoxianghuyishizhuxing。gongxingyigewuyan，chaimiyouyanjiangcucha，jiaruhaiyoulexiaohaidehua，yishizhuxingkeyishuogengweidefanhuahefanzale。hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？hunyinlengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？

 zongeryanzhi，zaishenghuoqijuli，jibenshangmeiyoubuzhengchaodefufu，youyuzheishiyigebidingdezhuangkuang。lengbaolishishenmeyisi？buyiyangjiuqujueyuruhechulizhengchaohoudejiedi，haodefufuzairiqumoheqizhonghuixuehaojiejuefangan。hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？hunyinlengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？

 xuduo fuqizhengchaohoutongchangshihuozhanghuoduandelengbaoli，xianghushizuoqiti，shijishangshifenshangganqing。neima，fuqijian，lengbaoliruhechuli？sangeyoujingyanrenjiangchulexiaoqiaomen。

案例一：如果是都是我的错，我能给她提前准备一些小礼品道歉，立即致歉压根无论用，女性还会继续再次斤斤计较。

 wanhunliuniandejxianshenghelaopodouguishuyuxingqingjiaoweizhideneilei，meiyicizaiyingduihaizidejiaoyunantideqingkuangxia，yizhijianyibutaiyizhi。

 jxianshengrenweijiaoweiyangexingdejiaoyufangshi，danshilaopoquejuedeyingdangyigengweikuanronghejilidefangfaqukandaixiaohai。yinci，zaixiaohaidenantishang，liangkouzijingchangzhengchao，suiranliangrenhaidoujiaoweiliuyi，burongyizaixiaohaiyanqiandachaodanao，keshiguanqimenlai，zaiwofanglidanshijingchangdouzui。

 chaozhihoujiushishuolengbaoli，laopohetabushuoyijuhua，liangrendoujiaozhejing。shijianzhangle，xiaohaixianzhuzaoshouleyixieweihai，feichangdanxinbamachaojia，youyuchaozhihoujiazhongdeqitirutongdidalebingdu。

zhujianyishidaoduixiaohaibuhaodeweihaihou，liangkouzidouyouyidingdesikao。

 paoyewugongzuozhongdejxiansheng，zhihouzhaodaoyigechulilengbaolidehaofangfa。meiyicijiarutaganjuecicizhengchaoshizishendecuowudeqingkuangxia，tahuiqumaiyixielaopopingchanglihenxihuandexiaolipin，lirushoujiguajian、maoronggongzizheixie。huidaojia，chuhuyiliaodilijididaolaopoyanxia，jiandaoxiaolipindeneiyike，benlaibengzheliandelaopozongsuanrenjunbuzhule。

 jxianshengshuo，bubiyibanyiyandidanchunxingquzhiqian，neiyangyoushihouyagenwulunyong，jibianbiaocengshanghehaola，lengbaolishishenmeyisi？shijishangnvxingneixinhaihuijixuzaicijinjinjijiao，xiaolipinquebuyiyang，nenggouranglaopowanquanxuehuifangxiaxinsuo。hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？hunyinlengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？

案例二：我并讨厌无意义的致歉，他要是了解错在哪儿了，我也不容易斤斤计较了。

 xuduo qingkuangxia，fuqijiandezhengzhizuikaishiquanshiyixiexiaoshier，wuguanjinyaoshijishangmeiyouduoshaofenqi，danshichaozhechaozhejiuhaoxiangshengjile。chennianwangshihaoxiangdoubeibanlechuqu，zuoweilaogongdeyoushihouzaiqiduandezhuangkuangxialengyanlengyu，jiangchuyixiezhisixindezhonghua。

 gnvxingxingqingshifenqingjing，keshixingqingjiaoweijidelaogongquehetafanguolai，meiyicizhengchao，laogongdelengyanlengyurangtafeichangdifahuo。jianxiaokuaiqudeyekuaidelaogongtongchangguohouxunsujiulaizhaotadiaojie，keshitaquejingchangzoubuguoqu，duilaogongde“henyanhenyu”henshengqi。yinci，lengbaoliyebianchenglianggerenjingchangchuxiandeshier。

 gnvxingshuo，meiyicilengbaolikeyiwanbi，shilaogongzhenxinshiyizhaotagoutongjiaoliu，fanshengzijicuowudediquhou，tacaihuiganjuenenggouxiufupingxinjingqi，youyuneiyiketacaizhidaozishencuonale。

案例三：两人都拉不下脸，我能让闺女去做委托人，帮我道歉，最终都会破涕为笑。

 zhenduizhongnianfuqilaijiang，zhengchaosuiranjianghuihuiyuelaiyueshao，keshiyebingbushibujingyi。zhongnianfuqijiandelengbaoli，youshihouyeshilingrenjiaoweitoutong，youqishixiaohaiyekanzaiyanzhong，ganjuegengbianchengquanjiarendefanraozhichu。

 guinvzaoyi16suideslaoxiansheng，yingduifuqilengzhan，keweishiyuelifengfule。nianqingdeshihouchulilengbaolikaodeshiliangkouzizishendeconghui。xiaohaibiandahou，slaoxianshengfajueguinvbianchengyigefeichanghaodegongluqiaoliang。

 meiyicilaoposhengqi，liangrensheidoumeilisheideqingkuangxia，yanchishijianzhang，shijishangxianghudouganjuemeishenmeyisile，jiushishuolabuxialian。cike，slaoxianshenghuirangguinvzuoweituoren，titaqudaoqian，jieguofajuelaopodouhuipotiweixiao，jiedahuanxi2。

 hunyinlengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？shijishang，richangshenghuodouhuiyongyouneiyangneibandediediezhuangzhuang，guanjianshiwomenyaoxuehaohuajiemaodun，rangyishizhuxingzaicimuyuyangguang。