面对冷暴力婚姻，男人是什么心态

 zaihunyinshenghuozhizhongrenmendoushiyouyurichangshenghuozhongdeyixiesuoshihelingyifangzhengzhiqilai，zhengzhizhihoudeshijianjiuyexushiyouzhangdelengbaoli，dajiazenmehuiyaoxianglengbaoli？yinweijiatingbaolilihungaizenmechuli？bingqierenmenhuifajuenanshengxihuanlengbaolidexuduo ，yixieshisuiyinizenmeshuo，woshibuyaoxiangyunichao；yixieshichaowanhouyihoujiuyunilengbaoli，buyaoxianglini，neiweishenmenanshengneimaxiailengbaolini？zaoyulengbaolihunyingairuheshihao？shenmeshilengbaoli？

一、冷暴力比争执好

 zhangfujuedelengbaolibizhengzhihaoxie，neiyangzuishaoburongyiyinershanglezhongjiandesuihe，nanshengneixinyizhixiang，zaibicizhengzhishi，tongchangsuizhezhechukouchengzhangdegengdasunhai，haibibushanglengbaolilaifangzhichixuzhengzhi。zaoyulengbaolihunyingairuheshihao？shenmeshilengbaoli？

 yinweijiatingbaolilihungaizenmechuli？xuduo nanrendexintaishangmianlixingdegaoqingchu，fuqizhengchaodaohoubian，xuduo quanshixintaidexuanxie，chaolaichaoquyezhengchubulaiyigejieguo，yincinanshengganjueneiyangdezhengzhihaowujiazhi，erqiezhengzhihaihuijixusunhailingyifang，habibushanglengbaoli，neiyangzuishaodounenggourangxianghupingjingxialai。suihougoutongjiaoliuruhejiejuekunnan。

二、不愿闹得众人皆知

 nanhaiziquanshihaomianzideren，jiaruliangrenzhengzhideshifenqiangdadehua，mashanghuiranggebilinjulejie，zheijiuzaocheng lejiachouwaiyangdejushi，naizhibijiaoyanzhongehua，liangrenzhengzhirangbicijiarenzhidao，yexuhaihuijixuweihailiangjiarendesuihe，tashishifenbuliqinrenhexiede，yincimashanghuitiaoxuanlengbaolilaiyingdui。zaoyulengbaolihunyingairuheshihao？shenmeshilengbaoli？

三、防止多余的不便

 nanhaizijuedemeiyicichaowanjia，doubixuzishenquzhiqian，xifucaihuikuanrongzishen，bingqiemeiyicizhengchao，nvxingganjuefushangdequanshizishen，erbushizishendezhangfu。yinweijiatingbaolilihungaizenmechuli？yexuyici2cinanshenghuikuanrongni，keshishijianzhangle，nidenanrenmashanghuibuyuanyiyunizhengzhi，neiyangjiukeyifangzhineiyangdebubian。

四、防止争执

 nanhaizimenjuedezhengzhishishifensunhaiqinggande，genghekuangtamenjuedenvxingzhengchaoshi，zongxiguanxingyongxuxutaotaodeyujulaidikangnansheng，quebuzhidaoneiyangzongshirangdajiadezhengzhiyuelaiyuejilie，linanshengyibianfangzhineiyangdeshierchansheng，tongchanghuiyongjianmolaijiejue，youyutamencongxintaizhuangtailejie，yingduibulixingdeni，neiyangzuocaisuanshichulizhengzhideweiyifangfa。

五、让分别思考

 tamenjuedezhengzhibingbukeyijiejuekunnan，fandaohuirangnantinaodeyuelaiyueda，lengbaolijiukeyirangzheigewentixianxianzhi，rangshuangfapingjingxialaiyihouzaiquchuli，xiangyixiangzheigewentiyingdangzenmejiejue，sikaozenmehuichuxianneiyangdenanti。

 shenmeshilengbaoli？nanhaizimendabufenshikeguanhehaomianzideyiweizhe，yincimashanghuichuxianzheizhongxintaizhuangtai，ernvhaimenshilixingdeyiweizhe，zuoshiqingquanshiyouzhelixingdezishenqujiejue，yinciyaoxiangniuzhuanjushi，nvhaimenyaorangzishenbianchengyigelixingderen，yingduishierbubihezishendezhangfuyibanjianshi。