面对婚后冷战，正确的处理方法是什么

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 zuikongbudeshi，renpingzishenzaiyipanghuhan，lingyibanqueshiguangkuowuyindejianmo，meiyouyisiyihaodedafu，tayagenbuyuanheshuohua。jiabaolihunhouyinggaizenmechuli？neiyangbinglengdejianmo，biruguobuailelingrenbushufu，tahaoxiangyibaduandao，wangfanlingchiroulinnidezhenxinshiyi。zaoyujiatingbaolideyouxiaochulifangfayounaxie？yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？

 zaiyigedianshilanmuli，yiweiwanhunhenduoniandenvshiyouyoudishushuozishendebinglianghunyinshenghuo。“tayagenjiujiangwodangqiti！”gangwanhunneishihou，lianggerenshijishangtingenaide，renherenyejuedetamenhenbanpei。keshengxiaxiaohaiyiliangnianhou，laogongduitadexintaijiuzhujianyongyou180dudeguaiwan，zuixianzhudezhuanbianjiushishuoyulaiyuwanhuijiale。

 xiabanleyizhiliulianzaibangongshi，feichangshaohuijialechifan，jishihuidaojia，yeyizhilengzheyizhanglian，yanshendaizhi，buyanbuyu。tashizhezhegenlaogonggoutongjiaoliu，kelaogongyipiantoushanshuoqici，zuiduojiangge“hao”huo“butaihao”。tabiwentaweiheailibuli，tadefanyingshi“youshenmehaoshuode”。taluannaopiqiqipanzaochenglingyifangdeliuyi，kelaogongqueshenmeshidoubuzuoquandoubuyongshuo！tahaicengcaiyiguolaogongzaiwaimianyouqitanvxingle，kemeiyicizhiyitazongshiyanfandeshuo“suiyinizenmexiang”......

 jiabaolihunhouyinggaizenmechuli？anqimeideshenghuoyiguohaodiannian，weiyinengrangtamenduojiangyixiedehuatitaolun，shihexiaohaizixiangguandeyishizhuxingfenpei。“wohaoxiangzuozheyizuobinglaoli，”tashuo，“weilebaobao，wozhinengzaicichengshou。”tingqilaizhenlingrenweilaopodebiequjiaogaodibuping，danjingxialaixixinxiangyixiang，jiatinglengbaolidelaogongzaizheiliduanqingganhuoshengma？taxinlihuodedaliangdedonglexinma？bu，tashiyiduantongguiyujin、yinxiaoshidadeqinggan，liangrenmeiyoushengfu，jijiazhongchanshengdezhinengsunhai。

沟通交流很重要。

 shijishang，zhenduiqingganguanlianzhongdelengbaoli，zuiguanjiandeyuangushixianghuzhaobuzhehaodegoutongfangshi。renmentongchangjuede，oudadeyifangshinenggoujijigoutongjiaoliude，yaoshitaxiangyao，jiarutameiyouneimezuo，doushiyouyutabugouaizishen，buzuzaiyizheiyiduanguanlian。zaoyujiatingbaolideyouxiaochulifangfayounaxie？yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？

 zaiwomenyouzheiyiyijushi，xinlihuigengweixinhan，youyuganjuetabingbushimeifazuodao，zhishibuyuanyizuo，huanjuhuashuobugouaizishen，yincigengweixinhan，naizhigangkaishibaoyuanlingyifangdebudangzuo，liangrendeguanlianyehuizuodaobingdu。

 womencengjingzheibanenai，zenmehuibianweineiyang？queshiwubiyaoneiyangduishenaiderenzhixingjiatinglengbaolima？nandaoshuozheiyijiumeifapoyima？nandaoshuojiumeiyouqitachulifangfama？

 queshi，zaihunyinshenghuoli，jiatinglengbaolidesunhaishishuangzhongde，bulunshizhixingjiatinglengbaoliderenhuanshipugongjienajiatinglengbaolideren，bicidoushiganlaigudanbiequ，doushiyincibeishoucuican。jiatinglengbaolidebiciyiqieyigeren，jiarujinjinlizaizishendejiaoduguanchananti，jiushizhongmeifachulijiatinglengbaoli，yemeifabaituojiatinglengbaoli。

不冷暴力，不骄纵

 zai《qinaidekezhan》zhong，liutaohewangkezhengchaohou。wangkejiusuanburongyishuoxieshenmenuanxinqinghuahuoshibiaoshuqianjiudeyuyan，tahaiyaogesanchawuzailiutaoyanqianhuangyixia。liutaoshoushidongxi，wangkejiuzailiutaoyanqianwangfanhuanglaihuangqu。

 jinguanyiduzixiangshuodehuabuqingchugaizenmejiang，keshiliutaojiandaowangkeneileibuzhisuocuo，lengtoulengnaodemoyang，shijishangzaoyibunaopiqile，naizhihenkenengjiexiaqujiubengbulexianxiaole，neiyangzhengchaoshunlichengzhangdejiuhehaola。fuqijian，buhaipazhengchao，jiupaxianghubalingyifangdangqiti，buguanzenyangdoubuzaiyi，haoxiangzheiyirenhezishenbuxianggan，zheiyidianshizuizhiside。

 huichaohuinaomeishier，tashixintaidexuanxie，woconglaibuganjueyiduanqingganhuixingfudaomeiyoufenqi、congwuzhengzhi。niruguoxiangshuaidiaoyigeren，jiusuanbingbushilengbaoli，yaoshinengbaozhengbulianxi，yiduanqingganyejiuyuzhaozheyaohuashangjuhaole。zaiaidouzhongjiuhuihuibeiwushumanmanzhangyelideyinxinquanwuxiaoqiandeganjingzhengjie。

 zaiaidouzhongjiuhuihuibeinichichibufaguolaidexinxijiangwoneixinzuizhongyisiaizhenidezixinxinxiaoshidaijin。yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？qingbiezaiyunizuiaiderenlengbaolile，tananyijiejueyiqienanti，zhiyoucuihuiyiduanyouyiduandeqinggan。danyiduankeyizhangqidehunyinshenghuo，yidingshixuanxiewanmingbaiwanliuxianghu。