taruhunyinshenghuo,bingbingbushimeishimeikequanshitianmeide,zaimoheqideshiguang,lianggerenzaochengmaodunshihenyiqiezhengchangde。danyouxierenyibianzhengchaoyidiansuoshibutuoxie,tongchangsunhailefuqijiandesuihe。lengbaolishishenmeyisi?zaihunhoushenghuoli,fuqizhengchaoshijingchangchuxiandeshi,yishizhuxingzaisuonanmianyoukekebanbanhelingsuidekunao,liangrenchaowanjia,xianghuzhijianfaxiewanzhihou,xianghuzhiqianlizhiyixiajiuhaole。danshilengbaolijiubuyiyangle,hunyinshenghuolibizhengchaogengkongbudeshiliangrendejianmo。hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban?hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli?
lengbaolishishenmeyisi?liangrendoutiaoxuanjianmo,xianghulianzhiqianhehaodejiyudoumeile,yigerenlaoxiangdengdailingyigerenxianzhangkou,qingganjiuzaixianghudejianmozhongzhujianhaofeidaijing,zuizhongmaixiangwanbi,shuolengbaolishihunyinshenghuolijianmode“xiongshou”yejuebuweiguo,xiabianhuazhenwangbianlaiduinishuo,lengbaolihuiduihunyinshenghuodaozhishenmeweihai。hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban?hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli?
1、冷暴力会让彼此感情变淡
fuqizhijianzuizhongyaodesanyangwupin,huxiangtiexin、lejiehexinlai,eryaoxianggaohaozheisanxiang,renmenjiuwubiyaomingbaihuanweisikaoyixia,dangchuxianlengbaolishi,jiarufufuliangshizhongshilizaizishendeshijiao,renmenyeshizhongdouganjuezishenshoulefeichangdadebiequ,suoyourenchangyouzishendedadaoli。lengbaoliqinei,liangrenjinguanbiaocengshangyiqieshunli,shijishangxinlizaojiuyipianlangjie。
liangrenzaiyiqi,quejiazhuangluren,xianghuhaobuzaiyi,haobulihui,shilingyifanghaosixushe。neiyang,huirangxianghudouganjue,lingyifangzaoyiyulaiyubuzaiyizishenle,yidianyebuguanzhuzishenle,jianjiandimashanghuiduilingyifangxinhan。erzheileiqingshi,huirangliangrendeqingganzaijianmozhongmanmanxiaomodaijin,qingganmanmanbianqian。zuizhongdexinhanleijichengshiluo。
2、冷暴力对小孩导致损害较大
changchangzhengchaohuiduixiaohaidaozhisunhai,danshilengbaoliyiyanghuiduixiaohaidaozhisunhai,weihaixiaohaidekuailechengzhang。lengbaolizhongdebabamama,yinweixianghudejiaozhe,yehuiduixiaohaiyuelaiyuebuwenbuwen,rangxiaohaijuedezaoshoulelengdan。erxiaohaiyehuigangkaishixinfanyiluan,babamamazenmela,shifoubuaiwole。zaizheileiziranhuanjingxia,feichangrongyizaocheng xiaohaibuzixin、zibizheng、genrenxiangchuyoumoshenggan、xinlichengshoulicha、xingziaishengqi、tongkuzheixienanti。youqishiweilaichengjialiyezhihou,yehuiyicileifangfalaijiejuejiatingmaodun。youyubabamamashixiaohaidediyirenjiaoshi。tashierrumurandenengliang。naxieziranhuanjingzhujiunaxiexiaohai。
3、冷暴力会让彼此越来越更非常容易外遇
shijishangzailengbaoliqinei,fufuxianghuquanshihenshangxinnanguode,douqidaihuodelingyifangdekuanweihelejie。danshiliangrenxianghuhuxianglihui,zheishifeichangrongyirangdisanzhechengxuerru。lengbaoliqinei,bulunshixintaizhuangtaiheshenglixuedouwufadedaokaolv,zheishiqidaiqingtudechongdonghuigengqiang。jiaruzheishiqiahaoyoudisanzhechuxian,feichangrongyimashanghuiduizheigerenzaochengyikaoxintaizhuangtai,zuizhongjianghuihuidaozhiwufamibudejushi。hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban?hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli?
4、冷暴力会让两人相互之间猜忌
lengbaolishishenmeyisi?meiyouchenmozhongbaofa,jiuzaijianmozhongwangguo。lengbaolijiuzheiyangdezhanshi,liangrenhuoxuhuizailengbaolihoubaofayifabukeshoushidezhanshi,yejianghuiyouyulengbaolierwanbihunyinshenghuo。liangrendoujianmomeihua,shijianjiulemashanghuigangkaishixianghuxinfanyiluan,erzhangqixingdexinfanyiluan,mashanghuibianweihubianluanzaodecaiyi。meiridouhuicai,tashifoubuaiwole,tashifouwaibianxuduorenle,tahuanshicengjingdewoaideneirenme。naizhigangkaishicaiyizishen,wohaiaitame。
erlengzhanshijianyuezhang,caiyiyehuiyuebijiaoyanzhong。zaiqinshenjinglizhangqixinglengbaolizhihou,fufudoushiyouyigepijuanqi,lengbaolixiaohaolebicihenduodehuoli,dangfuqijiandefenqiwufadedaochuli,lengbaoliyegenggaibushangxiankuang,neimafufumashanghuiyizhishenxianzheileilengbaolideqingkuang。danburongyiyizhijianmomeihua,yishizhuxingdezhongdebingjihaihuijixuyou,danshizaiyebunengquguanzhulingyifangle,jibianlingyifangshangxinnanguo,lingyifangyebuhuizaihule。
网编明确提出好多个防止冷暴力的小对策,看一下有木有用:
1、防止冷暴力。
jiranlejielingyifangshiyigeaimianzideren,jiujinliangjianshaoshuapiqidepianjiyanyuhegerenxingwei。yibanlaishuo,lengbaoliquanshizhuisuizaiyicibijiaoyanzhongdezuijiaohuorezhanyihoude。suyushuo,yigebazhangpaibuxiang。ruobushiliangrenxianghuzhijiangonghuo,yingdangdoumeishenmebuchudeshi。jiajuguoshenghuo,nengyouduoshaoyuanzexingwentia。guanhaozishendezui,bukeyiyixingfenjiushunzuihushuobadao。fajuezishenyaojiangchuhendudehuadeqingkuangxia,jiuyaozishenbishangzuisanfenzhong。huoshiguoduanxianduolijingjichang。
2、摆脱谈判僵局。
lengbaoligangkaishizhihou,pingjingxialaidebicishijishangdoushiyouhouhuideyisi,jiushishuolabuxialianquxianhelingyifangrenrang。shijishang,zheimeishenme。bingbushiyouyijuhuashuo,xianhuishendenagecaisuanshitianshizhi。rendoushuodarenyoudaliang,nijijidediaojiebingbubiaodanishibuzhengquede。xinpingqihedebaishishijiangli,zaiyiyibafenqichuli。zheiyidianhenzhongyao,xuduo nvxingdoujuedeyingdangshinanxingjijilahua。jiarubeijunijiushiyudaoleneileifeichangjuedezhangfu,neinijiudengdaiba。ziranhuangejiaodulaikan,jiarulingyifangxianshuohuale,renmenyejiuyingdangshunpoxialv,jiubuyaonajiale。
3、约法三章。
jiarudajiashuangfangdoulejielaidaolengbaolidehuaichu,jiuzaidajiahaixingzhedeqingkuangxia,xiegewupin。dayuehanyijiushishuo,fenqinantizaihaobuguoye,rijiegongziriqing;youfenqi,bukeyisongdaochuangbian,buxujianeiliangdifenjufenwu;sheixiantiaodonglengbaoli,chufaduogehuofajiawulaodongshiduoshao,lengbaolizhongsheixianjijidiaojie,nenggouhuodejianglijinduogehuobiedeshenmehaochu。shinengzhaodajiadexiaohaidanggejianzheng。
hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli?dangpengdaojiazhonglengbaolishi,jiarubicidefenqimeifajiechu,erxianghuyouhaishenaizhelingyifang,zheigeshihoujiugengbukeyixinji,tiyizhaoxunjishuzhuanyedehunyinqingganquanweizhuanjiadexiezhu,rangquanweizhuanjiaxiezhubicichulifenbiexinlidefenqi,rangzishendejiatinghunyingengweihemu、meimanxingfu。
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