冷战怎么办？长期处于冷战的婚姻很容易走向这一结果

 yudaojiatingbaolidezhengquezuofashishenme？youdefufu，youfenqishiburongyiku、burongyichao，yebuhuida，zhishitiaoxuanlengbaoli。wohezhangfuchangchanglengbaoli，wobuzhiyinggaizenmeban？fuqiyudaolengzhanzenmeban？lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？

 womenjiehunleshiernianle，yikaishiliangnianyouyuhuxianglirangyemeiganjuenaxie，zhihoufenbiexingqingdelingyimiandouzhujianzhanxianchulai，taneixiangxingwoleguan。yudaojiatingbaolidezhengquezuofashishenme？tazongshixiaiweiwuguanjinyaodesuoshigenwolengbaoli，shijishang，wojuedejiarutajijigenwoshuohuawohaowuyiwenjiumeishile。ciciyoulengbaoliqitianle，shangyicilengbaolileshijitian，zhengzhongjianfabiaoxinxineirongbangwo，wojiaruheimingdanle，tajiumeilaiyaowo。fuqiyudaolengzhanzenmeban？lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？

 zhihouwojijiyoujiata，cailinshihehao，zheicaihaolajiri，youyouyuxiaohaideshizhengchaolengbaolile。wofeichangfanganzheiyangzile，wodequedianjiushishuojishichaowanjiumeishile，taruheneiyang，qisiwole。

 juedefeichanglei，shenxinpibei。liangrenjiaowangzhendehennan，nantiyidaduiweishenmebuquchuli。meibanfagoutongjiaoliu！queshihaofan，gaizenmezuo？

 zaihunyinshenghuoli，fuqizhengchaoshijingchangchuxiandeshi，yishizhuxingzaisuonanmianyoukekebanbanhelingsuidekunao，liangrenchaowanjia，xianghuzhijianfaxiewanzhihou，xianghuzhiqianlizhiyixiajiuhaole。

hunyinshenghuolibizhengchaogengkongbudeshiliangrendelengbaoli，liangrendoutiaoxuanjianmo，sheiyebuyuanjijixuehuifangxiashenzitaojinhu。

xianghudeqingganjiuzaimozhongzhujianxiaoshidaijin，zuizhongmaixiangwanbi，zhangqixinglengbaolidefufuyiban huimaixiangzheisanzhongjingkuang：

一、导致两极化，冷暴力频次愈来愈多，感情变淡

lengbaolihoudeliangren，biaocengshangyiqieshunli，shijishangxinlizaojiuyipianlangjie。

 benlaizaiyiqi，quejiazhuangluren，xianghuhaobuzaiyihelicai，zheileiqingshi，huirangliangrendeqingganzaijianmozhongmanmanxiaomodaijin，ganqingbiandan。

lengbaolihuizhifufubicixinlizhujianleijiyuanqi，jishizhihouhehao，yehuizaixintaizhuangtaishangliuyouwaishang。

 yehuitishengxianghudejiedi，zhihouzailengbaoli，zheileijiedihewaishangyehuichengbeizengjia，zheishiyigeliangjihua，zuihoudejieguojiushishuohunyinpolie。

二、易造成 一方外遇或同时外遇

lengbaoliqinei，liangrendeneixinquanshishangxinnanguode，gudujimowuqu。

lengbaoliqinei，bulunshixintaizhuangtaiheshenglixuedouwufadedaokaolv，zheishiqidaiqingtudechongdonghuigengqiang。

 yudaojiatingbaolidezhengquezuofashishenme？yidanyifangchengshoubuleguduhewaibiandeyinyou，neiyangfeichangrongyichuxianhunhouchugui，huishifuqiguanxichuxianweiji，zuizhongjianghuihuidaozhiwufamibudejushi。fuqiyudaolengzhanzenmeban？lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？

三、两人相互之间猜忌，长出二心

liangrendoujianmomeihua，huxianglicai，shijianjiulemashanghuigangkaishixianghucaiyi，“tahenwancaihuijiale，hesheiyouhuilaidao？”

sheiyebuyuanbiaodaaiyi，tashifoubuaiwole，shifouwaibianxuduorenle。

 lengzhanshijianyuezhang，caiyiyehuiyuebijiaoyanzhong，zaocheng erkexinyuxindejuliyuezouyueyuan，zhangciyiwangzemingzhongshengpangwu，gedagedexiaosuanpan。

youdefufu，youfenqishihouku、huichao，huida。

youdefufu，youfenqishiburongyiku、burongyichao，yebuhuida，zhishitiaoxuanlengbaoli。

jiashijiangaidediqu，erbushijiangdaolidediqu，buguanbeisheiduidaodishisheidecuo，xiandixiatouchengrencuowubingbudiulian。

yizhiyigerenyaoloutixia，lingyigerenzaidengloutixia，sheidoubuyuanyixianzhangkou，zongshiyiwei，xianzhangkoudeneirenjiushudiao。

shijishang，xianzhangkoudeneirenbingbushirensong，yebushifushu，zhishineirenaidehenshen。

yincihuodeloutideneiyifang，jiuqianwanbiemanhengwulidele，zhishiyingdangjijizhudongdafu。

 fuqiyudaolengzhanzenmeban？jilao，qingganbuyiren！dajialengbaolidelingwai，yewuxingzhizhongshenshensunhailebenlaideqinggan，yinci，qingdongdezhenxi。