夫妻婚后冷战，什么才是正确的做法

 xiaowtabujiugaoyiduanluoyiduanbianzaodehunyinshenghuo。hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？lihunyuanyinfeichangjiandan，youyulaogongaishangletaren，laoxiaogongzhuxiangyaoxiangtatiaomingzheiyiqie。ziran，yiqieyiduanhunyinshenghuodebuchenggong，quanshiyouyuangude，yebutaikenengjinjinmouyigerendeyiwu，zhishifufubicixianghudeyiwu。zhibuguoshixiangduilaishuo，xiaowdelaogongyaodanfudaliangdeyiwu。lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？

 xiaowzhiyan，tahelaogongzaihunyinshenghuozhongjibenshangmeishenmeguanianhegoutongjiaoliu。hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？tapingchanggongzuozhongbijiaomang，changchanggongchu，meiyoushijianshouhouhezhaoliaota。zuichu，tadelaogongkeyijinliangdirenshouherenshouta。shubuzhi，bansuizheshijiandebianhua，laogonggangkaishijingchangdihetazhengzhi，tachongmanlegezhonggeyangmaiyuanhebumanyi。tamenchangchangweisuosuidachaodanao，naizhisuishisuidiwanbilengbaoli。lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？

 meiyicitahelaogongzhengchao，tadoubuxutadaotai。talaogongyemeilita。buguanzenyangduidaodishisheidecuo，tamenyizhihuijuejijirenkehuohuxiangjugongli。

 zhangciyiwang，tamendeqingganyulaiyulengmo，laogongduitayulaiyulengmo。danshi，xiaobinbingbugaoduzhongshi。tarengchenjinzaigongzuozhonghegongzuozhong，meiyoushijianzaiyilaogongdetihui。

 zhizhimouyitian，zhangfujijixiangtatiaomingtaaishangletaren，erqiexiangtamingquetichuliyi，tacairumengchuxing。yiqian，tayouyuchangchanggongchu，yincidanglingyigebitagengweishanjierenyidenvxingchuxianzaizhangfudeyishizhuxingli，tajiuwanquanshiquzhangfudeaiyuzhenxinshiyi。duoshuowuyi，xiaohuidoumeiyounaxiehaowanhuide。yinci，tamenxunsushenqingbanlilebanlihunshouxu。

 lihunzhihou，xiaowzongsuanbaneipianshikuaiguazaileneixin。youyuduitaeryan，zheiyiduanhunyinshenghuozaoyimeiyoudiqunenggou cuoguo。yibanlaishuo，fuqijianjiaruneiyangjiaowangjiuburongyisuibianliyi。

1、少打冷战，多了解

fuqijianyingdangshaodalengzhan，duolejie。zhinengneiyang，tamencaibuyiliyi。

 xiaowhelaogongliyiguanjianshiyouyutamenchangchangchanshenglengbaoli。xiaowmeifazhenshilejielaogong，yemeifalejielaogong，zuihouzaocheng fuqiganqingpolie。

 yiner，fufuyingdangxianghulijie，huxiangzunzhong，hemuxiangchu，bubiyizhiqulengbaoli。hunyinshenghuozhongdeyixienantihuofenqi，tongchangshiyinweifuqijianqianquegoutongjiaoliuhegoutongjiaoliudaozhide。hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？ruguonishanyugoutongjiaoliuhegoutongjiaoliu，hunyinshenghuozhongdehenduonantihuowuhuidounenggoufeichangrongyidichuli。

 fufubicibixujilao，hunyinshenghuozhongdeyiqiefenqihuowuhuidoubukongbu。zhenshikongbudejiushiniduiyucishibuwenbuwen，zhiruowangwen。nishizhongbuyuanjijiquchulizheizhongnantihefenqi。lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？

 yidannizhangqixinghulvehunyinshenghuozhongdezheizhongfenqihenanti，hunyinshenghuozhongdenantihefenqimashanghuiyulaiyuduo。yijianjianyidesuoshihuonantiyuelaiyueyulaiyufanzahejiannan，nidehunyinshenghuohenkenengyinerbenkui。

2、少猜忌多信赖

fuqijianyingdangshaocaiji，duoxinlai。zhinengneiyang，tamencaibuyiliyi。

 xiaowzhiyan，zaihunyinshenghuozhongtabuyouzizhucaiyilaogong，feichangshixianzhemeishideqingkuangxia，tafeichangrongyizaochengxiangxiang。biru，dangtajitalaogongfaxiaoxi，ertajimiaoneiyemeiyouhuiyingshi，taxiangyaozhidaotashibushiyibuaitale。

 shijishang，laogongbingbuxihuanta，tajinjinmangliubiedeshier，meiyoushijianhuiyingtadeliuyanbanliuyan。yiner，fuqijianyingdangxianghuzunzhong，niyinggaijinliangjianshaohuxiangcaijiheyinyou。

 dangniyizhicaiyinideairenduihunyinshenghuodezhenxinshiyi，neimanideairenhuiganjueheniyiqishenghuoshiyijianshifentongchudeshier。wuluntayouduoaini，tadoujinbuzhuxiangliniyuandian。

zaihunyinshenghuozhong，dangnideairenbixubuduanxiangnibiaoshu，zhangciyiwang，nideairenmashanghuilinierqu。

3、少骗多诚

fuqijianyingdangshaoyixiemengpian，duoyixiezhenxinshiyi。zhinengneiyangrenmencaikeyibusuibianliyi。

 xiaowshuotabukeyijienalaogongdemengpian。jiarutalaogongmeiyoumengpiantadeqinggan，huoxutamendehunyinshenghuonenggou zhengjiu。shubuzhi，yidanlaogongcuoguoletadeaihexinlai，tamendehunyinshenghuozaoyizaochengleshenshendideliefeng，tamenmeibanfaxiangzhiqianneibanxianghuzunzhongheyikao。

 yinci，fuqijianyingdangyichengxiangdai。zhinengneiyang，dajiadehunyinshenghuocaikeyizhenshijingdezhushijiandemolian。jiarufuqijianmeifazuodaoduixianghuzhenxinshiyihezhuanyi，dajiaduixianghutianmanxuwei，neimaneiyangmingcunshiwangdehunyinshenghuomashanghuisangshituanduideningjuli，dajiadehunyinshenghuoyejiangyinertubengwajie。

 buailehexinlaidehunyinshenghuohuiyuelaiyueshifenmingan。youyudajiayibuxianghuyicun、huxiangbixu，dajiaduixianghuyongyoushenshendideyanfanhecaiji，yincidajiadeqingganrutongsaluodesuishizi，jingbuzhufengchuiyuda。

yiduanzhenshimeihaodehunyinbukehuoquefufubicidegongtongfendoulaiguanlifangfaheweihubaoyang。

 yidandajiaganleyiqiebaoqianairenhuohunyinshenghuodeshier，dajiajiumeibanfazaihuodeairendexinlai。yidanfuqijianzaochengleyulunyali，neimadajiadehunyinshenghuosuishisuidichangyoujianghuifenliehebenkui。

 zongeryanzhi，fuqijianyingdangshaoyixieduoyudezhengzhihelengbaoli、caijiheyinyou、xuqingjiayihemengpian。niyinggaigengweibaoronghebaorong，lejiehexinlai，zhenxinshiyihewusifengxian。zhinengneiyang，nidehunyinshenghuocaihuigengxingfukuaile、gengtianmei。

 dangnibuyuansuibianliyi，niyinggaizhenxiyongyoutanchengxiangdaidesuiyue。hunyinshenghuoyebixushenzhongguanlifangfa。dangniduihunyinshenghuodexintaibuzuqiadang，bahunyinshenghuodangzuoduanzi，nidehunyinshenghuojiumeibanfazhangqi。

 wulunruhe，fuqizhengchaotaiburongyi。yingdanggengweiaixitamen。jirannizaoyijuecewanhun，niyejiuwubizunxunniyuanxiandeshiyan，yongyuanzaiyiqi。

 hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？buguanweilaipengdaonaxiedetiaozhanhecuobai，bixuweixiaomiandui，xianghuchulihejiejuehunyinshenghuozhongdegezhonggeyangjiannanhefanzananti。