夫妻婚后冷战，这样的婚姻还能坚持多久

 lengbaolishishenmeyisi？qingganshijishanghaipadebingbushichaobingbushinao，zhishiyouhuabuyongshuodelengdan，lengbaolizongshirangneixinyuezhanyueleng，goutongjiaoliubule、lianluobule、shouhoubushang，zuoyouweinan，suihoucaijianjiandirangliangxinyanhuachujianchibuxiebuxialaidexiangfa。hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？

 xuduorendaonianqingshigouxiangzishendejiehunhoudeshenghuoduomedexingfu，keshuozhendedetaruhunyinshenghuodeshengdianyihou，mashanghuifaxianshenghuoqueshimeiyouxiangxiangdezheimejiandan，xuduoshiergenzishendeyuqishiyouwuchade。lengbaolishishenmeyisi？youdelianrenzaichuduixiangshi，keyiyitiandaowannizaiyiqi，keshiwanhunyihouquechangchangyouyuyixieshiererzhengzhi，zheizhongquanshiyiqiezhengchangde，youyuyishizhuxingzaiyiqiyihou，xianghujianmashanghuipubiancunzaiyixiebutaihaodequexian，youxierenmashanghuidachaoyijia，keshichaojiayihouyekeyizhongguiyuhao，keshiyouxierenmashanghuitiaoxuanlengbaoli。hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？

 neimafuqijianlengbaolidehua，keyijianchibuxieduojiuni？yeshiruhediaojiedeni？renmencicifangtandaosanweinanxing，yongxintingtamenzenmejiang。

案例一、不超过一天

 “wohexifuwanhunyouwunianle，zaizheiliwunianzhong，renmenchangchanghuichanshengfenqi，youshihouyebujinjinzhengchao，doushidajiadouou，ziranyeshifanliandeqingkuangxia，neimejiubijiaoyanzhongle，lianggerendounaomaodun，jiutiaoxuanlelengbaoli，sheiyemeilishei，wolaopohenjueqing，tashengqile，jiuburongyibangwozhufan，keshiwoyeshiaimianzihuoshouzui，yebutiaoxuanzhiqian，renmenjiushizheiyangjiangzhe。

 keshirenmenbuguanchaodezaiqiangda，yebuhuitiaoxuanfenchuangshui，youyudangshishishuohaolede，renmennaodezaiqiangda，dangriyelijibianzaoyidaosangengbanyele，haiyaobadangrichanshengdefenqishuoqingxi。renmenlengbaolicongbuhuichaochuyitian，womenzhidaoxianghushixihuanlingyifangde，jiushishuoneishihouxingzishangqukongzhibuzhu。”

 fuqijiandefenqishifeichangrongyidiaojiede，suyushuo：“fufumeiyougeyechou”，shiyouyufuqijiandezhengzhi，wufeijiushishuorichangshenghuodelingsuisuoshi，dabufenzhuangkuangxiajiushishuoyouyulianggerenbiedanshinagejing，neishihouzaishuapiqiwufashihuainagedian，danzhidaoqixiaole，youshihoumashanghuiganjuenagezhengchaodeyuanyinhenhaoxiao，yehuiyilvlianggerenruhemashanghuiyouyuzheiyidiansuoshifashengzhengzhi。

 fuqijianjirantiaoxuanlezaiyiqiyishizhuxing，jiuyiweizhelianggerenyemeiyouerxin，yineryeshimeishenmeliyishusongde，yinciliangkouzidoufeichangrongyiwangdiaoyishichongdongdezhengzhi。neiyangdezhengzhishiburongyijiqinggandaozhinaxieweihaide，youshihounaizhifandaohuituidongfuqijiandeqinggan，rangtamenbizhiqiangengweixiangai。

案例二、不超过七天

 “wohexifuwanhunzaoyiyoushinianle，womendoushixiangqinyuehuilejiede，benjiumeishenmeganqingjichu，chaolejiayihouyeshibuyuanlilingyifang，renmenlengbaolishijingchangchuxiandeshi，woyoushihoudouxiang，ruobushiyouyuxiaohai，renmenyingdangjiulilehunba。renmenzhengchaodeyuanguyoushihoushiyouyusanguannanti，zheigeshimeiyoubanfagenggaide，renmendeguannianjiubingbushihenyiyang，yineryoushihoushangyiyixieshierjiushishuoliangrendoumeiyouyigepindaolanmushang，yejiubuyuanyiduojiangshenmele。lengbaolishishenmeyisi？keshixiaohaishiyizhouhuiyicijia，yibianbuxuxiaohaiyinwomendeguanxizaoshouweihai，renmendaduoshuqingkuangxialengbaolizuiduoburongyichaochuqitian。”

 fuqijianzuitongchudejiushishuosanguanbuhe，neiyangzaiyiqishihenjianaode，youyuwojiangdehuanibudongwo，nishuodehuawobuhuilejie，neimejiumeiyoubanfashenjiao，xuduoshierqueshuobushangyikuaiqu，jiufeichangrongyiyinqimaodun。zheishihou，youderenmashanghuihenyilv，zaizheigehunlianjiaoyousuiyideshehuifazhan，jiransanguanbuheyouweishenmehuitiaoxuanwanhunni？

 shijishangtashidabufenrenweizijizhaodeyigetuocieryi，shijishangtamenjinjinzaiyiqiyanjuanle，buyuanyiquzhangwolingyifangxiangshuodeshisha。yeyouyizhongjiushishuojiazhongshengzhangfayuziranhuanjingxiangchataida，neiyangcaihuidaozhisanguanbuhe，yinweiyigerendeguannianshizixiaozaoshoudewenhuajiaoyu，tashibukedongyaode，shimeibanfagenggaide。hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？

 jibianneiyang，yebukeyixuanyonglengbaolidefangfaquduobi，yaolejieshenmewentizuihouquanshiyaoyingduide，yaoshidajiafuqijiankeyixiangyaonaixiasixulailaiququtinglingyifangdebiaoshuheniantou，niyejiuhuimingbaidajiajiujinghebulaizainaer，neiyangzhihoupengdaonantiyebachuli，bingqieyehuirangdajiadehunyinshenghuojianjiandizoushangzhenggui。

案例三、一年之上

 “woxianrujinsishisuile，woyiqianyeheqizilengbaoliguoyiduanshijian，renmenlengbaolileyouyinianduo，neigeshihouworenweitaileile，youyurenmenyiqianchangchanglengbaoli，bingqieneishizhengchaoshitapengchulaidaowodedaodedixian，yinweiwoyoumingquetichuliyi，ketabutongyi，renmenjinguanyishizhuxingzaitongyigewuyan，keshishuangfangdouwulunxianghu，jiuneibanyishizhuxingleyinian。

 zhihouhehaoshiyouyuwodenver，tashuorenmenneiyangdefenweirangtahennanguo，yehenyayigan。renmenjiuyouyuxiaohaiyongxindetanleyici，neiyitianxifuyetongku，wokandaozheiyiweilehaizinulineimeduodenvrenshineibandewunai，yinweiwojiuyourouguaduanle，congzheiyikeqirenmenfeichangshaolengbaoli。”

 dajiayibanzaiyikaishilengbaolideqingkuangxia，haihuijixudianjizheruhequwanliu，qugenggainageyayigandeqifen，keshipinciduole，rendexinyeshihuileide，zhenduilengbaolizheijianshiqingjiuyuelaiyuefamale，duiyishizhuxingbubaoyouqidaile，zheicaisuanshizuicankudeshier。

 yinci，fuqijianyidingbubichangchanglengbaoli，neiyangdajiazhongjiandefenqihuiyulaiyuduo，neixindeyuanhenyehuiyelaiyueda，neiyangbudanhuisunhaidaoxianghujiandeqinggan，yehuirangxiaohaijuedeyayigan，xiaohaijinguanxiao，youshihoujianghuibutaidong，keshitamenshibijiaomingande，yinciweilebaobao，haiyaobazijidexinsishuokai，baneixindezhenzijiechu。

 ganqingzengyan：hunhoushenghuoli，zaisuonanmianchanshengfenqi，youshihoudedouzuijianghuihuiweiyishizhuxingzengjiakuaile，tuidonglianggerendeqinggan，keshiyidingbubitiaoxuanlengbaoli。lengbaoli，shihunyinshenghuolijianmodexiongshou，yeshizuisunhaiqinggandeyizhongzhengchaofangfa，zheileifangfafeichangrongyihaofeidajiadeqinggan，zheizaiqizhonghenyoukenenghuihuojinagekeliandexiaohai，rangxiaohaizaiyigebuwenxindejiatingziranhuanjingxiazhangdale，quefaanquangan，bingqiejiarubicisheidoubuyuanyirangbu，zuihouhuirangqingganmaixiangliekai。

 hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？hunyinshenghuozhong，buguanlianggerenfashengshenmeshifenqi，bixuyibianlianggerenxianghudexingfudeshenghuo，dakaixinfei，biaoshuzishendeniantou，bingqiehaiyaobaozhenghuanweisikaoyixia，lejie、kuanronglingyifang，yaolejieyishizhuxingmeiyouguobuqudekan。