夫妻之间婚后冷战，妻子的正确做法是……

 fuqizhengchaoshihunyinshenghuozhongnanyibimiandeyijianshi，yiner，yigenvrenruhezhengquedijiejuehelaogongzhongjiandezhengzhi，jiukanqilaihenbixule。hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？shijishangdabufenfuqizhengchao，bingmeiyouguyi，jinjinliangrenzaiyiqijiule，reqingtuile，zaizaijiarichangshenghuodexiaomoca，dangranfeichangrongyichanshengfenqi。erzhengzhizhihou，youhuiquhouhuimoji，zennengyongzhisideyuyanqukandailingyibanni？lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？

 erzhengchaoshizuishangganqingdeyijianshi，yijianwuguantongyangdeshi，huiyouyulianggerenmengliedeyuyanfazhanqushidaoyicidadezhengzhi。hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？yixieqingganfeichanghaodefufu，jiushishuozaiyiciyouyicidezhengzhizhongbaqingganxiaomodaijin，zuizhongdaoyifabukeshoushidechengdu。neimayigenvrenzaiyingduizhengzhideqingkuangxia，yingdangxuanyongnaxiedefangshi，caikeyidashihuaxiao。lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？

最先，不提过去

 wangbianyiqianyetijile，hunyinshenghuozhong，zhengchaoshizaisuonanmiande。keshichaoguichao，ruhechaojiubianchengyigezuigaixijiudenanti。shijishangdabufendeqingkuangxia，fufuzhengzhijinjinyouyuyixiexiaofenqi，doushangjijuzuijiuguoqu，bingbuhuiyinqinaxiebijiaoyanzhongdebuliangyingxiang。

 shubuzhi，zaizhengzhizhongzuibihuidejiushishuotiguoqu。youyutiguoquhuibawanxiaoshidebanzui，shenggaozhishifenmengliedezhengzhi。jiaruonanshengyiqianfanleshenmedacuo，erniyizhizaicicidezhengzhifanchu，neimejiubazhengchaodemudifashengbianhua。

 yuanbenzhengchaodemudijinjinyibianchuliyixienanti，keshijiaruliangrenxianghuzhijiantiguoqu，nazaoyiyiwangdeshilaiqiangciduoli，dushanglingyifangdezui，neimatexingjiufashengbianhua。zheigeshihou，buguannanrennvrenzenmechaojia，doujinjinyibianbuluoxiafeng，erbushijiejuenanti。

 youqishiduinanshengeryan，tamenshiqingmian，yehaipabeizishenshenaidenvxingtiguoqu，jiarubeizishendenvxingzhuachuweiba，suihouzhishouhuajiao，neimahuirangfenqishengji，neishihouliangrenyibianzhengchaoerzhengchao，meiyoubajutidejiejuewenti，shishishangshizaixiangaixiangsha。

次之，应用女性的秘密武器——忍让

 wenroushinvxingdequshengbaowu，danzaiwangbianlaikanrenrangyiyangshinvxingzuiyouyidemimiwuqi。hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？nanshengbeixiongxingheermengfanlanmanshen，xiantianxingxiaibaoweicichong，yingduihuirenrangdenvxing，tamenmeiyouyiqiededikangnengli。lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？

 yinciyaoshichanshengzhengzhi，nvxingzaidayedadanshi，chaoyechaodanshidezhuangkuangxia，danenggou baichuyifuxiaonvzidezishi，fadiarenrang，yiju“niyebuxuzhewoma”，likedaguonanshenggecubujifang，buqingchugaishuoxienaxie。yinci，buzaitiguoqudezhuangkuangxia，jiusuannvxingganlenaxiechunshi，neimayesuanbudeshenmewenti。

 jiuliruwangbiandepenyou，quanmingshixiaoliang，youyutounaozhuandeyehenman，yincimeiyicizaihelaogongzhengchaodeqingkuangxiadouchaodanshi。zheigeshihoubiequ、fahuoyigunaodedoushangqule，bingqieyongkuyinduilaogongshuo，niyigedalaoyemen，zongshiqizishendexifuer。

 jiangwan，leishuilikejiuliulechulai，dunzaidimianshangtongku，zheirangbenjiujiaoxiaolinglongdexiaoliangkanqilaigengweiruanruo。jiewen，najiananshengnengdichuneiyangdenvxing？yinci，zaizhengchaozhong，jiusuannvxingchaohuosheng，nanshengyebuyidingfuni。danruguoyongrenrangdefangshi，budanjiniloutixia，lingwainengranglaogongfazixinlidexiangyaochengrencuowu。

最终，追忆感情的点点滴滴

 duibiyuzaizhengchaozhongxiaidahandajiaodefufu，yeyouyizhongfuqizhengchaoxiailengbaoli，zhidaoheshilingyifangxianshuohuale，neimazhengshizishenchaohuosheng。zailengbaoliqinei，nvxingdaduoshutiaoxuanzouniangjia，ernanshengzeyueshangsanwuhaoyou，yebugui。naizhichaonaoshenghenyanzhongdeqingkuangxia，jigeyuedoumeihua，jiazhongshiquyuanlaidewendu。

 zheileizhuangkuangduibicieryansheidounanshou，yuanbenhuangexiaoyudejiazhong，queyuelaiyuebingleng。zheigeshihou，nenggou yueshangzishendelaogongchuqulvyouyicihuoshiquliangrenzhiqianyouhuidediqu，huanyigeziranhuanjingjiejuekunnan，yexuhuigenghaoyixie。hunhoushenghuoguojiule，douwangjileliangrenweihewanhun，zaojiubadangshidexingfuheduixianghudezhiaipaozhunaohoule，quyixielianggerennianqingshichangchangqudediqu，xiangyixiangneishihoudeliangrenzenmehuitiaoxuanlingyifang，dangzheizhongyidianyididexingfuhuiyiqi，qizaodouxiaole。

 xiaomshiyigexingqingzhilvdenvxing，jianghuabanshiyuwang，helaogongzhengchaodeqingkuangxia，changchangguanbulezishendezui，shuoyixieshangxindehua，zaochengerrenlengbaoli，guohoufeichanghouhuimoji。keshizailengbaolizhong，sheixianjianghuasheijiudiumianzi，yincimeiyiciyudaolengbaolidexiaom，mashanghuijingjingdijilaogongfayitiaoduanxiaoxi，duanxiaoxijiangdaowoyaoqushengtaigongyuanhuoshishishangyejie。

 erzheilianggediqujiushishuotamenrelianzuijingchangqudediqu，zainayouhenduonanwangdehuiyi。yincidanglianggerenchulaizhuanyouyiquan，wanzhushoubeihuijialedeqingkuangxia，lengbaoliyejiujieshule。

 hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？jiranzaihunhoushenghuozhong，zhengchaoshifangzhibushangde，neimejiuxuehaoruhezhengquedijiejue。shijishangjuedaduoshudefuqizhengchaojinjinlingyifangyouyixieshierzuodebuzuhao，meinengdechangsuoyuan，yincihuiyinqizhengzhi。danzaicongneixindoubujingyisunhailingyifang，lejielezheiyidian，jiukeyibayixiexiaodenantijiejuedefeichanghao，buhuiyouyuyixiexiaowentichaonaoshengeyuxiangxiang，zuizhongjiangfenqishengji、zuizhongzaochengliyi。