夫妻婚后冷战？避开这些事

 lengbaolishishenmeyisi？dangliangrenconglejie，zaidaolianai，zuizhongdaowanhun，zaizheigequanguochengliliangrenbiranshiqinshenjinglixuduomoliande，yiyangrenmenyequanshiqidaikeyigenlingyibanyouyigexingfujiqixingfudejieju，danzaihunyinshenghuolizhongfuqijiansuiranshizuiqinmiwujiande，danzaijiaowangdeqingkuangxiayeshihuipengdaoxuduonantide，feichangshifuqizhengchao，ruguowomenbuliuyidehua，budanshiduihunyinshenghuo，duiliangrenzhongjiandeqingganquanshibuhaode，yincizaihunyinshenghuozhongrenmenjiubixulejieshenmeshishibuyinggaizuode。hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？

1.当小孩的面争执责骂

 zaichengcaili，babamamadegongxiaoshihenzhongyaode，babamamapingchangrichangshenghuodeyijuyidongdoushiweihaizhexiaohai，lengbaolishishenmeyisi？jianxinmeiyounajiababamamabuqidaizishendexiaohaishichusede，neimababamamapingchangjiubixubiaozhunzishendeyantanjuzhi，jihaizizuochukaimo。hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？

 shuodaodangxiaohaimianzhengchaozheiyidian，jianghuixuduobabamamachangyouneiyangzuole，shijishangchangchangneiyangzuodehua，duixiaohaidexingqingquanshihuichanshengtingdaweihaide，huirangxiaohaiyuelaiyuedanqie、ruanruo，genghuiweihaidaoxiaohaizhihoudeyishizhuxing，suoyishuobabamamapingchangguanlizijidexintaiyeshihenbixude。

2.在电話里争吵

 yixiefufujianghuihuiyouyugongzuozhonghuoshishijiazhongdeyuangu，bukeyichangchangdaizaiyiqi，zheirutongrenmenchangshuodeyiguolianyiyang，zaihunyinshenghuoliwulunliangrendeqingganduomedekegumingxin，jiaruchangchangjianbushangjihuimiandehua，neimaqingganyeshihuimanmanbianqiande，youdeqingkuangxiayehuiyouyubabamamahuoshishixiaohaideyuanguzaidianhualizhengchao，shijishangneiyangdeqingganyeshimeibanfabaochide。

 liangrenjiaowangshijiaruqueshichuxianlenanti，neimarenmendangzhongshuo，buyaozaidianhualishuo，zheijiugenduobiyiyang，budannanyijiejuenanti，haihuijixurangshieryuelaiyuegengzaogao。

3.当众别人面争吵

 lengbaolishishenmeyisi？jinguanfuqijianzaisuonanmianchuxianzhengchao，dandangzhongtarenmianzhengchaojiubuhaole。ruguowomenpingchangliuyiguanchadehua，quanshihuifajueshenpangjiuhuiyouzheizhongdezhuangkuang，yixiefufubudandangtarenmianzhengchao，naizhidouhaihuijixuzemalingyifang，neiyangzuobudanhuirangtarenduanzi，haihuijixuranglingyifangmeiyouyanmian，zheiduihunyinshenghuodoushichanshengtingdaweixie，ruguobijiaoyanzhongdehua，doushichuxianliyidezhuangkuang，jianxinzheiyeshiwomenbuyuanyijiandaode。

 yinciliangrenruguoyoushenmeshidehua，huijialemanmanshuo，neiyangxiangduieryanhuilixingyidian，yefeichangrongyijiejuekunnan，haikeyibaoquanmianbu。hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？

4.在另一方得病的情况下争吵

 rendaodebingdeqingkuangxiabudanrentihuihenchanruo，xinliyeshifeichangmingande，zheigeshihouhenbixuqinrendekuanweishouhou，eryaoshiyouyumoushiqingzaizheigeshihouzhengchaodehua，budanhuishangzhelingyifang，yehenyoukenenghuijiajubingkuang，yincizaizheigeqinei，renmenyebixukongzhizhuzishendexintai，wulunduoshaodeshierdoumeirendeshenxinjiankangguanjian，nenggou denglingyifangbingqinghaozhuanyihouzaiquchuli，neiyangduilingyiban、duizishendouhao。

5.争吵提过去

 youderenzaigenzishenlingyibanzhengchaodeqingkuangxia，jiuaitiguoqu，shijishangzheiyeshizuibukequdeyizhongzuofa，renmenrendoushiyoufancuowudeqingkuangxia，xiangbifancuowuguanjiandeshijiuzheng，jiaruchangchangneiyangzuodehua，jiufeichangrongyijiazhongliangrenzhongjiandefenqi，yehuizaochenghunyinpolie，yincishierjiranguoqu，neimazaizhengchaodeqingkuangxiashijiubieshuole，jishirenmenzairuhefahuo，haiyaoyouyigedu，yaoguanlizijidexintai，mingbaiyipiangaiquan，bubibaqitashierqianshejinqu。

6.争吵涉及另一方爸爸妈妈

 shuodaozheiyidian，jianghuiyouderenzaizhengchaodeqingkuangxiamashanghuishiqulizhi，yuelaiyuexinzhikoukuai，gaishuodebuyinggaishuodedoudashuoyitong，feichangshirumalingyifangbabamamadeyixiehua，yaolejieneiyangzuoyeshihenshangganqingde，yehuirenaodaolingyifang。

 zaihunyinshenghuozhongwomenyingdangfangzhizheiyidian，liangrenjiaruchuxianlenanti，neimarenmenshikongzhizhuzishendexintai，rangzishenpingjingxialai，pingxinjingqigenlingyifanggoutongjiaoliu，bubisuibianjingonglingyifangdebabamama，zhinengneiyangcaikeyijinzaojiejuehaozheizhongnanti，neixinyebuhuiyoujiedi。

 suiranhunyinshenghuolifuqizhengchaoshimeibanfafangzhide，danrenmenhuanshiyingdangliuyishangbianzheijigefangmian，biaozhunhaozishendeyantanjuzhi。chuguozhengchaozhiwai，fuqijianshihaiyaoshaodiancaiji，yizhibuxinrenlingyifang，neimazheiyiduanqingganyeshifeichangrongyilaidaozhongdianzhande。

 hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？zaizheigequanshijierenmenkeyipengdaolingyifang，yiqitaruhunyinshenghuodeshengdianshihenbuyideshier，renmenyingdangaixizheiyifenqinggan，younaxieshierlijigoutongjiaoliu，baozhengxianghuzhongshi，bicixinren，zhinengneiyangqinggancaihuigengweizhangqi。