夫妻婚后冷战，学会这3个技巧，夫妻才会相处得更好

 lengbaolishishenmeyisi？fufuerzi，jinguanjianjiemingle，queyeaiyiyouzhang。congshaonianshidouzhiangyangdeyiduibiren，daozhonglaonianshixieshoubingjindegaigelaozhanyou，zaidaolaonianrenshihuxiangweiyideyishengairen，guanlianhaodefufu，mianmianbujuedeqingyinenggou kuosanyisheng。neiyanghaodefuqiganqing，dangranshi，xianshataren。danshizaixianshishenghuozhong，xuduofuqiganqing，quebingmeiyouneimahemu。hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？

 youderennaizhituranzhijianjiusankai，youderenjinguankekebanbandiyiguoyisheng，queyoujiaozhangdeshijianchuyuxianghuzhijiankanbushangdangzhong。lengbaolishishenmeyisi？neima，younaxiefangfa，nengranglingyifangyibeiziyuelaiyueainini？hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？

 congshehuixintaixuedeshijiaoeryan，shijishangfangshifeichangjiandan，yingyongxiabiansangefangfa，ranglingyifangyibeiziyuelaiyueaini，bingbushimeng。jinjin，lejiederenxuduo，jianchibuxiechulaideren，quefeichangshao。

一、维持感情的新意，不必由于实际就失去全部烂漫

 tanlianaideqingkuangxia，zaixiongxingheermengdegongxiaoxia，liangrenzhongjiandeguanliantongchangreqingbangbo，keshitaruhunhoushenghuoyihou，zaishijidegongxiaoxia，henduorenquefanguoyuetiandanwuqiwei。

shijishang，zairichangshenghuozhong，youshihoutaobixianshi，tihuiyibanianqingshidaidelanman，nenggou rangliangrendeganqinggengweizhangjiu。

 qixijiedeyishuxianhua，lingyifangshengchenshideyigeyiwaijingxi，shengdanjieshiyigejingxinzhunbeidewanxiaohua，xuduoqingkuangxia，lanmanbingbushihenfanza。

zhishizaiyouyanjiangcuzhongdedajia，zaoyiwangquelerichangshenghuodexinyi。

hunhou，jingchangweichiyidianhunyinshenghuozhongdexinyi，nenggou rangliangrendeqingganshenghuogengshangyicenglou。

二、在磨合期中寻找另一方的道德底线，随后仔细关爱

 liangrenwanhunyihou，zhengzhishimianbulede，keshizhengzhijiarujuyoudejinjinrangbicizhongjianxingziyulaiyuchadeshijixiaoguo，neimejiucuodalele。

 lijingzhengzhi，fuqijiannenggou motoulingyifangdeganqingdaodedixian，yejiushibukeyipengchudedian，zaijiexiaqudehunhoushenghuozhong，liuyibikaizheizhongdaodedixian，zixiguanailingyifangdeganqingquedian，cianenghuodeyifenyulaiyupingwendeganqing。

 jiuchubuyan，bibushangjiuchubuyan。keshijiuchubuyan，yebushishunlichengzhangjiukeyizaochengde，taqujueyuhunyinshenghuozhongbicideguanaihelejie。

 lengbaolishishenmeyisi？zhengchaoshihunyinshenghuozhongnanyibimiandebaoligoutongfangfa，keshizaizhengzhizhong，motoulingyifangdedaodedixian，bujinburongyihuihuaifuqijiandeqinggan，fandaohuizaijiexiaqudemoheqizhong，yulaiyubianweixianghuzhijianqiehedeyangzi。hunyinzhongyudaojiatingbaolizenmeban？hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？

三、发自肺腑的关注，是最迟缓却最奏效的感情防腐剂

yiburuxin，renbibushangjiu，zheishiyouyu，jiuqingdewenrouyuntie，dangrannenggou diyuxinxiancijixingdeyinyou。

zaihunhoushenghuozhong，yiqiedefangfaquanshichuangjianzaifazifeifudejibenshangde。

 ganqinghuibansuizhenianlingdetigaoyulaiyurouhedanhua，queyeyulaiyuwujianbucui，jiezhudejiushishuoliangrenzaiganqingzhongrongliandejingjiubushuaidezhenxinshiyiguanai、

fazifeifudeguanzhu，shuoqilai，bingsuanbudeshenmefangfa。

yinweitashiyizhongzuiyudundefangfa，meiyouhualihushaodebiaodaxingshi，yebuhuilingrenyanqianyiliang。

 keshirongjinrichangshenghuode，xiweide，xiguanxingyibandeguanzhu，quenenggou ranglingyifangsisidiyifuyuzainideshenpang，yibeizidoubuxianglikai。

 hunyinshenghuobixurenzhenyunying，wanhunshiyizhongyuanfen，youzhexingfukuailedeyishengshiyizhongfuqi。yuanfenkenengshiyincuoyangchadetianshi，fuqiqueshiyishengyishidexiuxi。

 hunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmechuli？qidaiquanbuzaihunyinshenghuozhongdenanrennvdajia，dounenggouyouzheyiduanyishengyishideganqing，rangzheifenairen，yibeizidouyuelaiyueaini。