夫妻婚后冷战，夫妻感情变淡的原因无非是这几个

 zenmechulijiatinglengbaoli？hunhou，fuqijiandouhuiyouhenduobucengxiangdaodefenqi，youshihoushangyimiaohaiwenrousishui，xiayimiaojiuhuomaosanzhang；youshihouliangrenfenbiederenxinhuirangxianghujindaozhangqixingdelengbaolizhongwufaziba，zhinenglaidaoxianghushuozaijianshicaihuigaoqingchu，pingchangliangrenyouzheisanzhonggerenxingweide，fuqijiandeqingganjichujiudanle，jinjinzishenbukenrenkebale。shenmeshilengbaoli？hunhoulengzhangaizenmechuli？

 zenmechulijiatinglengbaoli？fufuzaiyiqijiuleyihou，haoxiangdoubianchengpianzigongsi，yiqiandeshanmenghaishi，buqibulidoubeiwangdeyiganerjing，shuangfangdouzhizibutiyiqian，rutongdouwangjileyiban，xianzaiyoudezhinengzhengzhi，sheiyekanbushunyanshei，shifuqiguanxiyulaiyudan。shenmeshilengbaoli？hunhoulengzhangaizenmechuli？

weihefufuzaiyiqideshijianyuezhang，qingganfandaohuiyuedanni？

fuqiguanxiyulaiyulengmo，“meiyouhuashuo”，tongchangyouyuzheisigexiguanxinggangkaishi

1、两人把钱分到很清

zidajiehunyihou，nigennanshengcongwuhuabushuo、bufenbicidaohuxiangfangbei，richangshenghuochongmanlejinjinjijiao

zuizhongliangrenbaqianfendaohenqing，jianxinzheiyigequanguochengdajiashitianmanzhexinsuanhewukenaihede。

fuqijianyidanbaqianfendaohenqing，liangrenzaiyiqiyishizhuxingjiuzaisuonanmianyouyixiejiedi。

tangruonvxingyinglihurantigao，nanshengmashanghuiyouhenxianzhudeqifuheweijigan，huizaochengzibeigan

ernvxingkendingshizhigaoqiyang，bubananshengdanghuishi，jishinanshengpengdaokunnan，yeshibuwenbuwen

yaobujiushishuoweileqianerzhengzhi，zaineiyangdezhuangkuangxia，liangrendangranhuizaochengqingganshangdejiedi。

2、夫妇沟通交流越来越低，欠缺内心上的沟通交流

yingxiaotuiguangjiecengjingshuoguo，“yiqienantidejieshu，doulaizigoutongjiaoliu，meiyougoutongjiaoliunanyijiejuedenanti，”

youcikejiangoutongjiaoliuduirenherenzhijiangoutongjiaoliudebiyaoxing，xuduofufushihunhou，zhongjiandehuayuelaiyuedi

 youdebuxiangshuo，youxieshiqueshiwuhuashuo，buguannayizhongqianquegoutongjiaoliudefufushihenweixiande。shenmeshilengbaoli？hunhoulengzhangaizenmechuli？

zhangqineiyang，jiuzhuanbianchengmingcunshiwangdefufuyibantongchu

jinguanyongyoufufuzhiming，keshixinqueyuelaiyueyuan，zaiyiqichunsuishidahuoguorizi。

 zenmechulijiatinglengbaoli？yinciqinfengoutongjiaoliushitishengfuqiguanxihenzhongyaodeyidian，yeshiduilingyifangdezhongshi，lirunishashiyebuhelingyifanggoutongjiaoliujiuzishenjuecele，nijuedelingyifanghuiruhexiang，zuixianxiangqideshinibuzhongshita。

 liangrengangkaishixiufugoutongjiaoliushi，rutong2gelurenzaiwenhao，zheishidajiacaihuihaipakongju，yuanxianlengbaoliqueshinengrangganqingbiandan。

3、相互之间猜忌

zairujin，liangrendehunyinshenghuochuxiannantideyuanguni，yeyouyidian，jiushishuoxianghuzhijiancaijidaozhide

 zongganjuelingyifangdeganleyixiebaoqianzishendeshier，meiyouxinlaigan，cailaicaiqu，zaocheng liangrenzhongjiandeqinggandeyulaiyubujinrenyi

zheizhongquanshijiaoweibihuide。zaihunyinshenghuozhizhongni，ninengneiyangxiang，jirandajiazaoyizaiyiqile。

neima，nijiuxuyaomeiyouliyoudequxinlailingyifang，ruguonixianxinlailingyifangdeqingkuangxia，tayehuijijiduinitiaoming

shijishangnanshengjiushizheigemoyangde，dangniyuefacaiyitadehua，neimatajiuyounaxieshieryebuyuanyigennishuo

 keshidangnijijixinlaita，meiqucanyutadeyixieshierdehua，neimafandaozaipengdaoyixieshierdeqingkuangxiani，tahuijijideduinishuo。

 zheizhongyeshizhihou.woyishidaode，youyudangshidewo，doubumingbairuhehunyinjingying。keshijianjiandidechuaimoyejiuchuaimochuleyixieluzi。

4、夫妇彼此对情感的努力不对等

 wulunshiganqinghuanshihunyinshenghuo，quanshiduidengdecaikeyigengweizhangqi，jiaruyifangnulile100，erlingyifangbujinbunuli100，fandaoquejuede，niduiwohaoshiyingdangde，shijianzhangle，nulideyifang，huimanmandexinhan，naizhihuijiangdimanmandenuli，zheigeshihou，lingyifangjiujuedelingyifangfashengbianhua，meiyouzhiqianhaola。

 yeyoujiushishuoyifangzhilejieyiweidenuli，naizhibeiweideaizhe，erlingyifangquecongrongdejiena，neiyangbeiweideaizhongjiushiburongyizhangqide，danxuduorenyaoshuo，ganqingyuanbenjiushishuobukeyitushouyide，weiyounirenzhennulijiukeyile，keshinikeyilejieshi，ganqingyeba，hunyinshenghuoyeba，quanshibixuyunyingde，jiurutongyanghuayiyang，xiangyaoniqujiaoguan、shangfei，neiyangcaikeyishiqijiankangchengzhang，xiangfan，bazhongzisaxiaqujiuqidaizishenchengcai，zhangchuzishenqidaidemoyang，zheizenmekeneng。

 hunyinshenghuozhong，fuqijianganqingbiandandeyuanguyouhenduo，guanjianyuanguhuanshibicitaiguodurenxin，bumingbaifufujiaowangjiqiao，bumingbaizenyanggengqiangdequyunyingzishendehunhoushenghuo

 liangrenlianaiduoshaoniancaikeyizuihouxiudezhengguo？zongsuanbuweijiannanjiehunle，kedajiaxianghuquepianyaobuaixizheibanmeihaodeqingchunsuiyue，yiweideyibianwuguanjinyaodeshizhengtiannaoxinzhengzhi，nandaoshuodajiazaoyiwangjiledangshidelixianghezhuiqiuwanmeilemeiyou？

 hunyinshenghuojinjindajiamaixiangxingfudeshenghuodeyizhangzhongguoxianggangtongxingzheng，xingfukuaileyiqianyizhitianmanjiankuhetongkude，youshihouhuijinibaoshoubaibanzhemo，youshihouhuijinishiluowunai，keshiyiqiedejianxinquanshizuigaide，laotianyejiushishuochuiainuli、nulideren，dengzheniganwudaoleshenghuodezhendi，dajiazhongjiuhuihuimengxiangchengzhen。

hunyinshenghuo，dequeshiyichangxiuxi，shiyouba2geyuanxianyagenwuguanjinyaoderenzuchengzaiyiqi。

zheiyiduanhunyinshenghuokefouxingfukuaile，gendajiajiejuenantidexintaiyeshitingdaguanliande

suoyishuo，wulunpengdaoshenmeshiqing，qidaikeyijilaoyidian，nizenmeduita，tayehuiruhekandaini

 hunhoulengzhangaizenmechuli？yaoxianghunyinshenghuoxingfukuailedehua，huanshiduoyidianzhenxinshiyibijiaohao，lingwaijihunyinshenghuoyinruyixiexinxiandexueye，neiyangdeqingganhuigengzhangjiuyixie。