面对丈夫冷战怎么办？妻子应该怎么做

 lengbaolilihunhaiyouwanhuidejihuima？hunyinshenghuorutongrenshenglushangdeyigechakou，buyiyangderentiaoxuanlebuyiyangdefangwei，jieguozaocheng lechedibuyiyangdejieguo，xuduorenzaihunyinshenghuolihuodexingfukuaile，xuduorenzaihunyinshenghuolechangdaotongchu。zaoyulengzhanzenmeban？hunyinzhongzaoyujiatingbaolizenmechulibijiaohao？

 hunyinshenghuozhishi，shizhibajiubuyi，xuduorendehunyinshenghuohuizailebunengyucefenxidehunwailian，xuduorendehunyinshenghuohuizailezaojiuyiliaode“qinianzhiyang”。lengbaolilihunhaiyouwanhuidejihuima？dabufendefufuquanshijingliguolejiehundetianmei，suihoulijingshijiandebianhua，tihuilaidaohunyinshenghuolidelengdan，turanzhijian，hunyinshenghuojiudabianyang，meiyouyiqiedezhengzhaohechuxianyiwai。zaoyulengzhanzenmeban？hunyinzhongzaoyujiatingbaolizenmechulibijiaohao？

 zaiqinshenjingliyiduanpingdanqideqingkuangxia，fuqijiandeqingganhuibianqian，nvxingfeichangrongyizaihunyinshenghuojuededaoxinrusihui，tihuibushanglaogongdeai，zheigeshihou，zuoweinvxing，hebuqinggaohaosanjianshi。

1.想办法为衣食住行提升一些趣味性

 yeliliudadeqingkuangxia，xiaoyzaiqianmianwangqianzou，laogongdixiatoukanshoujizaihoumiangensui，liangrenyijuhuameiyou，kandaoqianbianloukouyiwangdeyiduixianghuzhijianqianzhenidelaofuqi，xiaoycaifaxian，zishenrujinhezhangfuzhongjianzaoyimeiyoufenhaodeqinmiwujiankexunle。

 xiaoyhezhangfuwanhunzaoyiershinian，youlianggehaizi，zaoyijinrulegaoxiao，qinpenghaoyoudoushuo，xiaoyzhihounenggoudunzhexiangfubaole，shenghuohuifanguoyuehaode，keshixiaoylejie，zishendeyishizhuxingbingbuxingfukuaile。xiaohaidouchuwaidudaxue，jiazhongzhinengzishenhelaogong，2gesishisuiduodefufu，zaijialideqingkuangxiazaoyimeiyouhuashuole，jiazhongkanqilaijiqiqingjing，lingrenxinhan。

 fuqijiandeqingganfangfomeiyoule，keshiyemeichanshengguoshenmedadeshier，laogongmeiyouguogui，yehengujia，keshixiaoyjiushishuoganjuelaogongzaoyibushandaizijile。zaijialideqingkuangxia，laogongyaoburushui，yaobukanshouji，burongyijijihezishenjianghua。

 zishenhelaogongjianghua，laogongyejiushisuiyiyingyiju。zishennanshoudeqingkuangxia，laogonghenlengmo，burongyihenguanzhuzishen。jishiliangrenyiqiwaichu，yebuhuiyiqixingzou，daduoshushiyiqianyihou，rutongmeiyoubingjideluren。xiaoyganjue，bibushangchangshigenggaiyixianeiyangdeqingkuang。

 yincizaishiyideqingkuangxia，xiaoylazhelaogongqulvyoule，laogongmeiyoushenmexihao，keshipaisheshiyige。jushuoqulvyou，laogongyehenkaixin，yincihezishendepenyoutanting，zawanhaowaner，huijiadeqingkuangxiayehuihexiaoyyiqifanganruhejiaotongchuxing，wanjiri，shijidaoshenmelvyoujingdianwan，neiyiduanshijian，xiaoylaogongshuodehua，biyiwangyigeyuedouduo。

 qulvyoudeqingkuangxia，xiaoyshuoxiangchenghuoche，jinguanlaogongxinbuganbukende，keshihuanshitongyile，zaishijigezhongtoudeyingzuoshang，xiaoyzuozhekaochuanghudebuwei，laogongzuozhetazhouwei。chimiantiaodeqingkuangxia，laogongjijiqubangxiaoyjieshui；xiaoytaileilejiukaozailaogongdejianbushangrushui；wanshanglengdeqingkuangxialaogonghuijixiaoygaiyixiawaiyi，xiaoyhuranjiuzhaodaoneishihougangwanhunqingkuangxiadejuede。

 qulvyoudeqingkuangxia，youyuzaimoshengdechengshi，zaijiarenyouduo，fufuliangrenhenpabeibierenjisankai，yincilaogongyilushangdouhuiqianzhexiaoydeshou。youshiyudaotediandetesexiaochi，xiaoyhuiyiwangmaishangyifen，suihouhezhangfuyiqichi。kandaofeichanghaodelvyoujingdiandeqingkuangxia，zhangfuhuijixiaoypaishezhaopian，naizhiyeyouzhaorenpaideheyingzhaopian。lvyoudejiri，liangkouzideqingganhaodaobuhao，xiaoyhuranganjue，hunyinshenghuoyebushineiyiyangdefawei。

 lengbaolilihunhaiyouwanhuidejihuima？neiyihou，xiaoymashanghuichangchanghelaogongyiqiquwan，meiyiciquanshiliangren，liangrendeqingganyeshiyuebianjiuyuehao。zaijialideqingkuangxia，liangkouzizhongjiandehuajiuduole，changchangliaoxieyouwanjingdian，yeyouzishenpenyoulaidaoshenmewandedifang。zaoyulengzhanzenmeban？hunyinzhongzaoyujiatingbaolizenmechulibijiaohao？

2.坚守住婚姻的道德底线

 lzaihelaogongjiehunwuniandeqingkuangxia，liangrendehunyinshenghuojiuzhishengyudanerwuweidepingshi，meileyiqiedereqinghelanman。meirilaogonghuizhunshixiabanlehuijia，keshiquecongbuhuijitadaiyiqiedexiaolipin。tadeshengchen、qixijie、yeyouliangrendejiehunzhounian，laogongyedouwangle，meiyiciltideqingkuangxia，laogongdoushishuo，yigeshijianbale。

 laogonghenlengdan，zheiyidianranglganjuelaogongqueshibushandaizijide，meiyicizaikanjudeqingkuangxia，kandaodianshilianxujulinanzhuhenvzhujiaojianeileitianmeidehudongjiaoliu，ldoushiganjuexianmubuyi，benlaizishenyeshilaogong，keshiquemeiyoufenhaodetianmei。jiuzailduilaogongxinrusihuideqingkuangxia，lzaiwangluoshanglejieleyigenanwangmin。

 nanwangminhenfengqu，changchanghuijijizhaolxianliao，youshikandaolfadeweixinpengyouquan，mashanghuimashangguanzhu，juededaoldexinqingyumen，nanwangminmashanghuisixinl，wenlzenmela，suihouhenyoumodibaldougaoxingle。youshiyelideqingkuangxia，nanwangminyehuilaizhaolxianliao，linshuiqiandeqingkuangxia，haihuijixuhelshuo“wananhaomeng”。

 shijianjiule，kanjianjiazhongduizishenlengdandelaogong，xiangqizheiyiduanrangzishenshiluodehunyinshenghuo，zaibizhaonanwangmindefengquhetiexin，lzongsuanannaibuzhu，tongyilehenanwangmindeyouhui。

 yejiushineishigangkaishi，yifayifabukeshoushi。yibianshiduizishenguanhuaibeizhidenanwangmin，rangltihuilaidaochuliandeganjue，yifangmianshibingliangdelaogong，zaijialideqingkuangxiacongbuhuijijiguanzhuzishen，ljiushizheiyangxianzaihunwailianliyifayifabukeshoushi。

 zuochuqudeshi，doushiyoubeibierenlejiedeqingkuangxia，ldewaiyu，huanshibeilaogongzhidao。yizhijianmodelaogong，jinbuzhufeijinxinsidal，keshizuihoumeiyouzheshou。

 laogongmingquetichuleliyi，xiaohaiguilelaogong，lyixialebianchengdanshendenvxing。erzheiweinanwangmin，zaihelxiangchuyiduanshijianhou，shanchulelquanbudelianxidianhua，chedizaildeyishizhuxinglixialuobumingle。eryouyuwaiyudeshier，lbeizishendefumukanbushang，buyuanyizaijianleta。

 suoyourendehunyinshenghuodoushilijingyiduanpingdanqi，keshi，zheibingbingbushichuguinvrendeyuanyin。huoxuniyezaihunyinshenghuolijuededaofawei，ganshoudaolaogonglengdandexintai，ganjueneiyangdehunyinshenghuozishenyaoxiangtaochu。keshi，zheidoubingbushinvxingnenggouwaiyudeyuanyin。jibianqueshibuxingfukuaile，nvxingyeyingdangjianshouzhuhunyindedaodedixian。

3.加深了解和沟通交流

 jiehunshiniandeqingkuangxia，xiaoxganjuezishendeyizhilizaoyizuodaolejixian。laogonghuanshineifengongzuo，xinshuizhangle，keshibiedeyipiankongbaibian。xiaohaizhangdayihou，wenhuajiaoyudeshierrangzishentoutong，gonggongpopoyenianjidale，bixuzijizuodeshieryulaiyuduo，danshilaogongqueshiquandouwulun，meirijihaozishendeban，butanjiazhongdeyiqieshi。youshixiaoxhuihelaogongmaiyuanyiliangju，laogongyejinjinshuo：nayouneimeduoshi，meitianmeishierweizijizhaomafan。

 zaixiaoxdeyanli，laogongfangyanwangqujiushishuogongzuozhong，meirishangzhewuguantongyangdegongzuozhong，quecongbuhuiganshouzishendejianxin。zailaogongdeyanli，zishenriyejianchengdegongzuo，zaiqiyeliyizhidouwufadedaozishenyaoxiangdegaoduzhongshihezhongshi，zishenhenjianxin，danshixiaoxzaijialiquandoubugan，lianyixiewuguanjinyaodesuoshidouyeyaowenyixiaziji。jiushizheiyang，liangrendefenqiyulaiyuduo，zuizhongdoubuyuanyihelingyifangduoshuohuale。

 yanjianzhejiazhongdeqifenyulaiyujiroujiangying，zaicanzhuoshangxiaohaixiaoxindichizhefanbuganshuohua，xiaoxzongsuanrenbuzhule。zhaoleyigelibaitian，xiaoxbaxiaohaisonglaidaoniangjia，suihouzaijialihelaogonghaohaoditantaoleyixia。xiaoxjiangguozishendeniantou，shuozijizaijiahenjianxin，meiriyaozuodeshieryedouhelaogongjiangguoyibian，baohanrujinjiazhongdeyixienanti，laogongtingzhexiaoxdehua，ganjuehenchayi。

 xiaoxjiangwanyihou，laogongyejiangguozishendeniantou，tajiushishuoganjuexiaoxbulijiezishen，yincitabazaigongzuoshangdekunaodouhexiaoxjiangguoyibian，xiaoxhuranganjuelaogongyehenbuyi。

zaixianghulijiedezhuangkuangxia，xiaoxhelaogongliguoliyuefasanzhang：

1.yushangjiannanhuoshishiduilingyifangyoujianyideqingkuangxia，lijishuochulai，bubizangzheyezhe，yebukeyilengbaoli；

2.zhihoujiazhongdedashierliangrenyaoyiqishangyizhelai；

3.zaixiangjiannantideqingkuangxiaduogoutongjiaoliu，pingchangdeqingkuangxiaduolejielingyifang。

 yongyouzheiyuefasanzhangzai，fufuliangrenjiaowangqilaiguozhenyuelaiyuejianyixuduo。xuduoshierouqiyiqishangyi，xunsujiuhuodelechuli，youyuhuxianglijie，daliangduoyudefenqimeile，zaixiangjiannantideqingkuangxia，liangrenxuehaozuoxialaishangyile，canzhuoshang，fufushuozhehua，haizizuozheyibianyegesanchawudimianchazuoshangyiliangju，kanqilaihemuxuduo。

 zaoyulengzhanzenmeban？changbaoxinxiandehunyinshenghuozhongjiushijigebie，dabufendehunyinshenghuoquanshiyoutianmideaiqing，zuizhongzhuanhuanchengle“runwuwusheng”dezhenqing，yinci，nvxingzaiwanhundeqingkuangxiajiuyingdanggaohaoneiyangdetiqianzhunbei。danghunyinshenghuolijingshijiantundiaoledangshidetianmeidelanmandeqingkuangxia，nvxingfeichangrongyijuededaoxinrusihui，keshi，haiqingnvxinggaohaozheisanjianshi。