婚后冷战怎么办？聪明的女人懂得这样维护婚姻

 tanlianaifeichangrongyi，hunyinshenghuoburongyi，younicaixingfu。jiabaolihunhouyinggaizenmechuli？hunyinshenghuoshiyigenvrenchongjingheqidaidejizhiguichu，keshiyichanghunyinshenghuokeyicongyizhizhongdetianmeixialai，shibixuyidingfangfaherenzhenquyunyingde，jinguanaiqingshihunyinshenghuodeyuandongli，keshiyunyingcaisuanshihunyinweichixialaidequdongli。zaoyujiatingbaolideyouxiaochulifangfayounaxie？yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？zaihunyinshenghuozhong，nvxingyingdangzuoyigeshouwangzhe，yingdangjinanshengchongyudeshineikongjianquzuotamenzijixianggandeshier，baohantamendegongzuo。

 jiabaolihunhouyinggaizenmechuli？zaiyidingshuipingshangjiang，bianshinvxingbuyinggaiyizhizhanzainanshengshenpang，buyinggaicaozongnansheng，keshiyebubirangnanshengganjueniliangyoumoshenggan，zheicaisuanshiyizhongbenlinghegongzuonengli。wulunzenyangshuo，nvxingdouyingdangyaoxuehaoqushouhaozishendehunyinshenghuo，neiyangdenvxingcaisuanshiyigequdechenggongdenvxing！zaoyujiatingbaolideyouxiaochulifangfayounaxie？yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？

一、女人要恋家

 shenmejiaoaijia，bianshibajiafangzaixinshangguanjiandebuweishang。jinguannvxingyeshizishendegongzuo，keshigongzuozhiyu，bazhangfu、xiaohaifangzaixinli，shaodianjiaoji，choushijianbajiazhongzhenglideganjingzhengjie、jiqinrenzuoxiemeiweikekoufanshi，rangzhangfumeiridouganjuejiazhongshengjiangran、wennuankaixin，shexiang，jigenanshengtaoyanhuineiyangdejia？

二、学好“粘”住丈夫

 zhangfuzaijialishi，kanjiantajiaruxinqingbucuo、bingbushitinglei，nenggou jiaozhezhangfuyiqiganganhuoer，liru：yiqizhufan，zhufandelingwainenggou suiyixianliao，rangzhangfuqinshenzhangshao，erqieduitadezhuyaobiaoxianshichangdezanyu，jianxinxiayicihaowuyiwenhaihuijixuyouneiyangdexiangchusuiyuede。

 yiqikandianshi，jibiannimeitaixiaikan，yaoshilaogongxihuan，nikeyichoushijianpeizhe，tahuixiangnitanyitanganshou，ganjuehenizaiyiqizhenkaixin。ninengsuiyidibatuiqiaozaitadedeshenshang，yiqiheyincha、yiqihahadaxiao、aitan，neiyangdejiaowangdajiadoukaixin。

 laogongbuzaijiadeshenghuoli，chengnuomeitianzaoshangtadianhuajiaonixinglai，nidiashengdiaqidiwenhaojisheng，tagongchuchuwaiyeshishifeifeixiangzhenibunengde！

三、爱惜丈夫的情面

 zuixian，nvxingwubizunzhongzhangfu，zhangfushifanfusuzi，haowuyiwenwaibianxuduorenbitaqiang，keshi，tajiushinidezhangfu，zainidexinzhongzhongtabianshishide！bubibaoyuanzishendezhangfu，youqishizaigongzuoshang，nishitajuedebuzixin，tahaowuyiwenhuishengshunide。

 bazhangfuchuanzhedabandezhengjiededang，suyushuo“xukanjialiqi，nanshengdeshenshangyi”。cuiculaogongqinhuanchenshan、gaohaozhangfudefuzhuangcanmouzhang，rangzhangfujuedezainiyannitashizuikude，tadeqingmianbianshijiayouxianqidebiaoming。zaoyujiatingbaolideyouxiaochulifangfayounaxie？yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？

buyaozaibierenyanqianzeguaizhangfu。tashihunyinshenghuojihui，yicineiyangdezhuangkuangbianhuirangzhangfunanguomishi、nanyiwanghuai。

四、女人要爱护自身

 quqishengzihou，yaogengweizhongshizishendepinpaixingxiang，shenzhishibijiehunqiangengtaiguo。meitianbazijichuanzhedabandehaokanxinxin，zhangfujinidepinpaixingxiangxiangmutouziyeganxinqingyuan。najiananshengtaoyanzishendexifurongguanghuanfa，zheiyeshitadeqingmiana！zaishuole，tademuguangkanxifuhaigubudaoni，naliyouxiankongqukankanqitanvxing？

五、女性不必做丈夫的裂头蚴

 jiabaolihunhouyinggaizenmechuli？zuishaoyaoyougongzuonenglizhonghuozishen，youzishendegongzuo。wobenrenjuede“jiatingzhufu”zhiyoushilinshizhuangkuang，yibianzhaoliaoyouniandexiaobaobaonenggou linshidangyihui，keshi，nvxingwubiyaoyouzishendegongzuozhong，erqiechixudetishengzijidezhishicengmian，bubirangzhangfuganjuenijiushige“dahuaping”。

六、做丈夫的工作压力缓存者

 rujindeshehui，nanshengdeyalidale，shichangjingzhengfeichangqiangda，jiaruzhangfuyongyouneiyangneibandegongzuoyali，nvrenyaoxiangbanfabangzheyiqilaikang。“tonggangongku”jiuzaiyishizhuxingdegongzuoyalizhongfanying。

 zhangfuyibianjia、gongzuochuwaijiaoji、nuli，nvxingbubiguoduobaoyuan，jiarujuedetayixiediquguofen，nenggou shidudeweiwantishi。liru：shengengbanyeshiyidianlehaimeiyouhuijiale，nenggou falewennuandeduanxiaoxi；jiaruzaicheshangchulaijiaojiyouhejiule，nvxingkezuohaozhangfudejiashiyuan。

七、争吵不留宿

 fuqijian，youzhengchaomeishier，padeshibulijixuehuifangxia。naxiefenqidangrijiangqing，guoyechougengchou。biezhuyiduziqixiexidajiadoufanmen，shangganqingshangrenti，yinci，jiranshihaofufu，jiuyounaxiejiangshenmeba。

八、尊重丈夫的亲朋好友

 zuixianshixiaojinggonggongpopo，gaozhizhangfu，tadebabamamajiaodaonini，ranglaogongbuyaocaolao。shijianjiule，gonggongpopolileneimehaodeerxidoubuxing，haipazhangfusipolianpi？jibianbutaihao，gonggongpopodangranyejiushinijianqiangdehoudun。

 duilaogongdepengyouwenminglimaoqinjin。zhangciyiwang，dahuoerjiulejiezhangfudeneidangjiadeshifenyouxiuyang，wuxinghaopingdeyujudangranchuanruzhangfudeerduoli，tahaowuyiwenhuifanbeideaixihaoqizide。

九、交给老公一点空间

 jiehunhouxuduonvxinggangkaishiduilaogonggezhonggeyangxianding，gezhonggeyangyichengbubian，qidailaogongmeiriquanshijinjinweiraozishenyishizhuxing，yizhaozishensuodingzhidebiaozhunquzuo，quanbushierdouguanzhe，gengweiqidailaogongshenpangzhinengzishenyigenvren，qitanvxingyebudanghuishi。

 keshinilizailaogongdeshijiaoxiang，sheihuixiangshizhongyouyigerenzaijiankongqizishendeyiqie，rangzishenmeiyouyinsibaohu，yitiandaowanrutongyisibuguazhirenyiyang。sheidouburongyixiangyaozheiyangzi。yinci，wanhuihunyindefangfa，qingshanggaodenvrenhuimingbaijiaojilaogongyidianyinsibaohu，lingwaiyejiaojilaogongyidianxinlai，huandede，shilaogongduitazuizhenzhidezhongshi。

 yudaohunhoulengzhanyinggaizenmeban？zhenzhengdeaiqingtianmeide，hunyinshenghuoshiganqingdechixu，eryiduanhunyinshenghuodexingfukuaileshifoutongchangbujinshiyinweiaideshuipingjuecede，bawoyidinghunyinjingyingdegongzuonenglicaisuanshihunyinshenghuoxingfukuailedezhongyao。yinci，nvxingyingdangyingyongyixiefangfaquxuehaoshouhaonansheng，shouzhuhunyin，zhenshibianchengyigexingfudenvren！